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== March 18 ==
== December 19 ==
* Prayer: [[Benedict_XVI:_Lent,_2011#Second_Sunday_of_Lent]].
* Benedict's reflection on the [http://moleski.net/cac/Benedict_XVI:_Lent,_2011#Second_Sunday_of_Lent Second Sunday of Lent: the Transfiguration.]
* "Baptism is the Forgotten Sacrament."
* We could discuss the [[New American Bible Revised Edition (NABRE)]], which was released on Ash Wednesday.
* Feast of [[Doctors|St. Cyril of Jerusalem,]] 4th-century Bishop of Jerusalem; doctor of the Church.
* We could go back to John from Webster's question about [[Varieties of non-Catholic Christianity|the beliefs of different Protestant denominations.]]


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* Faith 'n' Reason Friday.
* Any topic OK.
* All callers welcome.
:; Last few days of Advent  —  St. John the Baptist, pray for us!


; [[Miracles, signs, and wonders]]
:; Luke 1:76


* Kevin from Buffalo: [http://www.centerforinquiry.net/blogs/entry/father_bakers_miracles/ Joe Nickell from the Center for Skeptical Inquiry] says that it is impossible to prove that God alone is the cause of allegedly miraculous events and that, therefore, the Church should stop examining the question of whether any miracles can be attributed to Fr. Baker. What do you think about that?
:: You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High;
:: for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way,
:: to give his people knowledge of salvation
:: by the forgiveness of their sins.
* [[Prayer to St. John the Baptist]]
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==== Privatio boni ====
* From John on Facebook (''he may post this question on Facebook during the show''): Some of my friends argue that there is no need for a priesthood.  In the Bible, the term is used only of the Old Testament priests who served in the Temple.  In the New Testament, the terms "episcopos" and "presbyter" are used, not "priest."  How can I answer this challenge to the Catholic understanding of priesthood?
John C. from e-mail: "I read an e-mail about how Einstein silenced an atheist professor by showing that:
* darkness is not a thing, but is the absence of light;
* cold is not a thing, but is the absence of heat;
* in the same way, evil is not a thing, but is the absence of goodness;
* we reason to things that we cannot see, hear, taste, touch, or smell directly, such as the professor's brain;
* we may therefore reason to the existence of the mind of God just as we reason to the existence of the atheist professor's brain.


