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== December 19 ==


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* [[Joy]].
* ''148 days for Gina and Joseph.''
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* Faith 'n' Reason Friday.
* Any topic OK.
* All callers welcome.
:; Last few days of Advent  —  St. John the Baptist, pray for us!


:; Luke 1:76


[[Gina's notes]]
:: You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High;
:: for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way,
:: to give his people knowledge of salvation
:: by the forgiveness of their sins.
* [[Prayer to St. John the Baptist]]  
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== 25 January ==
* From John on Facebook (''he may post this question on Facebook during the show''): Some of my friends argue that there is no need for a priesthoodIn the Bible, the term is used only of the Old Testament priests who served in the Temple. In the New Testament, the terms "episcopos" and "presbyter" are used, not "priest."  How can I answer this challenge to the Catholic understanding of priesthood?
* [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_of_Paul_the_Apostle Feast of the Conversion of Saint Paul the Apostle.]
* Three days left in Nine Days of Prayer, Pilgrimage and Penitance.
* Prayer request from a recent caller for help in conceiving.
* [[Year of Faith]]
* [[Prayers from St. Paul]]
* Sandra from Denver, Colorado: I would like to know if God knows all of our decisions that we make through out all of our livesAlso, what is predestination?  Do Catholics belief in this idea?
* Dot from Rochester: Please pray for all those who attended the March today in DC, as well as for my blindness.
* Anonymous: She would like to know what the purpose of the collection for Catholic Relief  is for this coming weekend and does the money go directly to the cause?
* Kimberly: Is the Holy Mass the only time the Hosts are consecrated ?
* POLLY, from Tonawanda: Wants to ask Father if he saw any footage of the Pro-Life event today and if he believes this will have a positive effect on the HHS Mandate?
* Liz: Would like to know information on the Church teaching of Yoga.
* The first Michael from Rochester: ''lost the topic of this call.''
* Kim in Rochester would like to thank father for prayers last week as they had a very positive result!
* Other Michael from Rochester: Baltimore Catechism, "inclination to sin" (concupiscence).


== 18 January ==
== Treasury of Unanswered Questions ==
* National Vocation Awareness Week
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* End of the first week of Ordinary Time.
* [http://www.usccb.org/news/2013/13-017.cfm "U.S. Bishops Call For ‘Nine Days Of Prayer, Penance And Pilgrimage’ Surrounding 40th Anniversary Of Roe V. Wade."]
* [[Novena to the Infant Jesus]]
* Shelley from Nanimo, B.C., Canada via Facebook: I long to share Christ with others. What is the best way to answer people who say that Catholics are too judgmental?
* John from Facebook: I notice it seems like that every day is a feast for the Church. Is there any day that is not a feast?
* Yasmin from El Paso, Texas: I teach 2nd year communion to children ages 8-10 years of age. Recently, one of my students has been disturbed and frightened by voices she says she is hearing, telling her that God doesn't exist and to not believe. Her mom mentioned that she is very paranoid, and has started sleeping wearing her rosary, and lighting candles and having holy images near her. Not that this is something that is odd, but I was hoping you would have some advice on how to address this. I want her to know that whatever it is she is experiencing she shouldn't be scared. Maybe a prayer I can share with the kids ...? I would appreciate any thoughts you have on this.
* Freddie from chicago. IL: Wants to ask for prayers and a blessing for his new relationship (girlfriend)
* GINNY from Buffalo: Asks for prayers for her god daughter meghan who is having seizures and a friend's son scott who also suffers from seizures
* Kimberly: During the benediction when the Eucharist is exposed, why do the priests use incense? Also Father can you pray for my friends Jim and Chrissy. Chrissy is fighting stage four lung cancer and needs vital treatments which their health insurance will not cover. Her treatments have stopped until the medical bill can be covered.
* Alice from Batavia, NY: What is blessed hope? How does a man become a Cardinal?
* Kim from Rochester: Wants to ask about possible help available from parish/ catholic church with alcoholics
* MIKE from Welland, Ontario, Canada: Why is it necessary for priests to have a meeting with a couple before marriage and why does the couple need to attend a marriage prep class?
* Ale (uh-lay) from El Paso, Texas: Hello, I was noticing on your facebook page, that after your name, you have the title "International Priest of Mystery". What does this mean, exactly? Also, I really enjoy listening to your responses to questions asked, where would I be able to attend mass and listen to your homilies?


== 11 January ==
=== May the priest skip the "Deliver us from evil" prayer? ===
* My FIFTH anniversary as the regular guest on Faith 'n' Reason Fridays (!).
* Boston, Mass. At mass at our church, after the Our Father, the priest goes directly to "For the kingdom, the power, etc" and omits the prayer in between that says, "Deliver us, Lord, from every evil.." This seems to be an important and beautiful part of the prayer. Is it allowed to be omitted?
* SoloGina was away helping others.
=== Destroying unused genetic material from IVF procedures? ===
* Sunday is the [[Baptism of the Lord]] in the Roman rite.
* George. Bellingham, Mass. I was reading the catechism re: life issues. Regarding In Vitro Fertilization, if the sperm and egg are not viable, is it as morally unacceptable to destroy them as it would be if the sperm and egg are viable?
* Brian says Merry Christmas and Congratulations! Asks, "Fr. Marty could you do a 'St. Thomas for Dummies' version of the proofs of existence for God please?
=== What is Jesus doing now? ===
* Jackie. Buffalo, New York. Is IUI (intra-uterine-insemination)against the Catholic Faith? And what is the most effective way to prayer for infertility?
* Joe. Buffalo. What is Jesus doing in heaven now?
* Polly. Tonawanda, New YorkWhere in the Old Testament do we start taking this Scripture literally?
=== Are we not required to love our parents? ===
* Email #1 My aunt was married in the church, then she got a divorce and her husband remarried and she remarried outside of the Church and only in legal court. Both of them never requested an annulment. My aunt divorced again and her husband is still married to his second wife. It would seem to me they have both committed adultery and one still is. Would an annulment should the Church say it was not originally a valid marriage be able to clear this mess up and what would my aunt have to do to be in the proper graces of the Church? Also should she not be receiving Communion right now?
:; Homework from last Friday
* Martina writes, "Recently heard a visiting priest state in his homily that the god that Jewish and Christian religion worship is the same as Muslim’s “Allah”.  I know the first part is true but what about “Allah”?"
:* Rebecca from St. Petersburg asked about Dennis Prager's view that children only need to honor their parents, not love them.
* Suzanne. Buffalo, New York. In today's Buffalo News, there's an article about a teacher in a Cheektowaga High School who had some Christian items in her classroom and was asked to remove these from her roomShe complied, but is now suing the districtDo you have an opinion about this Fr. Marty?
::: Prager: "The bible understands that there will always be people who, for whatever reason, do not love a parentTherefore, it does not demand what may be psychologically or emotionally impossible, but it does demand that we honor our parents."
* Jackie also wants to know effective ways to pray about infertility, too...
::: Jesus: "What is impossible for you is possible for God.  Love your enemies; pray for those who persecute you.  Forgive seventy times seventy times!"
::: Yes, the parent-child relationsip is unique.
::: Yes, the family is the basic unit of society.
::: Yes, honor of parental is the glue that holds the family and therefore society together.
::: Yes, it is wrong for parents to seek to be "loved" as if they were the buddies of their babies. Parents must assert authority and children must yield to their parents' authority.  When push comes to shove, it is right for parents to say, "Because I say so."  This is often God's answer to our "why" questions, too.  There are some things we cannot see for ourselves until we have grown more.  Until that time, "because I say so" is the best answer.
=== Who is the greatest person "born of woman"? ===
* Shawn from Facebook: Jesus says in Matthew 11 that John the Baptist was the greatest person ever born of a woman. I thought CHRIST himself or Mary would be the greatest?
=== How do I regularlize my marriage? ===
* Anonymous from e-mail:  I have been married for 15 years to my current husband and would like to have the marriage recognized by the Church so that I can receive the sacraments.  I was first married in the Catholic Church. I was divorced from that man, and he has since died. I married another man in a civil service, then divorced him.  I married my third and current husband in a civil service.  He has been married in civil services and has been divorced twiceHe is not Catholic and is not baptizedHe has a hard time understanding why he has to participate in my annulment process. How should I explain it to him?


== 4 January ==
=== Did Jesus want us to mutilate our bodies? ===
* Anonymous from Facebook: Anonymous from Facebook: Christ tells us not to lust after someone, because it is adultery. He also commands us to pluck out our eye and cut off our hands if they cause us to sin. Why is it that I never hear Catholic or Protestants discuss this passage?


* [[Christmas_season#The_Twelve_Days_of_Christmas|Eleventh Day of Christmas]] (counting Christmas as day 1).  ''Merry Christmas!''
=== How to be chaste in marital relations? ===
* Memorial of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, Religious.
* Anonymous from Facebook: In what way is it appropriate to desire union with my spouse?  
* Sunday, January 6 is the Feast of the Epiphany.
:: [http://smile.amazon.com/Holy-Sex-Toe-Curling-Mind-Blowing-Infallible/dp/0824524713/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1415994991&sr=8-1&keywords=Gregory+Popcak%2C+%27%27A+Catholic+Guide+to+Infallible+Loving. Gregory Popcak, ''A Catholic Guide to Infallible Loving.'']
* [[Epiphany Prayer]].
:: [[Chastity in Marriage]].
* Steve C. from Facebook: I pray to St. Christopher, but I'm aware that there is some controversy about who he was, how he became a saint, and why he got demoted after Vatican II.  Can you clear up St. Christopher's status for me?
* Zach from Amherst: Were all the authors of the Bible Jewish? I thought I heard that Luke may have been a Gentile.
* The statement, "It is Semipelagian to say that Christ died or shed His blood for all men without exception" is declared and condemned as false, rash, scandalous, and intended in this sense, that Christ died for the salvation of the predestined alone, impious, blasphemous, contumelious, dishonoring to divine piety, and heretical."
* Jeff. Please pray for my dad Vern who is receiving test results this afternoon that could show he has serious lung issues.
* Linda from Ladies of the Lord: What is the prayer that people say when making the sign of the cross on their forehead, lips, and breast before the gospel is read?
:: [[Proclamation of the Gospel]]
* Rusty from Facebook: When picking a vocation for the Catholic Church, can you chose your vocation or is it assigned to you? I am considering a vocation and I am interested in being a diocesan exorcist.
* Mike from Rochester: Wants to wish happy new year and speak about evangilization
* Anonymous from Buffalo: Can you give advise on being married to a person that has developed mental illness
* Tafoya: I found out about 2 weeks ago that my son has been experimenting with marijuana. I am so scared, worried ,and heart broken. My son had strong faith was very involved with the church, a member of the youth group, an alter server and went on many trips with the church. He is now 19 years old and I just do not know what went wrong. i have talked to my son and he admitted to experimenting with marajuana. I do not know what to do. I pray 24/7. please pray for him his name is Daniel.
* Kim from Rochester: Asks for prayer  for her employment as she attended job interview today and has been unemployed since june 2012
* Scott from Rochester: Wants to ask about friend that has been away from church for 20 years and do they need to go to confession 1st
* Dan from Facebook: Is it permissible for Catholics to donate goods (canned foods, clothing, etc.) to the poor through the Salvation Army? The only reason I ask is that I understand that this is a pro-choice organization -- but my church is collecting clothing items for the Salvation Army during the Advent season.


== 21 December ==
=== Bl. Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago ===
* Fr. Illig died one year ago today.
* Gina Marie M. from Facebook: Could you do a program on [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlos_Manuel_Rodr%C3%ADguez_Santiago Blessed Carlos Manuel Rodríguez Santiago?] He cures cancer.
* The 13th baktun has ended; the 14th has begun.  We wish a blessed baktun to one and all!  One baktun = 394 solar years. The date on which the calendar will go to the next piktun (a complete series of 20 b'ak'tuns), at Long Count 1.0.0.0.0.0, will be on October 13, 4772.  That is 3000 years after the date I chose for the beginning of the end of the world in 1972!  Maybe I got the month and day correct.  :o)
:::  — [http://www.vatican.va/news_services/liturgy/saints/ns_lit_doc_20010429_rodriguez-santiago_en.html Vatican News Service biography of Blessed Carlos Manuel.]
* This is the last live show in 2012.  Next week will be filled with special Christmas programming selected by La Princessa.
::: —  "Vivimos para esa noche" — "We live for that night" == the night of the Easter Vigil, in which we recall Jesus passing from death to life on Easter Sunday.
* Gaudete week.
:::  —  "Charlie’s Beatification Process was indeed a swift one! Initiated in 1992, the positio on heroic virtues, lead to his status as Venerable as of July 7, 1997. The miracle for his beatification (cure of non-Hodgkins malignant lymphoma back in 1981) was approved on December 20,1999 by HH John Paul II. Thus, a record-making eight-year span, a first for lay actors!"
* [[O Antiphons]].
* Special Guest: [[Daniel W. Mruzek, Ph.D.]]
::* Sandy Hook murders.
::* children with disabilities and the holidays
::* disabilities and the Year of Faith.
* Maria from Buffalo: Has a daughter who is disabled and has question on topic of ausburgers.
* Chad from Rochester: What is the difference between autism and ausburgers?
* Christine from Rochester: How does autism affect the person's faith?
* Margeret from Rochester: Wants to speak on member of her parish that has autism and is a lector, altar server and who leads people to mass at community hospital.