"Isn't that a wonderful story?"
== Treasury of Unanswered Questions ==
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== March 11 ==
=== May the priest skip the "Deliver us from evil" prayer? ===
* Eric. Why don't most women cover their heads anymore? If it is all about modesty then why would Paul require it only while praying or prophesying?
* Boston, Mass. At mass at our church, after the Our Father, the priest goes directly to "For the kingdom, the power, etc" and omits the prayer in between that says, "Deliver us, Lord, from every evil.."  This seems to be an important and beautiful part of the prayer. Is it allowed to be omitted?
* Jason from Orlando: What is the History of the Stations of the Cross?
=== Destroying unused genetic material from IVF procedures? ===
* Jen from Buffalo: The readings on Ash Wednesday talk about doing your prayer, fasting, etc in secret, yet walk around all day with giant ash crosses on our forehead. That seeming contradiction has always bothered me. Can you discuss?
* George. Bellingham, Mass. I was reading the catechism re: life issues. Regarding In Vitro Fertilization, if the sperm and egg are not viable, is it as morally unacceptable to destroy them as it would be if the sperm and egg are viable?
* John from Webster, NY:
=== What is Jesus doing now? ===
** Why isn't Ash Wednesday a holy day of obligation? [http://www.msgr.ca/msgr-7/Ash_Wednesday_QandA.htm Jimmy Akin]: "Holy days of obligation are either commemorations of particular events (such as the birth of Christ or the presentation of Jesus in the Temple), particular people (such as Jesus' earthly father, St. Joseph), or important theological concepts (such as the Kingship of Christ). Ash Wednesday does not commemorate any event (nothing special happened forty days before the crucifixion -- at least not that we know of), and could only be said to indirectly commemorate a Person (Christ) since it is the beginning of preparation for the greater celebrations of Christ's saving work, which follow, and although Ash Wednesday is a day of penance (like all of the days of Lent except Sundays, which are feast days no matter when they occur in the liturgical calendar since they celebrate Christ's resurrection), the Church has never chosen to make it or any other specific day the definitive commemoration of the concept of repentance."
* Joe. Buffalo. What is Jesus doing in heaven now?
** Can we say novenas any time, or only on prescribed days?
=== Are we not required to love our parents? ===
** Looking for website/resources about our Protestant brothers and sisters - what do the different denominations believe?
:; Homework from last Friday
** Comment - last week Canisius got beat upJohn says that Father Moleski's ministry is one of the blessings at Canisius.
:* Rebecca from St. Petersburg asked about Dennis Prager's view that children only need to honor their parents, not love them.
::: Prager: "The bible understands that there will always be people who, for whatever reason, do not love a parent.  Therefore, it does not demand what may be psychologically or emotionally impossible, but it does demand that we honor our parents."
::: Jesus: "What is impossible for you is possible for God. Love your enemies; pray for those who persecute you.  Forgive seventy times seventy times!"
::: Yes, the parent-child relationsip is unique.
::: Yes, the family is the basic unit of society.
::: Yes, honor of parental is the glue that holds the family and therefore society together.
::: Yes, it is wrong for parents to seek to be "loved" as if they were the buddies of their babies. Parents must assert authority and children must yield to their parents' authority.  When push comes to shove, it is right for parents to say, "Because I say so."  This is often God's answer to our "why" questions, too.  There are some things we cannot see for ourselves until we have grown more.  Until that time, "because I say so" is the best answer.
=== Who is the greatest person "born of woman"? ===
* Shawn from Facebook: Jesus says in Matthew 11 that John the Baptist was the greatest person ever born of a woman. I thought CHRIST himself or Mary would be the greatest?
=== How do I regularlize my marriage? ===
* Anonymous from e-mail:  I have been married for 15 years to my current husband and would like to have the marriage recognized by the Church so that I can receive the sacramentsI was first married in the Catholic Church. I was divorced from that man, and he has since died.  I married another man in a civil service, then divorced him.  I married my third and current husband in a civil service.  He has been married in civil services and has been divorced twice.  He is not Catholic and is not baptized.  He has a hard time understanding why he has to participate in my annulment process. How should I explain it to him?


== March 8 ==
=== Did Jesus want us to mutilate our bodies? ===
* Chris from Texas:
* Anonymous from Facebook: Anonymous from Facebook: Christ tells us not to lust after someone, because it is adultery. He also commands us to pluck out our eye and cut off our hands if they cause us to sin. Why is it that I never hear Catholic or Protestants discuss this passage?
# When is the correct time to distribute ashes during the Ash Wednesday Mass? Before Mass (like the 1962 Liturgy), After the Homily, or After Mass?
# Why do some parishes schedule only 1 Ash Wednesday Mass and have 5 to 6 Liturgy of the Word/Distribution of Ashes services on Ash Wednesday? Wouldn't it be more practical for people to receive both their ashes and the Eucharist that day?
# Ashes can be purchased from Church Supply sites.
* Cindy from Leominster, MA: "The church does not have a dogmatic definition of the sequence of events at the end of the world." That's because the Church does not need one. Unfortunately some -- not all -- fundamentalist groups use the really, really immanent return of Christ as the reason not to invest in society. I know many fundamentalists who are of this mind-set.... These groups have four different interpretations about the Tribulation and Rapture and all of that. If this teaching were clear in Scripture, wouldn't all the groups have one and the same conclusion?
* Cindy: Is there a prayer that you could suggest to be said by the whole family during Lent? I was thinking something like a decade together each evening......Thank you!
* Patricia from Buffalo: If a person because of illness is unable to receive sacraments and attend church services, if they perform good works and listens to mass on the radio, can they get God' graces for all the work they put into leading a good life? What if one is not sure if they are they are in a state of grace?
* Bill from Boston, MA: Is The story of the woman caught in adultery not in the original Gospels. What is the Catholic perspective on this topic.
* Dennis from Buffalo: Fr can you tell me if the Eastern Orthodox churches have the same sacraments as the Catholic church?
* John from Webster: What is the Obligation during Lent & is it alright to still pray a Novena or more?
* Janet from Buffalo: I'm confused about my teenage daughter's Dr. suggesting that she take a birth control pill for acne control.
** Anonymous: wants to pass on info to the mother who called about the birth control to her teen-age daughter that her breast tissue is yet immature and therefore may  increase the chances for breast cancer.
** Alice. Batavia. Wants to add to try going to a health food store and look for something that is more natural and ask the clerk there for help on acne supplements.
* Gabriel from East Amherst: In the Gospel of Mark . He originally left. There is a postscript in the 16th chapter a few verses were added in which the church kept.
* Pauline from Buffalo: Wants to state that at Our Lady Help of Christians are burning last years Palms TONIGHT for the ashes on Ash Wednesday.  Is this Unusual?
* John: recently you have posted information on the extra books that are in the Catholic bible. You also posted quotes in the New Testament that can be found in the extra books in the Old Testament. Is there any reference to these books found in the Dead Sea scrolls? It's good to catch your show.
* Jason from Orlando: Father can you please explain how the Rock of Meribah is a type for Jesus?
* Margie from Buffalo: She had a daughter who's 18 , she is now pregnant again & I've tried to raise her the right way what do I do?
* Lizette: I was listening to Mother Angelica this morning and she was saying that a lie is a lie and I was wondering if I lie for a good reason like not to hurt the feeling of someone. Is that okay to do or do we have to tell the truth no matter if it's hurtful?
* Mark K. from e-mail:


== March 4 ==
=== How to be chaste in marital relations? ===
* Anonymous from Facebook:  In what way is it appropriate to desire union with my spouse?
:: [http://smile.amazon.com/Holy-Sex-Toe-Curling-Mind-Blowing-Infallible/dp/0824524713/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1415994991&sr=8-1&keywords=Gregory+Popcak%2C+%27%27A+Catholic+Guide+to+Infallible+Loving. Gregory Popcak, ''A Catholic Guide to Infallible Loving.'']
:: [[Chastity in Marriage]].


* Buddy from Athol. - Question about relat. between Roman Cath church & oriental churches
=== Bl. Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago ===
* Dennis. Buffalo. Father, as you know, John the Apostle was left to care for Mary by Jesus on Good Friday. My question is, did Mary go with John when he went about his preaching? Or did he stay with her until her Assumption, and then start his preaching mission? Also, Johns's gospel seems to go into the most depth of the gospels, as you can tell it stands alone compared to Matthew , Mark and Luke. Could that possibly be the influence of Mary and maybe she gave him some of her special insights?
* Gina Marie M. from Facebook: Could you do a program on [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlos_Manuel_Rodr%C3%ADguez_Santiago Blessed Carlos Manuel Rodríguez Santiago?] He cures cancer.
* Alison.  I am currently participating in a Great Adventure Bible study at my parish and this week, we focused on Ch 17 of Matthew. When discussing the Transfiguration, someone asked how the disciples recognized Moses and Elijah. While discussing this we speculated perhaps the nature of the conversation between Jesus, Moses & Elijah (discussed in Luke) might have enlightened the disciples or perhaps this knowledge was given to the disciples by God in the same way the knowledge of who Jesus is was revealed to Peter (Matt 16:17). Were we correct in our ideas? Is there any specific Catholic teaching on this question? Thanks and God bless!
::: — [http://www.vatican.va/news_services/liturgy/saints/ns_lit_doc_20010429_rodriguez-santiago_en.html Vatican News Service biography of Blessed Carlos Manuel.]
* Paul from Boston, MA - considering joining a Third Order; wants to know how one knows one is called to that
:::  —  "Vivimos para esa noche" — "We live for that night" == the night of the Easter Vigil, in which we recall Jesus passing from death to life on Easter Sunday.
* Debbie (not answered): Have they (dissenters) essentially excommunicated themselves?
:::  —  "Charlie’s Beatification Process was indeed a swift one! Initiated in 1992, the positio on heroic virtues, lead to his status as Venerable as of July 7, 1997. The miracle for his beatification (cure of non-Hodgkins malignant lymphoma back in 1981) was approved on December 20,1999 by HH John Paul II. Thus, a record-making eight-year span, a first for lay actors!"
* Tom from Buffalo. - Where is Canisius College going? Has 2 sons who used to go there, but withdrew b/c the college is not what they expected.  Have a very active gay/lesb. culture on campus...He is very concerned
* Carol from Depew - comment - Thank you, God bless you for your comments on the Canisius College issue and the situation with Cuomo, etc. She is glad to hear the Church has not changed its view about same-sex marriage
* Elaine from Buffalo - Is there something that people can do when they come across a so-called Catholic who is pro-abortion?
* Eric. Will any of those Christians who are alive during Christ's return have to go to Purgatory? If so, I don't understand how because I thought Scripture says they will be given a glorified body.
* Marie from Buffalo - had an experience with her daughter going to Canisius - daughter experienced promotion of a gay/lesb movie; someone coming to the class to promote this lifestyle - very disheartened - wanted to go to the Bishop
* http://www.franciscanstor.org/ The priests at Franciscan U. are TOR - Third Order Regular
* John from Rochester - was a student from Canisius - wanted to share a story similar to previous conversations
* Catherine’s family, horrified at her refusal to do the conventional thing, forced her to endure months of mistreatment before she won the right to join the Dominican Third Order and live a devout life at home. For three years, Catherine lived a life of prayer, silence, and austerity in her tiny 9-by-12-foot room. During the Carnival of 1366, she experienced a mystical betrothal to Christ. A few days later, she realized that God was asking her to leave her contemplative isolation and re-enter the world. Catherine of Siena was only 19 when her public ministry began.
* Barbara from Kenmore - She is a TOR - wanted to comment about '''Third Order Franciscans'''