== 18 December ==
=== Straight from Earth to Heaven? ===


* For Sr. Kay Serasera, NTBA: "''Gina locuta; causa finita est.''" Wisdom!  Be attentive!
* Shawn from FacebookIn the second letter to the Corinthians, it says: "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" (2 Cor 5:8). Does that mean that there is no [[purgatory]]?  Do we just die and go straight to Heaven?
* One week to Christmas!
::: "For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil" [http://usccb.org/bible/2cor/5:10 (2 Cor 5:10).]
* God has already given us everything we need before ''we'' realize we need it.
* "Do not be conquered by evil but conquer evil with good" [http://usccb.org/bible/rom/12:20 (Rom 12:20).]
* [[Take and Receive]].
* Philip from Indooroopilly: "Our Christmas trees in our shopping centres is just a tree with gold and silver balls. I was told by my bishop that the Christian tradition is to put a nativity scene under the tree and to have RED ornaments on the tree. I can understand the presence of the nativity scene, by why are red ornaments necessary?
::: [[Christmas colors]]
* I was wrong a few weeks ago when I said that all the baptized may receive the Anointing of the Sick. [http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P3M.HTM Can. 1004 §1:] "The anointing of the sick can be administered to a member of the faithful who, ''having reached the use of reason'', begins to be in danger due to sickness or old age." 
* John from Wilson, New York: I am struggling with the status of my fallen away brothers. I pray daily that they come back to the Church. My eldest brother I worry the most about mainly because of the following verse that I hope you can clarify for me:
:: Hebrews 6:4-6 - For it is impossible* to restore again to repentance those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they then commit apostasy, since they crucify the Son of God on their own account and hold him up to contempt.
:: When Paul refers to those who have tasted the Heavenly gift and then committed apostasy is he referring to the Eucharist and if so does that mean my brother who left the Catholic Church and is now a Baptist minister is guilty of apostasy?
:: Thank you Father for you answer and please pray for my family.
* Margaret from Cuyler, NY: Question about the shooter and the fact that he has autism.
* John: I would like to pray in thanksgiving for the blessing of my family and friends, the Church and the ministry of EWTN and The Station of the Cross, which continues to strengthen my faith.
* Gina from Niagara Falls: she is a nurse and wants to comment re. shooter and possibility of demonic possession.
* Heidi: I pray for God's grace to heal my broken heart, somehow during this depression. And if His will, bless my husband with wisdom to return. Or bless another man to love me after this divorce and annulment.
* Father can you explain how it is that we can "bless God"? eg. when we read "O God, we bless You and adore You."


== 14 December ==
=== Can the Church change the canon? ===
* Memorial of [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_of_the_Cross Saint John of the Cross (1542-1591),] priest and doctor of the Church. Founder of the Discalced Carmelites for men, following St. Teresa of Avila. Doctor of mystical theology. Imprisoned by his fellow Carmelites; had to escape from his cell.
* [[O Antiphons]].
* Sandra from Denver: and last Friday I listened to you, Fr. Marty, and I need a clarification about something you said.  Will you please respond to this question on Friday, Dec. 7 if possible.  I will be listening. You said that God’s mind can be changed through prayer.  I thought He was unchanging.
:: My sister, Charlotte from Florida, asked you on your radio station for prayers for her family.  I want to tell you that your prayers have definitely helped.  It is a miracle.
:: Also, will you pray for a special intention of mine.
* Scott from Rochester: asks what is meaning of Luke 10 where Jesus "rebukes" martha about her many concerns?
* Joel from Welland, Ontario: Please pray that I can find a full-time job.
* Debbie's mother Margaret passed away this week.  Mass intention for both Debbie and Margaret.
* Prayers for the victims and their families in today's [http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/state-police-respond-to-report-of-school-shooting-in-newtown-conn-lockdown-in-place/2012/12/14/df59a9aa-4602-11e2-8c8f-fbebf7ccab4e_story.html mass murder in Connecticut.]
* Michael from Rochester: Character in ''The Exorcist'' said that his greatest doubts came from "disagreements among people of good will."
* Jason from Rochester: Are Catholic schools today as good as they were 30 years ago?
* One guy called overnight and left a message that said he was so happy Fr. Marty called him from CAC he was sending another $20.
* Dolores from North Boston, NY: Has empathy for Father with regards to procrastination. She listened to Dr. Ray and he was talking about it today too. Looking for the virtues for the luminous mysteries.
:: http://www.ncregister.com/site/article/6865


== 7 December ==
* John from Facebook: Since it was the Catholic Church that decided the canon of the Bible, could the Catholic Church ever change the contents of the Bible by adding or removing books in the future?
* Tomorrow is December 8: Feast of the Immaculate Conception.  It is a holy day of obligation!  [http://wdtprs.com/blog/2012/12/wherein-fr-z-shows-provocatively-that-dr-peters-agrees-with-fr-z-after-all-in-the-matter-of-one-mass-for-back-to-back-holy-days-of-obligation/ Authorities disagree] about whether one Mass can satisfy both the obligation of the holy day and the obligation of Sunday Mass.
::: [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antilegomena Antilegomena:] These antilegomena or "disputed writings" were widely read in the Early Church and included the Epistle of James, the Epistle of Jude, 2 Peter, 2 and 3 John, the Apocalypse of John, the Gospel of the Hebrews, the Apocalypse of Peter (unique in being the only book never accepted as canonical which was commentated upon by a Church Father), the Acts of Paul, the Shepherd of Hermas, the Epistle of Barnabas and the Didache.
* Memorial of Saint Ambrose (340-397 AD), bishop of Milan and doctor of the Church. Chosen as bishop while still a catechumen.  "On 7 December 374 he was baptized, ordained as a priest, and consecrated as bishop. He immediately gave away his wealth to the Church and the poor, both for the good it did, and as an example to his flock" (1648 years ago today!) Baptized St. Augustine.  One of the four traditional doctors of the Latin Church. ''Meliglossos'': honey-tongued. Opponent of the Arian heresy in the West. He accepted local authority over local affairs: "When I am at Rome, I fast on a Saturday; when I am at Milan, I do not. Follow the custom of the church where you are." This gave rise to our English saying, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do."
* 71st anniversary of attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941.
* First Week of Advent.
* This coming Sunday's responsorial psalm (Ps 126):


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=== How to start spiritual direction? ===
Restore our fortunes, O LORD, <br>
* Anonymous. Massachusetts. I have felt for a long time that I need some type of spiritual direction and grounding. However, I'm not sure how to seek it out. Can you suggest a simple way to get started beyond my parish priest? Does it depend on how spiritually "developed" one is? Thank you.  
like the torrents in the southern desert. <br>
Those who sow in tears <br>
shall reap rejoicing.


Although they go forth weeping, <br>
=== Our Lady of the Americas? ===
carrying the seed to be sown, <br>
* Bob. Boston, NY. Could you tell me the story of the appearances of "Our Lady of the Americas" that occured around 1956?
They shall come back rejoicing, <br>
::: [[Marian_Theology#Apparitions_that_have_not_been_approved Apparitions that have not been approved.]]
carrying their sheaves.
 
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=== Good book for 4-year old who loves to pray? ===
* Philip from Indooroopilly (Brisbane), Australia: "If Catholics and orthodox were one church until 1054, then we have the same early church fathers and we should have the exact same beliefsSo how is it that we have [[LXX|different bibles]]? And how is it that we accept [[purgatory]] and they reject it? Did they reject it from the beginning or did we make it up later in time?"
* Jessica. Can anyone recommend a kid friendly book, or guide to teaching young kids about Jesus' death and resurrection? My son who is 4 loves going to Adoration and going though the Stations of the Cross.
* Anonymous from Williamsville, NY: "Do you know anything about a teen group called [[Young Life]]? My child came home wanting to join it and said it is a non-denominational Christian group of teens that meets to discuss Jesus and the Bible and have fun socializing, too.  Some web pages say it is okay for Catholics to attend; some say it is cult-like; some say it is based on Calvinistic principles.  What disturbed me the most, was an actual writing from the [http://apps.younglife.org/ServiceCenterDepartments/Training/LeadershipIandII/pdf/FYL-S1-Part15.pdf Young Life training manual] for leaders in how to deal with Catholic teens. It mentioned about how to talk to them about becoming "new Christians." A friend of mine said that as Catholics, we are not supposed to attend any non-Catholic prayer or Bible study groups.  Is that correctHow do I explain this to my child who really just wants to hang out with her friends?"
 
* Anonymous from e-mail (I think): What does the Church think about the neurosurgeon who wrote [[Proof of Heaven|''Proof of Heaven'']]Does his near-death experience really prove that there is life after life?
=== Love gives us free will ===
* Bonnie from Springville: nine prayer requests.
* David, Buffalo, NY. I wanted to add a comment about the conversation about free will that it is because we are beings that have the ability to love and also that God's love for us gives is free will.
* Mike from Rochester: wants to comment on seriousness of Catholic radio and how Church is doing with increasing vocations.
 
* Anonymous from Buffalo: Please pray for health, to find a job and special intentions.
=== Defending the faith in an irreligious world ===
* Anonymous from Victor, New York: Please pray that they find the lost relative they have been searching for, that another family member will have help with a behavioral problem, and for good financial resources to find a place for their family to live.
* Shawn from Facebook:  "In a pre-scientific understanding of the world, people naturally believed things happened because of the action of God, Angels, Demons, and the like; but now we can explain everything through the laws of science. We can see throughout history that religion, morals, and culture have evolved. How can we defend the faith in a world that seems to have no need of religion?"
* Elizabeth from St Catherines, Ont.: prayer requests for her friend that has a chronic illness and for herself for good outcome on health test results as she still has a young family to care for.
 
* Mary Jane from Wheatfield: how does a Catholic treat a person begging on a "street corner"?
=== May a couple marry who cannot consummate the vows? ===
* Ann, Massachusetts. I heard on the radio that a Catholic woman and man should not get married if they cannot consummate their vows because of a medical condition.  I cannot believe this could be right.
::: [http://www.ewtn.com/library/Doctrine/IMPOSTER.HTM EWTN library.]
::::: impotence is indeed an impediment to marriage
 
=== Slavery approved in the Bible? ===
 
* Anonymous.  According to scriptures, slavery is not considered immoral, however there are specific instructions on how to beat slaves correctly. Why did neither God or Jesus teach that owning another human being is immoral?  Nowhere is this stated in the bible!  Mark Twain wrote: "In all the ages the Roman Church has owned slaves, bought and sold slaves, authorized and encouraged her children to trade in them. Long after some Christian peoples had freed their slaves the Church still held on to hers. If any could know, to absolute certainty, that all this was right, and according to God’s will and desire, surely it was she, since she was God’s specially appointed representative in the earth and sole authorized and infallible expounder of his Bible.  There were the texts; there was no mistaking their meaning; she was right, she was doing in this thing what the bible had mapped out for her to do. So unassailable was her position that in all the centuries she had no word to say against human slavery."
 
=== Consecration to Mary? ===
 
* Shawn from Facebook: How can Catholics consecrate themselves to Mary? She is not God.  Isn't it a sin against the First Commandment to vow yourselves to her service?
 
=== Conflicting Scripture Passages ===
 
* John from Facebook: In a recent Sunday reading from 1 Kings, God said to Solomon, "I give you a heart so wise and discerning that there has never been anyone like you until now, nor after you will there be anyone to equal you" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/1kings/3:12 (1 Kings 3:12).] But in Matthew, it says, "There is something greater than Solomon here" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/matthew/12:42 (Matthew 12:42).] How do you reconcile the two passages?
:: Similar kind of conundrum: What did Jesus mean when He said that "Amen, I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/matthew/11:11 (Mt 11:11)?] Wasn't Mary greater than John the Baptist through her Immaculate Conception?
:: And, of course, "all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/romans/3:23 (Rom 3:23)].  Doesn't that mean that Mary and Jesus were both sinners?
:: "No sign will be given this generation except the sign of Jonah, for just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth" (Mt 12:40).
 
==== Followup question from John ====
John from Facebook:
 
* If the church teaches us not to read passages literally, why does it not apply this to the teachings on the supper of The Lord or giving Peter the keys to the kingdom? How does the Church discern what should be taken literally and what isn't? My non Catholic friends say the Church chooses to take literally those passages that support her doctrinal position. '''''After all the churches authority comes from reading the passage on the keys given to Peter literally doesn't it?'''''
 
=== Can Mary bless us? ===
* Shawn from Facebook: I heard a priest say the rosary. He said, "May Mary bless you with her holy child." How can Mary bless us with anything? She has no power outside of Christ.
 
=== Boys will be boys? ===
* Anonymous from Facebook: Your 12-year old catches about 10 dragonflies, takes their wings off, and puts them in a cup “because he wants to see them fight.” Is that just boys being boys? Or do you tell him that it’s wrong to hurt animals for fun? He has Reactive Attachment Disorder which causes me additional concern.
 
=== Tips for Lay Evangelization? ===
; From the "Ask a Priest" page on [http://thestationofthecross.com TheStationOfTheCross.com:]
 
: Michael: The Pope has called lay people to evangelize. I very heatedly expressed my objections to a fictional TV show which portrayed a catholic priest in a very negative way.  A high school senior responded to my criticisms by expressing a desire for God, but he also expressed some reservations about God and showed a real lack of knowledge of the faith.  How about having a show where people call in to discuss their ideas for lay evangelization and talk about their successes or failures in bearing witness to the tremendous hidden treasures of our faith?
 
=== How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God? ===
:* How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God?  Maybe two make an explicit claim — Jeremiah and Revelation.
 
::: Jeremiah: "Take a scroll and write on it all the words I have spoken to you about Israel, Judah, and all the nations, from the day I first spoke to you, from the days of Josiah, until today" (36:2).
 
::; [http://www.catholic.com/tracts/proving-inspiration "Proving Inspiration."]
 
::: What about the Bible’s own claim to inspiration? There are not many places where such a claim is made even elliptically, and most books in the Old and New Testaments make no such claim at all. In fact, no New Testament writer explicitly claims that he himself is writing at the direct behest of God, with the exception of John, the author of Revelation.
 
=== Taped evidence — nursing home ===
* Luisa from "Ask a Priest" ''[today]'': My mother was in the nursing home up until she passed away. We placed a camera in her room because they kept dropping her.  Although the policy of the nursing home prohibits recording sound in the patients' bedrooms, by accident, some of our videos recorded the nurses abusing my mother verbally. May I use these recordings in good faith to bring an action against the nursing home?
 
=== Why can't women preach in Church? ===
* From a pastor who listens to the show: When you answered Betsy's question on August 4th about how women can preach the gospel even though they are not allowed to read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy, you dodged the question of why women and laymen cannot read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy.  I may not be the smartest kid on the block, but I can tell when someone is ducking a tough question! :o) ''[Note well: this priest is a very good and orthodox priest, and he is a friend of mine.  This is a kind and well-meaning question, not a screed in favor of abandoning the Church's tradition!  I think it is a good question.]''
 
=== NFP for a pre-menopausal couple? ===
 
* Anonymous from [http://www.thestationofthecross.com/ "Ask a Priest"] on the Station of the Cross website — ''spend a little time explaining how to find and use this page on the website.  My impression is that it is right on the front page, down at the bottom.  That's how I see it, anyway, using a browser; I couldn't find it on the iCatholicRadio app.  "Submit your questions for a priest to answer live on Calling All Catholics, airing weekdays from 5-6 pm ET."''
:: I am concerned whether my husband and I are committing a mortal sin in our intimate relations. Because I am pre-menopausal, the signs of our fertile time are very uncertain, so I can't tell with much confidence when we are in a fertile time in our relationship. We used to use Natural Family Planning, but now we are not completing the marital act in a natural fashion.  My health is poor, and we do not want to become pregnant at this time in our marriage.  Are we committing a sin by not completing the marriage act normally?
:::: '''''BE POSITIVE.'''''  The Church upholds the natural act of love in marriage as the norm for judging what is right and wrong in our relationships.  Whenever a couple chooses the joy of union, their expression of love should be such that they do nothing to make it impossible for them to become pregnant through their union.  This norm rules out barrier methods, the use of artificial hormones that fool the woman's body into thinking that she is already pregnant, and any other actions that would keep the union of the couple from being fruitful.  If you and your husband feel sure that you cannot afford to become pregnant at this time in your life, you must abstain from union for a while until your health improves or you reach the point at which you can have greater confidence than you do now in identifying the fertile times in your cycle; you might want to ask for help from a certified Natural Family counselor to get help in understanding the signs at this time in your life.  Abstinence is hard, but not impossible.  It, too, is an act of love for each other and for our Creator.  Abstinence chosen out of love for one another for shorter or longer times has its own rewards, though they are, of course, more subtle and on a different level from the joy of expressing your love for each other directly through marital union.  We have been praying for you and your husband, Anonymous, since we received your e-mailWe hope that you will find great joy in being faithful and true to each other as well as abiding by God's plan for your marriage.
::::: [http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/christopher_wests_ideas_on_sexuality_ignore_tremendous_dangers_alice_von_hildebrand_says/ "Christoper West's Ideas on Sexuality Ignore Tremendous Dangers — Alice von Hildebrand."]
 
=== Why is the Old Testament so vague about Trinity and the Eucharist? ===
* Sara from the Fund Drive:
# Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Trinity?
# Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Eucharist?
 
=== Is spiritual dryness a sin? ===
 
* Shawn from Facebook: Is having spiritual dryness a sin?
 
=== How should Catholics vote? ===
* Shawn from Facebook: Election season is upon us. The Catholic voter guide basically says "don't vote for abortion," and rightly so.  But, I have never supported GOP politics either, although they are the closest thing we have to a pro-life party. So how should I vote then?
:: [[USCCB Voting Guide for Catholics]].
 
=== Struggling with Marian prayers ===
 
Shawn from Facebook: I struggle with certain Marian prayers that ask her to save us, etc; I don't get that... Because she can't do anything without God's power. She is merely a creature, though the highest of all creation. I have trouble with the rosary too. Why not just pray the "Our Father"?
 
=== Chesterton Academy in England? ===
 
* Maria Bachelier from e-mail: Is there any Chesterton academy in England, where I live?
::: Not yet. There is one in Italy. Dale Ahlquist is in Europe right now.  More may be under development.
:::: Emily de Rotstein, Executive Director
:::: Chesterton Academy  — [http://www.chestertonacademy.org/ www.chestertonacademy.org]
:::: info@chestertonacademy.org
 
=== Why does the Catechism calls us "gods"? ===
 
* John from Facebook: I have been reading the Catechism each night. I have a question regarding paragraph 460 which says, "The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods." This passage uses the lower case letter g. In the Old Testament, this is how the pagan gods are referred to. What does lower case "gods" mean here?
:::: [[Divinization]].
 
=== Righteous anger vs. sinful anger ===
* John from Facebook:
# Could you explain righteous anger and sinful anger? Are there scriptural references to these two kinds of anger? Could you give some ideas how to counteract the sin of anger?  —  [[Christian Anger Management]].
# Also would you please pray for my niece, Marybeth, who suffers from a head injury she received in an accident some time ago.
 
=== Multiple sins in an invalid marriage ===
* Anonymous from Facebook: Suppose a person got married only in order to obtain a visa and did not intend the marriage to last.  Is that person sinning if they do not get an annulment? Is that person committing fornication when they have relations with their innocent spouse?
 
=== Uncharitable thoughts and feelings ===
* Anonymous from Facebook: I am a volunteer at my parish.  I arranged to switch volunteer nights with another parishioner.  I covered their night, but they did not cover mine.  I was called and asked to come fill in for them.  I felt annoyed at the prospect, but did eventually offer to fill the empty spot.  I feel that I was selfish and uncharitable.  Did I commit a sin by being annoyed or by waiting a while before I said yes?
 
=== Do same-sex marriages invalidate all marriages in the state or the denomination? ===
* Peter John from e-mail:
# If Christian denominations and many states are recognizing same-sex marriages, does that not mean that all of the marriages in those denominations or states are necessarily invalid in the eyes of the Church?  If so, wouldn't that simplify the annulment process for those who contracted marriage before a justice of the peace in those states or in those denominations?
# I am upset that I see people who are cohabiting receive the sacraments while those who are in post-divorce marriages cannot.  This especially troublesome when the divorced and remarried have no children from earlier marriages, have built a good family in their current marriages, and live devout lives otherwise.
 
=== Should we hold hands during the Our Father? ===
* Kevin from e-mail: [http://www.ewtn.com/expert/answers/holding_hands_at_mass.htm "Holding Hands at Mass."]
 
=== Why not do mandalas in our parish? ===
* NOT ON THE LINE. Liz from Rochester. Please speak about what Mandala is and why it shouldn’t be practiced at our parish.
:::: [http://www.mandalaproject.org/Index.html The Mandala Project.]
 
=== Blessed are those who murder babies? ===
* Kevin from e-mail: The last verse of Psalm 137 is really horrible.  It says, "Blessed is the man who seizes the children of Babylon and dashes their brains out against a rock."  Isn't God the father of Babylonian children, too?  How could murdering innocent children bring blessings to those who murder them?
 
=== Why was John the Baptist not freed from captivity? ===
* John from Facebook: The gospel of Luke says that Jesus came to set the captives free.  If so, then why didn't Jesus free John the Baptist from captivity?
 
=== When should we accept death for those whom we love? ===
 
* Katy from e-mail: Every day at Mass I hear the priest ask us to pray for life, "from its natural beginning to its natural end." I remain confused as to why keeping an infant (or anyone) with a terminal illness on life support, in this case mechanical ventilation, is celebrated. I don't understand why anyone would want to watch a loved one suffering with a tracheostomy when that loved one could be in paradise with Jesus.  Is this brave to keep them alive, or is it selfish?
 
::: [[Catholic Medical Ethics]]
 
 
=== U.S. Bishops dedicated to Marxism since 1979? ===
 
* Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
:::- I have an article from 1979 which says that U.S. bishops were dedicated to preaching Marxism instead of ChristianityIs that claim true?
 
=== Positive outcomes from Vatican II ===
 
* Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
:::- Can you name three positive outcomes of Vatican II?
:::::- Recognition that we owe religious assent to the ordinary teachings of the Magisterium.  The Scriptures are the fruit of Tradition and are part of Tradition; they do not replace it.
:::::- ''Catechism of the Catholic Church.''
:::::- Discussion of marriage as a noble vocation, including praise of the nobility of the act of marital union, reaffirmation of the Church's traditional teaching on avoiding contraceptives, and a strong condemnation of abortion as an abominable crime.
 
=== Canon law and Catholic identity ===
 
* Melanie from Twitter: Is it a violation of canon law to question someone's Catholic identity?
::: Can. 216: "Since they participate in the mission of the Church, all the Christian faithful have the right to promote or sustain apostolic action even by their own undertakings, according to their own state and condition. Nevertheless, no undertaking is to claim the name Catholic without the consent of competent ecclesiastical authority."
 
=== Calling God "Allah" ===
 
* Winna from Twitter: Do you know the Arabic word 'Allah'? Do you think it is inappropriate for Christians to use the Arabic word for God?
 
=== Thanks for help with Desolation ===
 
* Anonymous from Facebook: "Thank you for answering my questions about desolation in such a great detail in a show you did in the summer time. I feel very comforted after hearing from you on the show and I'm actually feeling relieved with the clarity especially after learning about desolation. I can't thank you enough for this. I feel that I'm suddenly pulled back in when I was almost falling off a steep cliff — thank you so much for the rescue!"
 
=== New forms of Catholicism? ===
Mark: What the "New Catholic Churches"?
::: [[Schismatic Catholics]].
 
=== Experimental Medical Treatments ===
* Dan from Facebook: Does the Church have any definitive position on the use of experimental medical treatments? A friend has stage 4 melanoma, and an experimental drug is his best (and apparently only) chance for survival. The problem is that it hasn't been approved by the FDA  — the family wants it for "compassionate use" in the meantime. I just have to decide whether to sign the petition they are circulating.
 
=== Anathema sit! ===
 
* Debbie from Amherst: The Council of Trent says that anyone who objects to the doctrine of the Church is "[[anathema]]." What does that mean for our Protestant brothers and sisters who have left the Church?
 
=== Deification ===
 
* Andrew from e-mail: It appears that in Eastern Catholic Theology one can become closer to God after death through deification.  The Eastern Catholics claim that their saints move closer to God even in heaven. In Western theology this does not appear possible.  One gains merit/treasures in heaven while alive, and assuming one gets to heaven, that's it — no more!  You are as close to God as possible.  Not all saints are the same in glory.  There is no more change possible.  These Eastern and Western views are logically incompatible; both cannot be true.
::: [[Deification]]
 
=== Is God "static"? ===
Andrew from e-mail: In the 'eternal realm' there is no time.  How can we be dynamic yet God is static? He does not change with time only we do.  Is there a 'time' we live in in the eternal realm (the theory of 'days' in purgatory is popular but the concept was 'not up for debate' in the East because they did not see it as theologically worth pursing).  Are these concepts merely beyond human understanding and simple part of the 'mystery' that so permeates our sense of eternity?
 
=== Burning Man ===
* Kathleen from Facebook: I recently came across some information about "The Burning Man Experience" in the Black Rock Desert in Nevada. It was quite disturbing and reminded me of pagan rituals. Can you shed more light on this?
 
=== Questions about questions ===
 
* Two different friends asked me recently, "What is the hardest question you have received?  Your favorite questionYour least favorite question?"
 
=== How could Adam and Eve sin? ===
* Thomas from e-mail: If Adam and Eve did not have Original Sin, they did not have concupiscence, by which we mean the tendency of our disordered appetites to lead us to sin. Why weren't they immune to temptation?
 
=== What do goats symbolize in the Bible? ===
* John from Facebook: I saw a Masonic website that linked goats to Babylonian mystery religions.  The author suggested that the goat was a symbol of the Temple and Temple builders.  Is this how the symbolism of goats works in the Scriptures?  Would this add an extra dimension to the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25?  Does the Church have a specific teaching on the meaning of goats in the Bible?
 
=== How to "Offer it up?" ===
* Sherry.  Arlington, Virginia. iCatholic.  I have a question about suffering and "offering it up". I am not a cradle Catholic, so I did not get the benefit of learning about this while growing up.  What I've done is simply a mental prayer like this:  "Dear God, I offer you this pain (or discomfort, or whatever suffering I am going through at the moment)".  Is this adequate?  Sometimes I add " to join in Christ's suffering on the cross in order to help redeem the world (or for some other purpose like to help a sick friend or family member)".  Is this an acceptable way to offer up suffering?  Thank you. We love your radio show!
 
=== Theology of Global Warming? ===
* Marilyn.  Buffalo, New York.  I have another philosophical question. From the standpoint of Genesis, is global warming man-made or part of God's plan? Why would God make us in His image and then give us the power to destroy his creation?  Would God really allow us to be such a problem?
 
=== Traces of the Trinity in the Old Testament ===
 
* Mike Denz from WLOF: A while back, you talked with a listener about Old Testament passages that foreshadhow the revelation of the Trinity in the New Testament.  Isn't there are a foreshadowing of John's Trinitarian theology of the Word made flesh in Genesis 1?  Genesis 1 portrays God as creating by speaking words of command such as "Let there be light — and there was light;" then John's gospel says that God created through the Word.
::: Speaker, breath, word — Father, Spirit, Son (the missions of the Trinity, not the eternal relationships between the Divine Persons).  The Spirit is not mentioned explicitly until 1:32; John testifies that he saw the Spirit descend upon Jesus and that Jesus would "baptize with the Holy Spirit."
::: Ruah in Genesis 1:1.
 
* Brian from Facebook: I have two questions.
:: '''Part I: In the case of a pastoral administrator charged with a parish assignment, where does the buck stop? With the pastoral administrator or a priest (sacramental minister) also assigned to the same parish?'''
:::: There is a separation of powers.
 
:::: A Parish Administrator (PA) is responsible for anything you can do with money, including collecting it.  The PA may also  define the parish schedule, organize non-sacramental ministries, and obtain services from priests or deacons as needed when the assigned Sacramental  Minister (SM) is unavailable.  I imagine that the PA would run the catechetical programs and would be the person who hires and fires other parish workers.  The PA would also keep all of the books — financial, sacramental records, school records, etc.
 
:::: The sacramental minister is responsible for seeing that the sacraments are offered correctly.
 
:::: Grey areas probably not defined by law but settled on a case-by-case basis: furnishings, music, "smells and bells."
 
:: '''Part II<nowiki>:</nowiki> What is your opinion of people calling a priest a "sacramental minister"?'''
 
:::: It's accurate, if not very poetic.  There are some men who, for one reason or another, should not act as pastors.  They can supply the sacraments for a parish, but do not have the gifts or virtues required for administration.  I think this causes great grief to the priests.
 
:::: One priest in our diocese was a "sacramental minister" after being a priest for at least 25 years, and was apparently despondent at being ordered to leave his parish so that another priest could become pastor, relieving a deacon and his wife of the job of P.A.  Not being promoted to pastor hurt the priest terribly, but the act of suicide suggests to me that it was not a bad decision not to promote him — he was not a well man (may he rest in peace).
 
:::: Better title?  "Parish priest" or "Parish father."
 
=== Destiny of the souls of those who die in abortion ===
 
* Matthew Paul via Facebook: Is there a definitive Church teaching on what happens to the souls of aborted children?  Are they martyrs through a "baptism of blood"?
:: [[Abortion#Afterlife_for_aborted_children|Afterlife for aborted children?]]
 