== February 25 ==
=== Straight from Earth to Heaven? ===
* Buddy from Athol, MA: This is the first time he remembers that for 2 years in a row the Eastern and Western churches will celebrate Easter on the same day...Do you have a comment Father.
* John from Buffalo: Two questions. (1) In Romans 16.22 "I, Tertius, the writer of this letter, send you Christian greetings." Who was this Tertius. Didn't St. Paul write it? (2) Father on your Web site, I saw your table on the number of chapters in certain versions of the bible. I also noticed it on an iPod app too. Why are there differences between what some Christians say are in the Bible? Is it not a bit divisive to have different versions of something that is so important to all Christians?
* The books missing from Protestant Bibles are: Tobit, Judith, Baruch, Wisdom, Sirach, 1 and 2 Maccabees, and parts of Esther and Daniel.
* Bob from Sloan, NY: Did Martin Luther also try to take 4 books out of the NT, which were later put back in?
* Jason from Orlando, FL: If Eve was created w/o sin and Mary was created w/o sin, could Mary have sinned, and what would have happened if she did?
* "Naomi and her family suffered great misfortune in a foreign land. Ruth, a girl from that foreign land, decided to migrate with Naomi to Bethlehem. They arrived in time for the barley harvest."[http://www.womeninthebible.net/1.13.Ruth.htm]
* Jim from e-mail: [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSJCSR4MuhU This video] will fit in with your talking about Hannukah. Watch it. It's excellent. 
* Ann from Rochester, NY: Where in the NT is there anything about homosexuality?
* William from Norwood, MA:
** Once a person confesses on a regular basis, is that the equivalent of "repenting" or is repenting a change in a person's ways
** When baptized - children of God and going to Heaven - Does that mean they can do anything they want?  Wouldn't they then need to be baptized again as an adult?


== February 18 ==
* Shawn from Facebook:  In the second letter to the Corinthians, it says: "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" (2 Cor 5:8).  Does that mean that there is no [[purgatory]]?  Do we just die and go straight to Heaven?
::: "For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil" [http://usccb.org/bible/2cor/5:10 (2 Cor 5:10).]