=== Did Jesuits tried to kill John Paul II? ===
 
* Alex from e-mail: A very devout Polish Catholic friend of mine believes that John Paul II was about to dissolve the Society of Jesus, also known as "the Jesuits," but was prevented from doing so by being shot by Ali Agca, who was acting on behalf of the Jesuits.  The only reference I could find about this was from Malachi Martin's book, ''The Jesuits.''
 
::: 1981: Arrupe's stroke; appointment of Vinny O'Keefe to be Acting General; replacement of O'Keefe by Paulo Dezza.
::: 1983: assassination attempt on 13 May; election of Fr. Kolvenbach on 13 September.
 
=== Gay lobby on Catholic campuses ===
* Kevin from Buffalo:
:; Setup for the question
 
:: [http://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/04/education/edlife/how-georgetown-became-a-gay-friendly-campus.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0 A recent New York Times article] talked about how Georgetown has become a "gay-friendly institution." Mr. Lloyd, the pride group president, says he is often tempted to join the more tolerant Episcopal Church. But for many young Catholics, particularly of Irish or Italian descent, Catholicism is interchangeable with identity. “You stay Catholic because you have a love of the institution and you want to change it,” he said.
 
:: With a prophetic air, campus crusaders for this new “21st century” “Catholic” identity make ''ex cathedra'' pronouncements like “Society is changing, and God is in that change.
 
:; The question:
 
:: What do you think about this approach to being Catholic?
 
=== Taking nephews to Communion ===
* Laura from Facebook: My 11- and 12-year old sons periodically invite their cousins to sleep over on a Saturday night. On Sunday we all attend Mass together.  I know my nephews do not attend Mass regularly, and I doubt that they ever go to Confession.  Should I confront them about this?  What responsibilities do I have as their Aunt?
 
=== Jesuits in Upstate New York? ===
 
* Parishioner of Peter Calabrese asked via e-mail: Have you ever heard in the “family lore” of Jesuits working in the Lewiston area very early on?


== 30 November ==
=== Sex reassignment surgery ===  
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* Kathy, Rochester, New YorkAt work, my Department Head announced at a staff meeting that an employee was going to be changing from a male to a femaleWhat is the church's teaching on that?
* Last Friday in Ordinary Time.  This is the week of [[Christ the King]].  Sunday is the first Sunday of Advent.  "Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven."
* Feast of Saint Andrew, Apostle, "called in the Orthodox tradition ''Prōtoklētos'', or the First-called, is ... the brother of Saint Peter; patron of happy marriages and pregnant women. The name "Andrew" (Greek: manly, brave, from ἀνδρεία, Andreia, "manhood, valour"), like other Greek names, appears to have been common among the Jews, Christians, and other Hellenized people of the region."
* Philip from Indooroopilly (Brisbane), Australia, listening on iCatholicRadio: It says in Exodus that "The Lord was appeased from doing the evil which he had spoken against his people" (32:14).  How could Moses change God's mind if we humans can not change the will of God?  If God is all-knowing and perfect, then how can a prophet change his mind?
:: [[Interpreting fiction]]
* Scott from Rochester: How can I better understand the [[book of Revelation]] which has been featured in the daily Mass readings for the past few weeks?
:: [http://usccb.org/bible/readings/120112.cfm Tomorrow's readings end Ordinary time.]  The last day of Ordinary time foreshadows the End of Everything.
* A friendly Monsignor from the Buffalo suburbs: We say the Three Persons are "equal". But the Son alone becomes "incarnate". Doesn't that mean that the Son has a "quality", i.e. "incarnation," that Father and Spirit do not "possess"? Ergo, doesn't this upset the "equality" of Father, Son and Spirit?
* Kevin from Buffalo: Is it morally wrong for Catholics to [[Circumcision|circumcise their sons?]]
* Q: I attended Mass in a diocesan cathedral while on a trip out westAlthough a priest and deacon were presiding, a cantor sang the invocations for the "Lord, Have Mercy": "You were sent to heal the contrite of heart," "You came to call sinners," and "You are seated at the right hand of the Father to intercede for us."  Can a lay person sing this part of the Mass?
:: A: Surprisingly (to me), yes. "The cantor is both a singer and a leader of congregational song. Especially when no choir is present, the cantor may sing in alternation or dialogue with the assembly. For example, the cantor may sing the invocations of the Kyrie, intone the Gloria, lead the short acclamations at the end of the Scripture readings, intone and sing the verse of the Gospel Acclamation, sing the invocations of the Prayer of the Faithful, and lead the singing of the Agnus Dei. The cantor may also sing the verses of the psalm or song that accompany the Entrance, Preparation of the Gifts, and Communion. Finally, the cantor may serve as psalmist, leading and proclaiming the verses of the Responsorial Psalm" [http://nccbuscc.org/liturgy/SingToTheLord.pdf ("Sing to the Lord," #37).]
* Anonymous.  Requests prayers for health, to find a job, and peace in the family
* Michael . Massaden (Rochester) . Wants to make a comment about the readings in Revalation for yesterday.
* Polly . Tonawanda . Just wants to ask about today's readings and Hollywood
* FACEBOOK NO. 1. Kimberly. What is a Jesse Tree?


== 9 November ==
=== Confirmation Necessary for Marriage? ===
* [http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/calendar/day.cfm?date=2012-11-09 Feast of the Dedication of the Lateran Basilica in Rome (324 AD):] "This feast became a universal celebration in honor of the basilica called "the mother and mistress of all churches of Rome and the world" (omnium urbis et orbis ecclesiarum mater et caput) as a sign of love for and union with the See of Peter."
* [[Daniel's Prayer of Repentance]] and [[The Lord's Prayer]].
* I subscribed to http://www.flocknote.com to [[read the Catechism in a Year]].
:: They have a link to see all the previous e-mails from the first day of the [[Year of Faith]].
:: ''Few footnotes.'' E.g., quotation from St. Thérèse: "But above all it's the gospels that occupy my mind when I'm at prayer; my poor soul has so many needs, and yet this is the one thing needful. I'm always finding fresh lights there; hidden meanings which had meant nothing to me hitherto."
* Kevin via e-mail: To call the US from Australia, it would be 0011 + 1 + city area code + number. So 0011 1 877 511 5483
* Philip from Indooroopilly, Queensland, Australia, listening in the morning via iCatholicRadio: I live in Brisbane Australia. I am a Melkite Catholic, i have about 50-60 cousins that live in Brisbane and no one comes to mass on Sundays. How can i explain to them the importance of the Mass and the Eucharist? What can I do? I try to go to Mass seven days a week to pray for all of them, but they just don't see them importance of Sunday Mass.
* Philip from  Indooroopilly, Queensland, Australia, listening in the morning via iCatholicRadio:
:: And again she gave birth to his brother Abel. But Abel was a pastor of sheep, and Cain was a farmer. Then it happened, after many days, that Cain offered gifts to the Lord, from the fruits of the earth. Abel likewise offered from the firstborn of his flock, and from their fat. And the Lord looked with favor on Abel and his gifts. Yet in truth, he did not look with favor on Cain and his gifts. And Cain was vehemently angry, and his countenance fell. So the LORD said to Cain: "Why are you so resentful and crestfallen? If you do well, you can hold up your head; but if not, sin is a demon lurking at the door: his urge is toward you, yet you can be his master." (Genesis 4:2-7)
:: Hey I'm struggling to understand this... Is it that Cain did not make a blood sacrifice or is it something else? It seem clear to me that he was a farmer so it makes sense that he offer fruits but I'm struggling to understand why God was not satisfied?
:::* type of offering
:::* quality of offering
:::* the interior dispositions of Cain and Abel
* Jackie from e-mail: "Father discussed how to pray for the souls in [[purgatory]] by making a novena.  Is there something that I could use as a reference to help explain this to my family.  We always include prayers for the departed but never heard about having the souls pray for us.  Also please explain the indulgence involving visiting cemeteries in November.  I would love to share this information with my family and friends."
* Emily from Corning: Wondering if Father ever went to the Basilica in Rome. She saw something there and was wondering why people touch a brass plate by the entrance.
* Alex from Miami, FL: Trying to do a plenary indulgence. Wondering how he would know if he has an attachment to sin.
* Mike from Rochester, NY: Wants prayers for the Country. To pray for the the renewal of respect for life and also for the conversion of politicians. He has ideas of how to get around the hhs mandate. . .
* Charlotte from Niceville, FL: Has a prayer request for her son and daughter. They are not talking to each other and are in a "hate campaign". She feels like she is in the middle and is praying for love between them.
* Mary: Please pray for my daughter’s healing and recovery.
* Paul from Amherst:  Received an email from a Catholic professor who is "pro life", voting for Obama, and gave a list of reasons why it was ethical to vote for him. Wants Fr.'s opinion.
* Kimberly: Since the election I feel let down but my friends. I am noticing that i am saying things and acting out of anger to some of the posts on face book. Can you please say a prayer for all of us. I want to accept this decision and move on. Please pray for me too.


== 6 November ==
* Dolores. Hamburg, New York.  If a Catholic is Baptized and received the first Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist, but NOT Confirmed, can they be married in the Church?
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if I command the locust to devour the land, <br>
if I send pestilence among my people, <br>
if then my people, <br>
upon whom my name has been pronounced, <br>
humble themselves and pray, <br>
and seek my face <br>
and turn from their evil ways, <br>
I will hear them from heaven <br>
and pardon their sins <br>
and heal their land." [http://usccb.org/bible/2chr/7:13 (2 Chr 7:13-14)]
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* [[Lord's Prayer]]
* [[USCCB Voting Guide for Catholics]]
* Lynn from Facebook: "I wouldn't say the democratic party is anti-catholic. Other than being pro-choice (which is not pro-abortion), democrats tend to hold views that are more Catholic Christian than other parties - support for the poor and disenfranchised, inclusion of historically segregated populations."
* Emily from Corning, NY: if the election doesn't go the way we want, our faith will be tested
* Bob from Elma,NY: Disagrees with the caller that says democratic party is not anti catholic
* Steve from Amherst, NY: asking where idea that republicans are anti-poor....
* Bob from from Boston, NY: comment about slavery issue.
* Christine. Texas. After voting for anti-abortion politicians it occurs to me that some may support the death penalty. If I find out they are pro-death penalty have I sinned?
* Sharon from Elma, NY: wants to encourage voting and for Father to encourage also


== 2 November ==
=== "Queen of Creation" ===
* Tomorrow is the last day of Mother Olga's novena of First Saturdays for the sake of the election.
* From a parishioner: I like to call Mary "Queen of Creation" when I am praying to herIs that appropriate?
* This week marked the 500th anniversary of the completion of Michelangelo’s Sistine Chapel ceiling. On 31 October 1512, Pope Julius II was joined by 17 cardinals for a celebration of vespers in the Chapel, in thanksgiving for the glorious work that had just been revealed.
* [X] Memorare to Our Lady of Fatima, Queen of Martyrs, Patron of the Americas, Mother of Good Counsel.
* '''We have recently received two versions of the same question:'''
# William from Warren, Ohio: "I have trouble with Mary. The Bible says Jesus is the only [[mediator]] between God and man. How can I come to terms with this?
# Ale from Facebook asked during the Frank Kelly show (three weeks ago): "Why do Catholics pray to the saints instead of to God directly?"
:::* [[Intercession]] and [[One Mediator]]
* Gino from Facebook: On the Cross, Jesus said, "It is finished" and "Today you will be with me in Paradise." He made no mention of any further purgation to the repentant thief. I believe that He took ALL our sins away and paid for them ALL with His precious blood. Whomever the Son sets free is free indeed!
:: [[Purgatory]].
* Sarah from West Seneca: What is the difference between "soul" and "spirit"?
* John from Webster, NY: Can father go over the general guidelines for brining Communion home to the sick?  Prayer Intention for Mom's healing.
* Dennis from Buffalo: Please pray for my family, as my situation continues to go down hill. I am fearful that my daughter's best interests won't be protected.
* Brian from Buffalo: Was the Holy Spirit formally recognized in the Old Testament? In the New Testament the Holy Spirit seems to be revealed to us through Jesus for the first time.
* Michael from Rochester, NY:  Prayer Intention for media reporters covering the elections.
* Catherine from East Aurora, NY: Prayer intention for Connie for healing for her shoulder.
* Heidi: I rarely ask for a prayer intention for my own benefit, but I ask for God's grace that my husband return to our faith, the sanctity of our marriage and a prayerful model to our sons. If it is God's will that our 19 yr marriage end, then grant us the grace of peace and hope. If not, please guide him towards reconciliation and forgiveness.
* John B. from Facebook: "The Uruguay bishops' conference said that Catholic politicians who voted to allow abortion have excommunicated themselves. Will all bishops' conferences around the world eventually do the same? Are we kidding ourselves about the fight against abortion if such statements are not made around the world?
::; [http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/uruguay-bishops-say-lawmakers-who-support-abortion-are-excommunicated/ "Uruguay bishops say lawmakers who support abortion are excommunicated."]


::: Uruguay's bishops say that local lawmakers who recently voted to legalize abortion in the country are automatically excommunicated for separating themselves from the Church's teaching.
=== Selling or renting property to same-sex couples ===
::: “Automatic excommunication is for those who collaborate in the execution of an abortion in a direct way,” said Bishop Heriberto Bodeant, secretary for the Uruguayan bishops' conference.
* From a parishioner: Would I be [[Cooperation with evil|cooperating in evil]] if I sold or rented a house to a same-sex couple?
::: “If a Catholic votes...with the manifest intention that he thinks the Church is wrong about this, he separates himself from the communion of the Church,” Bishop Bodeant recently told reporters.
::: “Excommunication means you are not in communion with the ecclesial community to which you openly claim to belong by doing something that puts you outside communion, and therefore you cannot participate in the Eucharist,” he explained.
* John Z. from Facebook: when my wife and I participated in a catholic bible study, the first book we read was the book of Exodus because we were told that composition of the book of Exodus was really the beginning of what we now know as the Bible.  It was the main story that gave the Israelites their tribal and religious identity. The book claimed that everything else, including Genesis, was written after the book of Exodus. What does the Church teach about this claim?
* Caroline from e-mail: What is the age or sacrament requirement to receive the Anointing of the Sick?  Can a child, say the age of 5, receive it?


== 26 October ==
=== What would Jesus think of today's Church? ===
* [[Year of Faith]]: "I have come to cast fire on the earth; would that it were kindled already!"
* Bob from e-mail: If Christ returned to Earth tomorrow as a typically normal 21st Century Catholic, what do you think He would think of the Church that He created and the leadership it has?  Would he approve of it and back it, unquestionablyOr, would he rail against it, or various aspects of it, as he did the moneychangers and merchants whose tables He dispersed from the synagogue when he was here 2000+ years ago?
* [[Come, Holy Spirit]] (short version).
* Grant from e-mail: What information do you have on the orthodoxy of Australian Catholicism?
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* 5.7 million Catholics = 27.5% of the population.
* Catholicism in Australia largely begun by Irish immigrants, but more diverse nowadays.
* Catholic Social Services: Australia's 63 member organisations help more than a million Australians every year.
* The Catholic education system has more than 650,000 students (18% of student population).[1]
* Australia has 32 dioceses and 1,363 parishes.
* Australian Catholic University (ACU) is a national public university. It has six campuses and offers programs in five faculties throughout Australia. The University operates as a company limited by guarantee, under the Companies (Victoria) Code and has a constitution which clearly identifies its objects in education, scholarship and research as part of the mission of the Catholic Church. The University is a member of the publicly-funded national system of Australian universities, the Association of Commonwealth Universities and the International Federation of Catholic Universities.
* St. Mary of the Cross (Mary MacKillop), who founded an educational religious institute of sisters, the Josephites, in the 19th century, became the first Australian to be canonised as a saint in 2010.
* The Australian Catholic Bishops Conference is headed by Archbishop Denis Hart and there are three Australian cardinals:
::- The Archbishop of Sydney, George Pell, seems to be orthodox.  Something of a lightning rod?
::- a former Archbishop of Sydney, Edward Bede Clancy
::- the former President of the Vatican Council for Promoting Christian Unity, Edward Cassidy.
* Australia played host to World Youth Day 2008.
* Paul Collins, [http://www.eurekastreet.com.au/article.aspx?aeid=25280 Australian Catholics facing disaster."] 7% to 9% rate of Mass attendance. 25% of parishes without a priest. 
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* Sarah from West Seneca: Can you tell me when to recite the Fatima Prayer when saying the Rosary? I sometimes hear people recite the Fatima Prayer before any mysteries are prayed at the beginning of a rosary following the first three Hail Marys and the Glory Be.
* [[Frank Kelly]]: Links and notes from the October 12th show with Frank Kelly, who had trouble speaking Buffaleese.
* Anonymous: what does the statement "we may complete in ourselves for the church's sake what is lacking in the sufferings of Christ". caller said he heard it at a Sunday Mass.
::* Suellen: Regarding, "making up for what is lacking in Christ's sufferings..." A beautiful analogy was once given to me of a mother baking a cake. Her child asks to help and she, of course, lets him. Does mom need her child to help? No. Is the "help" even sometimes a "challenge" for mom? Yes. But the child needs and wants to help bake the cake, and so mom, in her love, let's the child help. Isn't that sweet? Thanks for another great show.
* Grant from "oz" says thanks for answer and its 7:21am in his part of oz
* Bob from Boston, NY: did jesus ever voluntarily complete a miricle?
* Alice: Is there a way for a person to KNOW if their sins are forgiven after a confession?
* Polly from Tonawanda: Is Father Malachi Martin in good standing with the Catholic Church?
* Barabara from Niagara Falls: Why did Jesus tell people not to tell others when he performed a miracle?
* Kimberly: What is the best way to offer up your day of fasting to God? Are there any prayers for offering your Fast?
* Anonymous via Facebook: I am getting ready for my second colonoscopy in two years. I had a precancerous polyp the first time, am now experiencing some pain, and I am really pretty nervous about the whole thing. Cancer scares me. Please pray for me, my wife, and my children.


== 19 October ==
=== Promoting Women's Vocations to Religious Life ===
* Fun Drive.
* Patti from e-mail: [http://imaginesisters.org/ Imagine Sisters] wants to make Jesus loved by introducing the world to religious sisters in love with Christ through media and personal encounters. We want to encourage and inspire a culture of vocations to women’s religious life by fostering a deep desire for holiness through the witness of religious sisters.


== 12 October ==
=== Who are the vultures? ===
* Year of Faith began yesterday.
* Tomorrow: Anniversary of last apparition of Our Lady at Fatima.  Miracle of the Sun (1917--95 years ago).
* [[Fatima Prayers]].
* Guest: Frank Kelley from Humarock, MA.
::- http://frankkellyministry.com/
::- ''Short Circuit to God.'' All proceeds for “Short Circuit To God” are sent to missionary priests in India and Ghana to help the poor.
::- "Frank Kelly's mission is to serve God daily by giving glory to God the Father and to help bring people closer to the Trinity in all aspects of their lives.  "Healing Services,Spiritual Seminars, Confirmation instruction Classes, Retreats and Conferences." 


== 8 October ==
* From Awesome Lawson: I was told by a priest that the verse, "Wherever the corpse is, there the vultures will gather" (Mt 24:28) refers to Eucharistic adoration. Is that true?
* Monday is a day of Miracles, Meditation, and Mystagogy.  The mysteries of the faith are "soul food."  Frank Sheed complained that, too often, Catholics swallow dogma without thinking about it, which is as crazy as eating walnuts without cracking open the shells.  We need to ''realize'' what we believe.
* 29 days to the election.  The Blue Army is doing a 30-day rosary crusade "for God and country" that started yesterday on the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary (Our Lady of Victory; Battle of Lepanto, 1571). They are asking priests and laity to offer Mass on November 3, the First Saturday of November, for that intention as well.
* [[Prayers to Our Lady of Victory]].


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=== Footwashing ===
"Who is she that comes forth as the morning rising, <br>
fair as the moon, <br>
bright as the sun, <br>
as terrifying as an army set in array?" [http://usccb.org/bible/sg/6:10 (Sng 6:10)]
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* Karen from Facebook: Is Judas part of God's plan of salvation? What would have happened if Judas did not betray Jesus?
* Letitia: Footwashing is for everybody — everybody should do it to everybody.  She sent slippers, a towel, and foot cream to her nieces and nephews, and asked them to wash their mother's feet. Jesus said, "Do ''as'' I do.  Such love and humility.  Jesus took the place of the last and the least. Usually done by the Gentile slave, by wives for their husbands, by children for their parents, and by disciples for their teachers.
* Michael from Buffalo: What happens to the prayers you make if someone is in hell? Can you gain plenary indulgences for someone who is in hell?
* Jason from Buffalo: What is the Church's teaching on a woman being prescribed birth control for cycle regulation?
* Anonymous: requests prayers for health, employment and special intention.
* Tommy from Buffalo: Is it possible for a priest to change the creed during Mass?
* Paul from Buffalo--West Side: Can priest omit penitental rite at start of Mass?
* Carl from Buffalo: What should a Catholic voter do when both candidates (Republican or Democrat) don't follow the Church's teaching on social justice? What can be done about this in the future?
* Marie from Williamsville: Is it nessasary to go to confession again if priest does not let her say act of contrition before giving absolution?
* John: Please talk about the indulgence granted with the Year of Faith. What are the conditions?
* Rich from Buffalo: Wants to follow up with comment on father's answer on Catholic voting here in Buffalo.


== 5 October ==
=== St. Malachy and the End of the World ===
* Today is the feast of St. Faustina, through whom God gave us Mercy Sunday and the Chaplet of Divine Mercy.
* The [[Year of Faith]], commemorating the 50th anniversary of the opening of Vatican II, begins next Thursday.
* Mother Olga's Novena continues tomorrow. Two First Saturdays left before November.
* EWTN's novena continues until Sunday, the '''feast of Our Lady of Victory and the Most Holy Rosary'''.  The Sunday liturgy will be that of the 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time, but that does not prevent us from thinking of how gracious God was to Mary and, through her, to us.
* [X] [[Salve Regina]].
John from Facebook:
::* "How does [[predestination]] figure into that? What does the church teach us regarding predestination? Is someone who is predestined to Heaven incapable of sin?  Or do their choices no longer matter at all?"
* Anonymous. Victor, New York. Thanks to Father for answered prayer on finding keys. Still need help finding missing family member. Please pray for her daughter-in-law to have a change of heart about a pending divorce. And for great financial need as well.
* Michael from Rochester, New York: wants to suggest prayer for the country and would like to talk about the appropriateness of the prayer.
* John from Rochester, New York. Requests prayer for Mom who has cancer. Also to accept whatever God's will is in the situation. John would also like Father to speak about the feast of Our Lady of Victory.
* Holly from Tonawanda, New York: Has question on Sister Faustina's vision of hell.
* Bob from Boston: Has question about Balaam.  Where he came from and was he a prophet.
* Delores from North Boston New York: Has question about Purgatory--can a priest hear confession there? And if you come in late after consecration at a daily Mass, can you receive Communion?


== The Treasury of Extra Questions ==
* [[St. Malachy and the End of the World]]
* I have figured out how to prove that Pope Francis is [[St. Malachy and the End of the World|"Peter the Roman."]]  That means the end of the world is near (again!). :-O
:: [http://catholicozarks.blogspot.com/2013/05/pope-francis-peter-roman-antichrist.html "Pope Francis = Peter The Roman = Antichrist ?"]
:: "In the extreme persecution of the Holy Roman Church, there will sit Peter the Roman, who will nourish the sheep in many tribulations; when they are finished, the city of seven hills will be destroyed, and the dreadful judge will judge his people. The end."


''We have had many questions that either come too late in the show or that need research to answer.  We often say, "Tune in next week and we'll deal with that in more depth"--but we haven't always kept our promise.  The purpose of this page is to make a list of those questions for future reference.  If we run low on callers or current questions, we can always dip into this reservoir to keep the conversation going.''
=== Seven Pilgrim Churches ===


=== More Recent ===
* [http://zephyrinus-zephyrinus.blogspot.com/2013/03/the-seven-pilgrim-churches-of-rome.html ''Wikipedia,'' "The Seven Pilgrim Churches Of Rome."]


==== Questions from Ladies of the Lord ====
=== Catholic Children's Bible ===
* [[Answer Priest]]
* For parents: [http://www.smp.org/series/81/The-Catholic-Childrens-Bible ''The Catholic Children's Bible''] by St. Mary's Press.


==== Current Events Topics ====
=== Fr. Walter Ciszek, SJ ===
* [http://www.dumpstarbucks.com/ Boycott Starbucks] because they have made a public commitment to same sex "marriage."
* Suellen Ann from Facebook: I just saw a beautiful documentary on EWTN about [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walter_Ciszek Fr. Walter Ciszek,] a Jesuit who was held captive in Siberia for 15 years. Could you talk a little bit about his life and works?
:: On January 24, 2012, the Starbucks corporation [http://www.dumpstarbucks.com/starbucks_corporate_policy.php issued a memorandum] to all "US Partners" declaring that same-sex marriage "is aligned with Starbucks business practices" and "is core to who we are and what we value as a company."
::: [[Walter Ciszek, SJ]]
:: In addition to declaring its corporate-wide position in support of gay marriage, Starbucks also used its resources to participate in a legal case seeking to overturn a federal law declaring marriage as the union of one man and one woman.
:: In taking these actions, Starbucks has declared a culture war on all Catholics and other people of faith (and millions of others, too) who believe that the institution of marriage as one man and one woman is worth preserving.
* Some "ethicists" are advocating [[Abortion#Post-Birth_Abortion|Infanticide!]]
* [http://catholiclane.com/ivfs-barren-wasteland/ "IVF’s Barren Wasteland."] If abortion were made illegal, then ''in vitro fertilization'' would become illegal, too.
* Papal re-affirmation of the [[Ordination_of_women#Restriction_of_ordination_to_men|restriction of ordination to men]] in his [http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/homilies/2012/documents/hf_ben-xvi_hom_20120405_messa-crismale_en.html homily for the Chrism Mass on Holy Thursday.]
:: "Recently a group of priests from a European country issued a summons to disobedience, and at the same time gave concrete examples of the forms this disobedience might take, even to the point of disregarding definitive decisions of the Church’s Magisterium, such as the question of women’s ordination, for which Blessed Pope John Paul II stated irrevocably that the Church has received no authority from the Lord. Is disobedience a path of renewal for the Church? We would like to believe that the authors of this summons are motivated by concern for the Church, that they are convinced that the slow pace of institutions has to be overcome by drastic measures, in order to open up new paths and to bring the Church up to date. But is disobedience really a way to do this? Do we sense here anything of that configuration to Christ which is the precondition for all true renewal, or do we merely sense a desperate push to do something to change the Church in accordance with one’s own preferences and ideas?"
::: See http://www.democraticunderground.com/121818339
:: "The last keyword that I should like to consider is '''“zeal for souls”''': animarum zelus. It is an old-fashioned expression, not much used these days. In some circles, the word “soul” is virtually banned because – ostensibly – it expresses a body-soul dualism that wrongly compartmentalizes the human being. Of course the human person is a unity, destined for eternity as body and soul. And yet that cannot mean that we no longer have a soul, a constituent principle guaranteeing our unity in this life and beyond earthly death. And as priests, of course, we are concerned for the whole person, including his or her physical needs – we care for the hungry, the sick, the homeless. And yet we are concerned not only with the body, but also with the needs of the soul: with those who suffer from the violation of their rights or from destroyed love, with those unable to perceive the truth, those who suffer for lack of truth and love. We are concerned with the salvation of men and women in body and soul."
:: "Let us ask the Lord to fill us with joy in his message, so that we may serve his truth and his love with joyful zeal. Amen."


==== Courage ====
=== Catholic understanding of marriage ===
* Nicole from e-mail: I spoke w/a 20-something co-worker regarding male/female complementarity one day when she mentioned that people who don't accept "same-sex marriage" are bigots.  She listened to me kindly but  did not accept the idea that opposite genders go together because of procreation. Her immediate answer was, "well, the couple can use IVF." I find that many younger people have a utilitarian point of view - the end justifies the means.  How can I present the Church's teaching on marriage and the natural law in the most effective fashion?


* Brian from Facebook: [http://couragerc.net/ ''Courage''] is a great resource for those who experience same-sex attraction but who want to remain faithful to the Church's teaching on chastity. 
=== Evidence of Ordination of Women? ===
::: "''Courage'', an apostolate of the Catholic Church, ministers to persons with same-sex attraction and their loved ones. We have been endorsed by the Pontifical Council for the Family and our beloved John Paul II said of this ministry, "COURAGE is doing the work of God!"  We also have an outreach called ''EnCourage'' which ministers to relatives, spouses, and friends of persons with same-sex attraction."