* Nora from Williamsville, NY: Our oldest son, James, is making his First Holy Communion in May. We are interested in getting him a Bible, since he is beyond the toddler-type Bible story books we have. Do you have a specific suggestion that would be age-appropriate, maybe something with deeper questions or explanations along with the text? Thank you, and God Bless!
=== Can the Church change the canon? ===
* Buddy from Athol, MA:  Do you think there will be reconciliation between the Roman Catholic Church and the Polish National Church
* Jason from Orlando, Fl: Has a female friend who is discerning a vocation to a religious life.  What can he do to encourage her to pursue this path?
* Diane from Rochester: Heard a lecture on Genesis - they said that God created more than just Adam and Eve at the same time.  Doesn't the Church teach that we are all descendents of Adam & Eve?
* Mary, Boston, MA: Grandson is getting married by a Justice of the Peace. She is concerned: How can she not go to his wedding?  Not sure what to do.
* Alice from Batavia, NY: Trying to find a Bible passage: after Jesus rose from the dead, something was said about the "righteous souls following Jesus"
* Frank, Rochester, NY: At school Masses many children are receiving Communion.  He does not think that all are Catholic.
* Greg from Buffalo, NY: What happened before hte beginning part of Genesis. specifically about angels. When were they created, how were they created and what was their relationship to God
* Paul from Rochester, NY: When Jesus was on the cross, was he completely naked?
* Ed: Fr. Moleski mentioned Fr. Fernan from LeMoine. Ed was a student of Fr. Fernan's; he graduated in 1959 from LeMoine and was pleased with the nice words Fr. Moleski said about Fr. Fernan.


== February 16 ==
* John from Facebook: Since it was the Catholic Church that decided the canon of the Bible, could the Catholic Church ever change the contents of the Bible by adding or removing books in the future?
* Jason from Orlando: via internet.voting 'A' it has helped them.
::: [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antilegomena Antilegomena:] These antilegomena or "disputed writings" were widely read in the Early Church and included the Epistle of James, the Epistle of Jude, 2 Peter, 2 and 3 John, the Apocalypse of John, the Gospel of the Hebrews, the Apocalypse of Peter (unique in being the only book never accepted as canonical which was commentated upon by a Church Father), the Acts of Paul, the Shepherd of Hermas, the Epistle of Barnabas and the Didache.
* Ben from Buffalo, NY: Ben thinks that technology is a distraction in relation to one another, & it takes away from human interaction. Q.When we talk in church about Jesus' 2nd coming what will that look like?
* Cindy from Washington state: I am listening today using my iPad at work, I am thoroughly enjoying your broadcast. Thank you for this ministry - I am sure I will be back to listen again. God bless. BTW, I vote for A - it has helped them!! Between my iPhone & iPad I keep in nearly constant contact with family & friends as well as our RCIA team, Servant School, & the rest of our parish family. I love the new confession app too - I hope to make a good confession using it before Easter. We have a young priest who is tech-saavy so it shouldn't be a problem.
* Ray from California: thinks technology has helped.
* Bill from Scituate, MA: New technology has helped. I have tried to “bear witness to [my] faith through the digital world.” Doing so has helped me to focus my prayer and direct my study. This has strengthened my relationship with God. With five children, three teenagers and two a bit younger, I’ve had plenty of opportunity to keep an eye on their use of new technology. Let’s say they have experienced many opportunities to learn more about the virtues of moderation and prudence. All in all it has been a positive thing for the family.
* Michelle from Alberta,Canada: Michelle finds that modern tech has been rather hurtful, especially when people put things on the net that should be said in confidence or in person. It's a double edge sword.
* Jessica from Village of Lancaster, NY: How can I respond and justify my faith when my born again father in law insists I need to be born again in order to reach salvation and to be a follower of Jesus?
* Ellen from Buffalo: She votes both.
* Fr from Peter Calabrese: Rome, Italy. I vote A. It helps me keep in touch with family that is far away. I have access to great Catholic blogs to help me learn and reinforce my faith and relationship with God and has helped me stay in touch or renew old friendships as well as open the doors for new friendships
* Tommy from Buffalo: technology has help to strengthen his faith with all the resources.
* Chris from Steubenville, OH: I downloaded the new Confession app but I have a complaint about it... I forgot my password already! LOL My fault!