==== What is the Catholic understanding of the word, 'soul'? ====
* Andrew from e-mail: Sylvia Poggioli did a piece on NPR recently entitled [http://www.npr.org/2013/04/01/175910981/with-new-pope-catholic-women-hope-to-regain-church-leadership-roles "With New Pope, Catholic Women Hope To Regain Church Leadership Roles."] What are we to make of the argument that ancient mosaics and epigrams talk about women priests (presbytera) and bishops (episcopa)?


* Awesome Lawson asked, "What do Catholics mean by the word [[And_with_your_spirit#The_human_spirit|'soul']]?  How does the Catholic understanding of 'soul' affect [http://www3.canisius.edu/~moleski/handouts/catholicism%20and%20evolution%20%28JP%20II%29%20.pdf our thinking about evolution?"]
=== Year of Faith Website ===
* David M. from Rochester: Here is the Vatican’s website for the year of faith: [http://www.annusfidei.va/content/novaevangelizatio/en.html www.annusfidei.va.]


==== Allegory vs. Parable ====
=== Common Bible includes "Apocrypha" ===
* From Awesome Lawson: "I was told by a priest that the verse about [[vultures|vultures flocking to feed on a corpse]] refers to Eucharistic adoration.  Is that true?"


=== Less Recent ===
* John W. from e-mail: I was very surprised this afternoon when you quoted [http://usccb.org/bible/tobit/4:6 Tobit 4:8] on giving. You said, "The Protestants don’t have Tobit in their Bible." Here in Canada, or at least Toronto, we DO! We also have Judith, Wisdom, Baruch, 1&2 Maccabees, and the other Deuterocanonical Books in the pew Bibles of at least our local Anglican and Presbyterian churches, and probably in the local United Church too. The pew Bibles are the “New Revised Standard Version (with Apocrypha).” These are logical developments based on Vatican II, which began fifty years ago, and the first Anglican-Roman Catholic Common Declaration and the establishment of the Anglican-Roman Catholic International Commission forty-six years ago. Most Protestant churches are also using the Revised Common Lectionary. Is this just a Canadian thing?
::- [[Canon_of_the_Old_Testament#.22Apocryphal.22_Books_included_in_the_Common_Bible | Apocrypha in Common Bible.]]


==== And with your spirit ====
=== Psychology and Catholicism ===
* John from Facebook: At the school I work, they are doing workshops on motivation and learning. They presented a workshop on [http://www.wglasser.com/ William Glasser's "choice theory,"] which seems to me to advocate faith but no God. When the Church provides counsel through Catholic Charities or even through a priest, how does it merge [[psychology and faith]]?


From Marilyn in Cleveland, Ohio, who listens on an iPad and wrote to us via e-mail:
=== Godly Gynecology; Pregnancy Support Services ===
* Melissa from Kenmore, New York: "A friend of a friend of mine was told for decades that she had a thyroid problem that would prevent her from becoming pregnant.  The doctors were wrong.  When she began to gain weight because of a pregnancy, her doctor just adjusted her medication, thinking that her weight gain was due to thyroid problems, not a pregnancy.  This was a devastating situation for her, as she ended up having an abortion.  Many women who opt for abortion are not FOR abortion in and of itself. Many just do not have the support of the father or their family, and do not know who would help them cope with an unplanned child at the time of birth. Could you list some [[Pregnancy Support Services|resources women in such a situation can turn to?]]"


: I heard Fr. Moleski express his preference for the 'And also with you' response instead of the newer 'And with your spirit'. When I first learned of that change, I was delighted.  I have 3 children, 25, 22 and 20 years old.  All are in college and or grad school (pray for me, i am a single mother).  For years, decades actually, I feel that I have been taking on a dragon fighting for my children's salvation.  The world they have been raised in has emphasized, ad nauseam, how important they are, to the point now where they expect things (aka entitlement generation).  They were given things every where they went, stickers at the doctors office, dentists, awards for ridiculous things at school and so on.  The emphasis on hair, dress and all the material likes Is so hyper focused on the me, me, me that I see the 'and with your spirit' supremely refreshing and pointedly contradictory to the cultural persuasion.  'And with your spirit' is very challenging, and to me it points directly to the soul, not the person.  Be it priest or pew sitter, it's all about God, not me.  We must start focusing on our eternal souls, not on the flesh or ego.  I truly believe this will be an unconscious sign post directing us appropriately to Our Lord.
=== Pacifism required? ===


: Thank you for saying yes to God, our dear priests, we need you, we pray for you and we love you.
* Anonymous: Why do some candidates who are pro life still support violence via wars, detainment, and the like? Why can't being pro life mean being more vigilant in ending wars through diplomatic talks rather than continuing what seems an endless fight in another country? Our military wants to come home. Does war ever make any sense?"
::- [[Just War Theory]].


==== Planned Parenthood and Cancer Research ====
=== Feeling guilty after Confession ===


Some friends in Amherst via e-mail: Many cancer research organizations donate to Planned Parenthood and/or support the use of tissue from abortions for medical research and therapy. Is there a list of cancer research institutes to which Catholics can donate with a clear conscience?
* Anonymous: "I have a hard time forgiving myself, even after I confess a sin in confession. Is that also a sin?"
* [[Cancer Research and Planned Parenthood]]
::: [[Feeling guilty after Confession]].


==== Taking chastity seriously ====
=== Interceding for Sinners ===


From a letter written in the fall of 2011 from some concerned young adult Catholics in the Diocese of Buffalo:
* Anonymous: "What is the consequence if someone who is not Catholic receives the Eucharist in ignorance. Besides educating them, is there a penance one can do for them?"
::* We are increasingly disappointed and disheartened by the lack of support from priests and bishops ... regarding the sanctity of life and the value of true marriage.
::: [[What should I do when I see others sin?]]
::* Why are these high-profile, high-impact moral issues avoided during Sunday homilies: abortion, adultery, contraception, embryonic stem cell research, euthanasia, fornication, homosexuality, impurity with oneself, pornography?
::: [[Forgiveness Prayer]].
::* Why are Catholic public officials given a pass when they ''publicly'' violate Church teachings time after time?  Why aren't they denied Holy Communion?
::* It was disappointing that no priests attended the National Organization for Marriage's Rally for Traditional Marriage at Buffalo's City Hall on July 24.
::* Please help us to engage and evangelize the anti-Catholic culture that confronts us everyday.


==== Avery Cardinal Dulles, SJ: A Faithful Jesuit ====
=== Spiritual Warfare ===
* [http://www.commonwealmagazine.org/ignatian-spirit "An Ignatian Spirit: Avery Dulles’s Theological Journey."] Review of ''Avery Cardinal Dulles, SJ: A Model Theologian, 1918–2008'' (Paulist Press, $49.95, 736 pp.).


== On Second Thought ==
* John Z. from Facebook re: [[spiritual warfare]].
''I often think of better answers to questions after the show is over. This is called "l'esprit de l'escalier," (French: "the spirit of the staircase") because lawyers so often think of the best arguments to have made while walking down the staircase leading away from the courthouse.''
:::* Can people be used by demons to try and fight and create turmoil and strife?
:::* Are there angels and demons duking it out fighting for our souls?
:::* Also, I saw on a blog where a guy said to look in the Old Testament as to how many people Satan killed vs God. He claims that Satan only killed ten and God killed thousands. So, in his view, the whole Christian idea of God is false, and Satan got a raw deal.


=== Catholicism and Judaism ===
=== Genocide in the Old Testament? ===
* Sam from Buffalo: "Hi Father.  Earlier this week I heard someone talking briefly about Messianic Judaism and Hebrew Christianity.  I was wondering if you could tell me anything more about them, and where they 'fit in.' Thanks so much!"
* Kevin from e-mail: Why did God order the Israelites to massacre whole villages when they conquered them? Today we would call that "genocide" or "ethnic cleansing." The Church teaches that it is intrinscially evil to target whole populations in warfare. How could God command His people to do evil?
** [http://www.secondexodus.com/index.htm Second Exodus website]
** [[The Christian Deliteralization of the Old Testament]]
** [http://www.hebrewcatholic.org/ Association of Hebrew Catholics]


=== What about the prophecies about the Antichrist? ===
=== Successors of the other apostles? ===
* John from Cheektowaga: "I wished I had stayed on the phone the other day to do a follow-up (I did not want to hog all the air-time). I wasn’t looking for a speculation of WHEN the end time will be – I know our Lord Jesus said that not even the angels or saints know, but only the Father knows the day and the hour."
* Rich from e-mail: Most Catholics know that the Pope is the successor to Peter. Has the "lineage" from the other apostles been preserved just as carefully? Would the holders of some of those Sees be the Latin [[Patriarchs]]? There are not twelve of this class, so who are the direct successors of all of the original apostles and Paul? (I include him because of his unique status).
** MXM: The advantage of staying on the phone is that you get to rephrase your question as we go along.  If we think you're hogging the air, we'll thank you for your call and hang up on you.  :-O
* I was just looking for comment on how really interwoven all of history is (past, present & future); all events detailed in prophesy. I thought that the little book “History of Antichrist” was extremely well presented. It listed each important prophet as indicated in Sacred Scripture, what various interpretations can their words possibly mean, which church fathers, saints, doctorens, traditions, commentators through to the med 1800’s (when the book was written), etc., to include conjectures as to meanings of their statements, and, how it relates to the antichrist. The book is not bad news, but it does say, when the antichrist does come it is going to be a terrible 3 ½ years before Jesus comes and put a stop to his deceit. Many will be swayed – think of the Jews who are still looking for the coming of the Messiah (all part of God’s grand mysterious plan).
** MXM: The Church is completely agnostic about the sequence of events at the end of the world. 
: The book of Revelation and other apocalyptic passages were written to comfort people who were suffering for the sake of Jesus.  The message is, "Hang on. Your sufferings will be rewarded.  You will reign with Jesus in glory."  That message was valid in the first century and in every age since wherever disciples suffer for Jesus.
: In other words, the material is about the present, NOT the future.
* The world will be tricked unless one's faith is strong.
** MXM: We don't need "strong" faith.  Putting faith in the strength of our faith is a huge mistake.  No act of faith is greater than the size of a mustard seed when compared to the glory of the one in whom we place our trust.
==== Johnny Cash and the End of the World ====
Kevin in Buffalo: What do you think of the Johnny Cash song, [http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/johnnycash/themancomesaround.html "The Man Comes Around"]?


=== The meaning of fiction ===
=== Patriarchs and Cardinals ===
Matt from Colorado asked about (e-mail about ''[[The Shack]]'')Second thoughts: [[interpreting fiction]].
* Rich from e-mail: I think that a fairly recent canonical change required that all [[patriarchs]] be made cardinals, although they've always actually outranked cardinals in the hierarchyIs that correct?

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Sitz im leben

A season of growth.

   


December 19

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  • [X] Water.
  • Joy.
  • 148 days for Gina and Joseph.
Prologue
  • Faith 'n' Reason Friday.
  • Any topic OK.
  • All callers welcome.
Last few days of Advent — St. John the Baptist, pray for us!
Luke 1
76
You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High;
for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way,
to give his people knowledge of salvation
by the forgiveness of their sins.
  • From John on Facebook (he may post this question on Facebook during the show): Some of my friends argue that there is no need for a priesthood. In the Bible, the term is used only of the Old Testament priests who served in the Temple. In the New Testament, the terms "episcopos" and "presbyter" are used, not "priest." How can I answer this challenge to the Catholic understanding of priesthood?

Treasury of Unanswered Questions

May the priest skip the "Deliver us from evil" prayer?

  • Boston, Mass. At mass at our church, after the Our Father, the priest goes directly to "For the kingdom, the power, etc" and omits the prayer in between that says, "Deliver us, Lord, from every evil.." This seems to be an important and beautiful part of the prayer. Is it allowed to be omitted?

Destroying unused genetic material from IVF procedures?

  • George. Bellingham, Mass. I was reading the catechism re: life issues. Regarding In Vitro Fertilization, if the sperm and egg are not viable, is it as morally unacceptable to destroy them as it would be if the sperm and egg are viable?

What is Jesus doing now?

  • Joe. Buffalo. What is Jesus doing in heaven now?

Are we not required to love our parents?

Homework from last Friday
  • Rebecca from St. Petersburg asked about Dennis Prager's view that children only need to honor their parents, not love them.
Prager: "The bible understands that there will always be people who, for whatever reason, do not love a parent. Therefore, it does not demand what may be psychologically or emotionally impossible, but it does demand that we honor our parents."
Jesus: "What is impossible for you is possible for God. Love your enemies; pray for those who persecute you. Forgive seventy times seventy times!"
Yes, the parent-child relationsip is unique.
Yes, the family is the basic unit of society.
Yes, honor of parental is the glue that holds the family and therefore society together.
Yes, it is wrong for parents to seek to be "loved" as if they were the buddies of their babies. Parents must assert authority and children must yield to their parents' authority. When push comes to shove, it is right for parents to say, "Because I say so." This is often God's answer to our "why" questions, too. There are some things we cannot see for ourselves until we have grown more. Until that time, "because I say so" is the best answer.

Who is the greatest person "born of woman"?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Jesus says in Matthew 11 that John the Baptist was the greatest person ever born of a woman. I thought CHRIST himself or Mary would be the greatest?

How do I regularlize my marriage?

  • Anonymous from e-mail: I have been married for 15 years to my current husband and would like to have the marriage recognized by the Church so that I can receive the sacraments. I was first married in the Catholic Church. I was divorced from that man, and he has since died. I married another man in a civil service, then divorced him. I married my third and current husband in a civil service. He has been married in civil services and has been divorced twice. He is not Catholic and is not baptized. He has a hard time understanding why he has to participate in my annulment process. How should I explain it to him?

Did Jesus want us to mutilate our bodies?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Anonymous from Facebook: Christ tells us not to lust after someone, because it is adultery. He also commands us to pluck out our eye and cut off our hands if they cause us to sin. Why is it that I never hear Catholic or Protestants discuss this passage?

How to be chaste in marital relations?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: In what way is it appropriate to desire union with my spouse?
Gregory Popcak, A Catholic Guide to Infallible Loving.
Chastity in Marriage.

Bl. Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago

Vatican News Service biography of Blessed Carlos Manuel.
— "Vivimos para esa noche" — "We live for that night" == the night of the Easter Vigil, in which we recall Jesus passing from death to life on Easter Sunday.
— "Charlie’s Beatification Process was indeed a swift one! Initiated in 1992, the positio on heroic virtues, lead to his status as Venerable as of July 7, 1997. The miracle for his beatification (cure of non-Hodgkins malignant lymphoma back in 1981) was approved on December 20,1999 by HH John Paul II. Thus, a record-making eight-year span, a first for lay actors!"

Straight from Earth to Heaven?

  • Shawn from Facebook: In the second letter to the Corinthians, it says: "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" (2 Cor 5:8). Does that mean that there is no purgatory? Do we just die and go straight to Heaven?
"For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil" (2 Cor 5:10).

Can the Church change the canon?

  • John from Facebook: Since it was the Catholic Church that decided the canon of the Bible, could the Catholic Church ever change the contents of the Bible by adding or removing books in the future?
Antilegomena: These antilegomena or "disputed writings" were widely read in the Early Church and included the Epistle of James, the Epistle of Jude, 2 Peter, 2 and 3 John, the Apocalypse of John, the Gospel of the Hebrews, the Apocalypse of Peter (unique in being the only book never accepted as canonical which was commentated upon by a Church Father), the Acts of Paul, the Shepherd of Hermas, the Epistle of Barnabas and the Didache.

How to start spiritual direction?

  • Anonymous. Massachusetts. I have felt for a long time that I need some type of spiritual direction and grounding. However, I'm not sure how to seek it out. Can you suggest a simple way to get started beyond my parish priest? Does it depend on how spiritually "developed" one is? Thank you.

Our Lady of the Americas?

  • Bob. Boston, NY. Could you tell me the story of the appearances of "Our Lady of the Americas" that occured around 1956?
Marian_Theology#Apparitions_that_have_not_been_approved Apparitions that have not been approved.

Good book for 4-year old who loves to pray?

  • Jessica. Can anyone recommend a kid friendly book, or guide to teaching young kids about Jesus' death and resurrection? My son who is 4 loves going to Adoration and going though the Stations of the Cross.

Love gives us free will

  • David, Buffalo, NY. I wanted to add a comment about the conversation about free will that it is because we are beings that have the ability to love and also that God's love for us gives is free will.

Defending the faith in an irreligious world

  • Shawn from Facebook: "In a pre-scientific understanding of the world, people naturally believed things happened because of the action of God, Angels, Demons, and the like; but now we can explain everything through the laws of science. We can see throughout history that religion, morals, and culture have evolved. How can we defend the faith in a world that seems to have no need of religion?"

May a couple marry who cannot consummate the vows?

  • Ann, Massachusetts. I heard on the radio that a Catholic woman and man should not get married if they cannot consummate their vows because of a medical condition. I cannot believe this could be right.
EWTN library.
impotence is indeed an impediment to marriage

Slavery approved in the Bible?

  • Anonymous. According to scriptures, slavery is not considered immoral, however there are specific instructions on how to beat slaves correctly. Why did neither God or Jesus teach that owning another human being is immoral? Nowhere is this stated in the bible! Mark Twain wrote: "In all the ages the Roman Church has owned slaves, bought and sold slaves, authorized and encouraged her children to trade in them. Long after some Christian peoples had freed their slaves the Church still held on to hers. If any could know, to absolute certainty, that all this was right, and according to God’s will and desire, surely it was she, since she was God’s specially appointed representative in the earth and sole authorized and infallible expounder of his Bible. There were the texts; there was no mistaking their meaning; she was right, she was doing in this thing what the bible had mapped out for her to do. So unassailable was her position that in all the centuries she had no word to say against human slavery."

Consecration to Mary?

  • Shawn from Facebook: How can Catholics consecrate themselves to Mary? She is not God. Isn't it a sin against the First Commandment to vow yourselves to her service?

Conflicting Scripture Passages

  • John from Facebook: In a recent Sunday reading from 1 Kings, God said to Solomon, "I give you a heart so wise and discerning that there has never been anyone like you until now, nor after you will there be anyone to equal you" (1 Kings 3:12). But in Matthew, it says, "There is something greater than Solomon here" (Matthew 12:42). How do you reconcile the two passages?
Similar kind of conundrum: What did Jesus mean when He said that "Amen, I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he" (Mt 11:11)? Wasn't Mary greater than John the Baptist through her Immaculate Conception?
And, of course, "all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23). Doesn't that mean that Mary and Jesus were both sinners?
"No sign will be given this generation except the sign of Jonah, for just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth" (Mt 12:40).

Followup question from John

John from Facebook:

  • If the church teaches us not to read passages literally, why does it not apply this to the teachings on the supper of The Lord or giving Peter the keys to the kingdom? How does the Church discern what should be taken literally and what isn't? My non Catholic friends say the Church chooses to take literally those passages that support her doctrinal position. After all the churches authority comes from reading the passage on the keys given to Peter literally doesn't it?

Can Mary bless us?

  • Shawn from Facebook: I heard a priest say the rosary. He said, "May Mary bless you with her holy child." How can Mary bless us with anything? She has no power outside of Christ.

Boys will be boys?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Your 12-year old catches about 10 dragonflies, takes their wings off, and puts them in a cup “because he wants to see them fight.” Is that just boys being boys? Or do you tell him that it’s wrong to hurt animals for fun? He has Reactive Attachment Disorder which causes me additional concern.

Tips for Lay Evangelization?

From the "Ask a Priest" page on TheStationOfTheCross.com:
Michael: The Pope has called lay people to evangelize. I very heatedly expressed my objections to a fictional TV show which portrayed a catholic priest in a very negative way. A high school senior responded to my criticisms by expressing a desire for God, but he also expressed some reservations about God and showed a real lack of knowledge of the faith. How about having a show where people call in to discuss their ideas for lay evangelization and talk about their successes or failures in bearing witness to the tremendous hidden treasures of our faith?

How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God?

  • How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God? Maybe two make an explicit claim — Jeremiah and Revelation.
Jeremiah: "Take a scroll and write on it all the words I have spoken to you about Israel, Judah, and all the nations, from the day I first spoke to you, from the days of Josiah, until today" (36:2).
"Proving Inspiration."
What about the Bible’s own claim to inspiration? There are not many places where such a claim is made even elliptically, and most books in the Old and New Testaments make no such claim at all. In fact, no New Testament writer explicitly claims that he himself is writing at the direct behest of God, with the exception of John, the author of Revelation.

Taped evidence — nursing home

  • Luisa from "Ask a Priest" [today]: My mother was in the nursing home up until she passed away. We placed a camera in her room because they kept dropping her. Although the policy of the nursing home prohibits recording sound in the patients' bedrooms, by accident, some of our videos recorded the nurses abusing my mother verbally. May I use these recordings in good faith to bring an action against the nursing home?

Why can't women preach in Church?

  • From a pastor who listens to the show: When you answered Betsy's question on August 4th about how women can preach the gospel even though they are not allowed to read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy, you dodged the question of why women and laymen cannot read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy. I may not be the smartest kid on the block, but I can tell when someone is ducking a tough question! :o) [Note well: this priest is a very good and orthodox priest, and he is a friend of mine. This is a kind and well-meaning question, not a screed in favor of abandoning the Church's tradition! I think it is a good question.]

NFP for a pre-menopausal couple?

  • Anonymous from "Ask a Priest" on the Station of the Cross website — spend a little time explaining how to find and use this page on the website. My impression is that it is right on the front page, down at the bottom. That's how I see it, anyway, using a browser; I couldn't find it on the iCatholicRadio app. "Submit your questions for a priest to answer live on Calling All Catholics, airing weekdays from 5-6 pm ET."
I am concerned whether my husband and I are committing a mortal sin in our intimate relations. Because I am pre-menopausal, the signs of our fertile time are very uncertain, so I can't tell with much confidence when we are in a fertile time in our relationship. We used to use Natural Family Planning, but now we are not completing the marital act in a natural fashion. My health is poor, and we do not want to become pregnant at this time in our marriage. Are we committing a sin by not completing the marriage act normally?
BE POSITIVE. The Church upholds the natural act of love in marriage as the norm for judging what is right and wrong in our relationships. Whenever a couple chooses the joy of union, their expression of love should be such that they do nothing to make it impossible for them to become pregnant through their union. This norm rules out barrier methods, the use of artificial hormones that fool the woman's body into thinking that she is already pregnant, and any other actions that would keep the union of the couple from being fruitful. If you and your husband feel sure that you cannot afford to become pregnant at this time in your life, you must abstain from union for a while until your health improves or you reach the point at which you can have greater confidence than you do now in identifying the fertile times in your cycle; you might want to ask for help from a certified Natural Family counselor to get help in understanding the signs at this time in your life. Abstinence is hard, but not impossible. It, too, is an act of love for each other and for our Creator. Abstinence chosen out of love for one another for shorter or longer times has its own rewards, though they are, of course, more subtle and on a different level from the joy of expressing your love for each other directly through marital union. We have been praying for you and your husband, Anonymous, since we received your e-mail. We hope that you will find great joy in being faithful and true to each other as well as abiding by God's plan for your marriage.
"Christoper West's Ideas on Sexuality Ignore Tremendous Dangers — Alice von Hildebrand."

Why is the Old Testament so vague about Trinity and the Eucharist?

  • Sara from the Fund Drive:
  1. Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Trinity?
  2. Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Eucharist?

Is spiritual dryness a sin?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Is having spiritual dryness a sin?

How should Catholics vote?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Election season is upon us. The Catholic voter guide basically says "don't vote for abortion," and rightly so. But, I have never supported GOP politics either, although they are the closest thing we have to a pro-life party. So how should I vote then?
USCCB Voting Guide for Catholics.

Struggling with Marian prayers

Shawn from Facebook: I struggle with certain Marian prayers that ask her to save us, etc; I don't get that... Because she can't do anything without God's power. She is merely a creature, though the highest of all creation. I have trouble with the rosary too. Why not just pray the "Our Father"?

Chesterton Academy in England?

  • Maria Bachelier from e-mail: Is there any Chesterton academy in England, where I live?
Not yet. There is one in Italy. Dale Ahlquist is in Europe right now. More may be under development.
Emily de Rotstein, Executive Director
Chesterton Academy — www.chestertonacademy.org
info@chestertonacademy.org

Why does the Catechism calls us "gods"?

  • John from Facebook: I have been reading the Catechism each night. I have a question regarding paragraph 460 which says, "The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods." This passage uses the lower case letter g. In the Old Testament, this is how the pagan gods are referred to. What does lower case "gods" mean here?
Divinization.

Righteous anger vs. sinful anger

  • John from Facebook:
  1. Could you explain righteous anger and sinful anger? Are there scriptural references to these two kinds of anger? Could you give some ideas how to counteract the sin of anger? — Christian Anger Management.
  2. Also would you please pray for my niece, Marybeth, who suffers from a head injury she received in an accident some time ago.

Multiple sins in an invalid marriage

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Suppose a person got married only in order to obtain a visa and did not intend the marriage to last. Is that person sinning if they do not get an annulment? Is that person committing fornication when they have relations with their innocent spouse?

Uncharitable thoughts and feelings

  • Anonymous from Facebook: I am a volunteer at my parish. I arranged to switch volunteer nights with another parishioner. I covered their night, but they did not cover mine. I was called and asked to come fill in for them. I felt annoyed at the prospect, but did eventually offer to fill the empty spot. I feel that I was selfish and uncharitable. Did I commit a sin by being annoyed or by waiting a while before I said yes?

Do same-sex marriages invalidate all marriages in the state or the denomination?

  • Peter John from e-mail:
  1. If Christian denominations and many states are recognizing same-sex marriages, does that not mean that all of the marriages in those denominations or states are necessarily invalid in the eyes of the Church? If so, wouldn't that simplify the annulment process for those who contracted marriage before a justice of the peace in those states or in those denominations?
  2. I am upset that I see people who are cohabiting receive the sacraments while those who are in post-divorce marriages cannot. This especially troublesome when the divorced and remarried have no children from earlier marriages, have built a good family in their current marriages, and live devout lives otherwise.

Should we hold hands during the Our Father?

Why not do mandalas in our parish?

  • NOT ON THE LINE. Liz from Rochester. Please speak about what Mandala is and why it shouldn’t be practiced at our parish.
The Mandala Project.

Blessed are those who murder babies?

  • Kevin from e-mail: The last verse of Psalm 137 is really horrible. It says, "Blessed is the man who seizes the children of Babylon and dashes their brains out against a rock." Isn't God the father of Babylonian children, too? How could murdering innocent children bring blessings to those who murder them?

Why was John the Baptist not freed from captivity?

  • John from Facebook: The gospel of Luke says that Jesus came to set the captives free. If so, then why didn't Jesus free John the Baptist from captivity?

When should we accept death for those whom we love?

  • Katy from e-mail: Every day at Mass I hear the priest ask us to pray for life, "from its natural beginning to its natural end." I remain confused as to why keeping an infant (or anyone) with a terminal illness on life support, in this case mechanical ventilation, is celebrated. I don't understand why anyone would want to watch a loved one suffering with a tracheostomy when that loved one could be in paradise with Jesus. Is this brave to keep them alive, or is it selfish?
Catholic Medical Ethics


U.S. Bishops dedicated to Marxism since 1979?

  • Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
- I have an article from 1979 which says that U.S. bishops were dedicated to preaching Marxism instead of Christianity. Is that claim true?

Positive outcomes from Vatican II

  • Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
- Can you name three positive outcomes of Vatican II?
- Recognition that we owe religious assent to the ordinary teachings of the Magisterium. The Scriptures are the fruit of Tradition and are part of Tradition; they do not replace it.
- Catechism of the Catholic Church.
- Discussion of marriage as a noble vocation, including praise of the nobility of the act of marital union, reaffirmation of the Church's traditional teaching on avoiding contraceptives, and a strong condemnation of abortion as an abominable crime.

Canon law and Catholic identity

  • Melanie from Twitter: Is it a violation of canon law to question someone's Catholic identity?
Can. 216: "Since they participate in the mission of the Church, all the Christian faithful have the right to promote or sustain apostolic action even by their own undertakings, according to their own state and condition. Nevertheless, no undertaking is to claim the name Catholic without the consent of competent ecclesiastical authority."

Calling God "Allah"

  • Winna from Twitter: Do you know the Arabic word 'Allah'? Do you think it is inappropriate for Christians to use the Arabic word for God?

Thanks for help with Desolation

  • Anonymous from Facebook: "Thank you for answering my questions about desolation in such a great detail in a show you did in the summer time. I feel very comforted after hearing from you on the show and I'm actually feeling relieved with the clarity especially after learning about desolation. I can't thank you enough for this. I feel that I'm suddenly pulled back in when I was almost falling off a steep cliff — thank you so much for the rescue!"

New forms of Catholicism?

Mark: What the "New Catholic Churches"?

Schismatic Catholics.

Experimental Medical Treatments

  • Dan from Facebook: Does the Church have any definitive position on the use of experimental medical treatments? A friend has stage 4 melanoma, and an experimental drug is his best (and apparently only) chance for survival. The problem is that it hasn't been approved by the FDA — the family wants it for "compassionate use" in the meantime. I just have to decide whether to sign the petition they are circulating.

Anathema sit!

  • Debbie from Amherst: The Council of Trent says that anyone who objects to the doctrine of the Church is "anathema." What does that mean for our Protestant brothers and sisters who have left the Church?

Deification

  • Andrew from e-mail: It appears that in Eastern Catholic Theology one can become closer to God after death through deification. The Eastern Catholics claim that their saints move closer to God even in heaven. In Western theology this does not appear possible. One gains merit/treasures in heaven while alive, and assuming one gets to heaven, that's it — no more! You are as close to God as possible. Not all saints are the same in glory. There is no more change possible. These Eastern and Western views are logically incompatible; both cannot be true.
Deification

Is God "static"?

Andrew from e-mail: In the 'eternal realm' there is no time. How can we be dynamic yet God is static? He does not change with time only we do. Is there a 'time' we live in in the eternal realm (the theory of 'days' in purgatory is popular but the concept was 'not up for debate' in the East because they did not see it as theologically worth pursing). Are these concepts merely beyond human understanding and simple part of the 'mystery' that so permeates our sense of eternity?

Burning Man

  • Kathleen from Facebook: I recently came across some information about "The Burning Man Experience" in the Black Rock Desert in Nevada. It was quite disturbing and reminded me of pagan rituals. Can you shed more light on this?

Questions about questions

  • Two different friends asked me recently, "What is the hardest question you have received? Your favorite question? Your least favorite question?"

How could Adam and Eve sin?

  • Thomas from e-mail: If Adam and Eve did not have Original Sin, they did not have concupiscence, by which we mean the tendency of our disordered appetites to lead us to sin. Why weren't they immune to temptation?

What do goats symbolize in the Bible?

  • John from Facebook: I saw a Masonic website that linked goats to Babylonian mystery religions. The author suggested that the goat was a symbol of the Temple and Temple builders. Is this how the symbolism of goats works in the Scriptures? Would this add an extra dimension to the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25? Does the Church have a specific teaching on the meaning of goats in the Bible?

How to "Offer it up?"

  • Sherry. Arlington, Virginia. iCatholic. I have a question about suffering and "offering it up". I am not a cradle Catholic, so I did not get the benefit of learning about this while growing up. What I've done is simply a mental prayer like this: "Dear God, I offer you this pain (or discomfort, or whatever suffering I am going through at the moment)". Is this adequate? Sometimes I add " to join in Christ's suffering on the cross in order to help redeem the world (or for some other purpose like to help a sick friend or family member)". Is this an acceptable way to offer up suffering? Thank you. We love your radio show!

Theology of Global Warming?

  • Marilyn. Buffalo, New York. I have another philosophical question. From the standpoint of Genesis, is global warming man-made or part of God's plan? Why would God make us in His image and then give us the power to destroy his creation? Would God really allow us to be such a problem?

Traces of the Trinity in the Old Testament

  • Mike Denz from WLOF: A while back, you talked with a listener about Old Testament passages that foreshadhow the revelation of the Trinity in the New Testament. Isn't there are a foreshadowing of John's Trinitarian theology of the Word made flesh in Genesis 1? Genesis 1 portrays God as creating by speaking words of command such as "Let there be light — and there was light;" then John's gospel says that God created through the Word.
Speaker, breath, word — Father, Spirit, Son (the missions of the Trinity, not the eternal relationships between the Divine Persons). The Spirit is not mentioned explicitly until 1:32; John testifies that he saw the Spirit descend upon Jesus and that Jesus would "baptize with the Holy Spirit."
Ruah in Genesis 1:1.
  • Brian from Facebook: I have two questions.
Part I: In the case of a pastoral administrator charged with a parish assignment, where does the buck stop? With the pastoral administrator or a priest (sacramental minister) also assigned to the same parish?
There is a separation of powers.
A Parish Administrator (PA) is responsible for anything you can do with money, including collecting it. The PA may also define the parish schedule, organize non-sacramental ministries, and obtain services from priests or deacons as needed when the assigned Sacramental Minister (SM) is unavailable. I imagine that the PA would run the catechetical programs and would be the person who hires and fires other parish workers. The PA would also keep all of the books — financial, sacramental records, school records, etc.
The sacramental minister is responsible for seeing that the sacraments are offered correctly.
Grey areas probably not defined by law but settled on a case-by-case basis: furnishings, music, "smells and bells."
Part II: What is your opinion of people calling a priest a "sacramental minister"?
It's accurate, if not very poetic. There are some men who, for one reason or another, should not act as pastors. They can supply the sacraments for a parish, but do not have the gifts or virtues required for administration. I think this causes great grief to the priests.
One priest in our diocese was a "sacramental minister" after being a priest for at least 25 years, and was apparently despondent at being ordered to leave his parish so that another priest could become pastor, relieving a deacon and his wife of the job of P.A. Not being promoted to pastor hurt the priest terribly, but the act of suicide suggests to me that it was not a bad decision not to promote him — he was not a well man (may he rest in peace).
Better title? "Parish priest" or "Parish father."

Destiny of the souls of those who die in abortion

  • Matthew Paul via Facebook: Is there a definitive Church teaching on what happens to the souls of aborted children? Are they martyrs through a "baptism of blood"?
Afterlife for aborted children?

Did Jesuits tried to kill John Paul II?

  • Alex from e-mail: A very devout Polish Catholic friend of mine believes that John Paul II was about to dissolve the Society of Jesus, also known as "the Jesuits," but was prevented from doing so by being shot by Ali Agca, who was acting on behalf of the Jesuits. The only reference I could find about this was from Malachi Martin's book, The Jesuits.
1981: Arrupe's stroke; appointment of Vinny O'Keefe to be Acting General; replacement of O'Keefe by Paulo Dezza.
1983: assassination attempt on 13 May; election of Fr. Kolvenbach on 13 September.

Gay lobby on Catholic campuses

  • Kevin from Buffalo:
Setup for the question
A recent New York Times article talked about how Georgetown has become a "gay-friendly institution." Mr. Lloyd, the pride group president, says he is often tempted to join the more tolerant Episcopal Church. But for many young Catholics, particularly of Irish or Italian descent, Catholicism is interchangeable with identity. “You stay Catholic because you have a love of the institution and you want to change it,” he said.
With a prophetic air, campus crusaders for this new “21st century” “Catholic” identity make ex cathedra pronouncements like “Society is changing, and God is in that change.”
The question
What do you think about this approach to being Catholic?

Taking nephews to Communion

  • Laura from Facebook: My 11- and 12-year old sons periodically invite their cousins to sleep over on a Saturday night. On Sunday we all attend Mass together. I know my nephews do not attend Mass regularly, and I doubt that they ever go to Confession. Should I confront them about this? What responsibilities do I have as their Aunt?

Jesuits in Upstate New York?

  • Parishioner of Peter Calabrese asked via e-mail: Have you ever heard in the “family lore” of Jesuits working in the Lewiston area very early on?

Sex reassignment surgery

  • Kathy, Rochester, New York. At work, my Department Head announced at a staff meeting that an employee was going to be changing from a male to a female. What is the church's teaching on that?

Confirmation Necessary for Marriage?

  • Dolores. Hamburg, New York. If a Catholic is Baptized and received the first Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist, but NOT Confirmed, can they be married in the Church?

"Queen of Creation"

  • From a parishioner: I like to call Mary "Queen of Creation" when I am praying to her. Is that appropriate?

Selling or renting property to same-sex couples

  • From a parishioner: Would I be cooperating in evil if I sold or rented a house to a same-sex couple?

What would Jesus think of today's Church?

  • Bob from e-mail: If Christ returned to Earth tomorrow as a typically normal 21st Century Catholic, what do you think He would think of the Church that He created and the leadership it has? Would he approve of it and back it, unquestionably? Or, would he rail against it, or various aspects of it, as he did the moneychangers and merchants whose tables He dispersed from the synagogue when he was here 2000+ years ago?

Promoting Women's Vocations to Religious Life

  • Patti from e-mail: Imagine Sisters wants to make Jesus loved by introducing the world to religious sisters in love with Christ through media and personal encounters. We want to encourage and inspire a culture of vocations to women’s religious life by fostering a deep desire for holiness through the witness of religious sisters.

Who are the vultures?

  • From Awesome Lawson: I was told by a priest that the verse, "Wherever the corpse is, there the vultures will gather" (Mt 24:28) refers to Eucharistic adoration. Is that true?

Footwashing

  • Letitia: Footwashing is for everybody — everybody should do it to everybody. She sent slippers, a towel, and foot cream to her nieces and nephews, and asked them to wash their mother's feet. Jesus said, "Do as I do. Such love and humility. Jesus took the place of the last and the least. Usually done by the Gentile slave, by wives for their husbands, by children for their parents, and by disciples for their teachers.

St. Malachy and the End of the World

"Pope Francis = Peter The Roman = Antichrist ?"
"In the extreme persecution of the Holy Roman Church, there will sit Peter the Roman, who will nourish the sheep in many tribulations; when they are finished, the city of seven hills will be destroyed, and the dreadful judge will judge his people. The end."

Seven Pilgrim Churches

Catholic Children's Bible

Fr. Walter Ciszek, SJ

  • Suellen Ann from Facebook: I just saw a beautiful documentary on EWTN about Fr. Walter Ciszek, a Jesuit who was held captive in Siberia for 15 years. Could you talk a little bit about his life and works?
Walter Ciszek, SJ

Catholic understanding of marriage

  • Nicole from e-mail: I spoke w/a 20-something co-worker regarding male/female complementarity one day when she mentioned that people who don't accept "same-sex marriage" are bigots. She listened to me kindly but did not accept the idea that opposite genders go together because of procreation. Her immediate answer was, "well, the couple can use IVF." I find that many younger people have a utilitarian point of view - the end justifies the means. How can I present the Church's teaching on marriage and the natural law in the most effective fashion?

Evidence of Ordination of Women?

Year of Faith Website

  • David M. from Rochester: Here is the Vatican’s website for the year of faith: www.annusfidei.va.

Common Bible includes "Apocrypha"

  • John W. from e-mail: I was very surprised this afternoon when you quoted Tobit 4:8 on giving. You said, "The Protestants don’t have Tobit in their Bible." Here in Canada, or at least Toronto, we DO! We also have Judith, Wisdom, Baruch, 1&2 Maccabees, and the other Deuterocanonical Books in the pew Bibles of at least our local Anglican and Presbyterian churches, and probably in the local United Church too. The pew Bibles are the “New Revised Standard Version (with Apocrypha).” These are logical developments based on Vatican II, which began fifty years ago, and the first Anglican-Roman Catholic Common Declaration and the establishment of the Anglican-Roman Catholic International Commission forty-six years ago. Most Protestant churches are also using the Revised Common Lectionary. Is this just a Canadian thing?
- Apocrypha in Common Bible.

Psychology and Catholicism

  • John from Facebook: At the school I work, they are doing workshops on motivation and learning. They presented a workshop on William Glasser's "choice theory," which seems to me to advocate faith but no God. When the Church provides counsel through Catholic Charities or even through a priest, how does it merge psychology and faith?

Godly Gynecology; Pregnancy Support Services

  • Melissa from Kenmore, New York: "A friend of a friend of mine was told for decades that she had a thyroid problem that would prevent her from becoming pregnant. The doctors were wrong. When she began to gain weight because of a pregnancy, her doctor just adjusted her medication, thinking that her weight gain was due to thyroid problems, not a pregnancy. This was a devastating situation for her, as she ended up having an abortion. Many women who opt for abortion are not FOR abortion in and of itself. Many just do not have the support of the father or their family, and do not know who would help them cope with an unplanned child at the time of birth. Could you list some resources women in such a situation can turn to?"

Pacifism required?

  • Anonymous: Why do some candidates who are pro life still support violence via wars, detainment, and the like? Why can't being pro life mean being more vigilant in ending wars through diplomatic talks rather than continuing what seems an endless fight in another country? Our military wants to come home. Does war ever make any sense?"
- Just War Theory.

Feeling guilty after Confession

  • Anonymous: "I have a hard time forgiving myself, even after I confess a sin in confession. Is that also a sin?"
Feeling guilty after Confession.

Interceding for Sinners

  • Anonymous: "What is the consequence if someone who is not Catholic receives the Eucharist in ignorance. Besides educating them, is there a penance one can do for them?"
What should I do when I see others sin?
Forgiveness Prayer.

Spiritual Warfare

  • Can people be used by demons to try and fight and create turmoil and strife?
  • Are there angels and demons duking it out fighting for our souls?
  • Also, I saw on a blog where a guy said to look in the Old Testament as to how many people Satan killed vs God. He claims that Satan only killed ten and God killed thousands. So, in his view, the whole Christian idea of God is false, and Satan got a raw deal.

Genocide in the Old Testament?

  • Kevin from e-mail: Why did God order the Israelites to massacre whole villages when they conquered them? Today we would call that "genocide" or "ethnic cleansing." The Church teaches that it is intrinscially evil to target whole populations in warfare. How could God command His people to do evil?

Successors of the other apostles?

  • Rich from e-mail: Most Catholics know that the Pope is the successor to Peter. Has the "lineage" from the other apostles been preserved just as carefully? Would the holders of some of those Sees be the Latin Patriarchs? There are not twelve of this class, so who are the direct successors of all of the original apostles and Paul? (I include him because of his unique status).

Patriarchs and Cardinals

  • Rich from e-mail: I think that a fairly recent canonical change required that all patriarchs be made cardinals, although they've always actually outranked cardinals in the hierarchy. Is that correct?