== February 11 ==
=== How to start spiritual direction? ===
* Scott from Rochester: Could you describe how to make a good confession? Also, please pray for me and my service coordinator who are having a meeting today.
* Anonymous. Massachusetts. I have felt for a long time that I need some type of spiritual direction and grounding. However, I'm not sure how to seek it outCan you suggest a simple way to get started beyond my parish priest? Does it depend on how spiritually "developed" one is? Thank you.  
* Bryan from e-mail: I have my own lectionary for daily mass readings. Sometimes they don't match up. Can you tell me why that might be?
* Pat wants to let Father know that he forgot to tell Scott about the Precepts of the Church.
* Lizette from Facebook:  Has the apparition in Garabandal, Spain, been approved by the Church?
** The official position of the Church is still pending, as Garabandal has neither been positively approved, nor negatively condemned. The Vatican has yet to make a public pronouncement, likely because the Church is awaiting to see if the prophecies will be fulfilled((according to garabandalvideos.com))
* Paul from Buffalo: Father do you have any ideas about how to talk to his parish priest about bringing about An Adoration Hour and the Rosary once a month?
* Miraculous Medal - St. Catherine Laboure
* Our Lady of La Salette
* Sal from Medford, MA: He called about three wks. ago about Cursillo and were asked to call back and share his experience. It was wonderful. he wants to share something he learned about doing an examination of conscience too.
* Jason from Orlando, FL: Jason has a Question about these passages  1 Pet. 2:1-17, esp. v. 5. What does it mean? like living stones..
* Adam from Fall River, MA: Wants to comment on the 2 apparitions that they are both not connected.
* Michelle from Buffalo: needs clarification about abstaining or fasting on Fridays.
* Anonymous from BUFFALO: has a long history of over-eating , & one of the 7deadly sins is gluttony and heard Bishop Sheen recommend crouding out the bad habit but  needs clarification and suggestions on what to do.
* Russel from Batavia, NY: Q: 1. Does the Anointing of the Sick forgive sins at all?
* Kathryn from East Aurora: "The miraculous medal was given to to Sr. Kathryn LaBouré.  She grew up going to the Miraculous Medal Novena at a Parish.  Our Lady said that whoever wore it would be taken care of.


== February 9 ==
=== Our Lady of the Americas? ===
* Paul from Cambridge, MA: Has a prayer request for a big miracle for his father 91, hanging by a thread had a stroke and his mother who's been hanging in right by him.
* Bob. Boston, NY. Could you tell me the story of the appearances of "Our Lady of the Americas" that occured around 1956?
* Dennis from Buffalo: E. I like sports. I do however find it troublesome, to see people playing a game asking for so much money. I know its hard work. Its a God given talent. But I dont see how a person can ask for and receive so much money, when others have little or no money. I dont know how you can feel good or right with yourself. I know that most of players give back in some way to people less fortunate. I think it's also interesting that we have so much "free" money to throw around into players, when that money could be so much better spent elsewhere, for the good of society and people less fortunate.
::: [[Marian_Theology#Apparitions_that_have_not_been_approved Apparitions that have not been approved.]]
* Jason from Florida: via internet. Comment on Poll.Voting A. identifying with atheletes.
* Bob from Boston,NY: Comment on Sports, "an the good race and fought the good fight"
* Bill from Scituate, MA: We enjoy sports in our family. We don't live or die with the team or the athletes. A few years ago we instituted a new family rule when our local football team was winning Super Bowls. No wearing of Pats jerseys at mass on Sunday. I guess we vote A.
* Deb from Wellesly: In thinking of Paul who's father is dying, She wants to make it known that there is a very powerful prayer called the Divine Mercy Chaplet. In the Diary of St.Faustina it says to pray the mercy chaplet at the bed of the dying.
* Jason from Florida: Hey, Father. What about wearing a nice collared shirt with a small, subtle team logo on it to Mass? Yea or nay?
* Fran from Rochester:  
** 1. Why doesn't God protect innocent children?
** 2. Why have her prayers throughout her life never been answered & she's 83yrs. old.
** 3. Will the Church ever let priests get married?
* Bill from Boston,MA: Comment on the commercials and their sexual innuendos, and it seems that there's much more aggressiveness and anger in and off of the field in the sports industry today.
* From Jason: [http://catholicathletesforchrist.com/ Catholic Athletes for Christ.]
* Christina from Lockport: She went to Corpus Christi School when she was a little girld and she would hear a litany of the blessed virgin Mary (she remembers it in polish if you could interpret).and would like to find out what it was, if you could help please.
* [http://moleski.net/cac/A_Litany_of_Our_Lady A litany for The Station of the Cross.]


== January 28 ==
=== Good book for 4-year old who loves to pray? ===
* Jessica. Can anyone recommend a kid friendly book, or guide to teaching young kids about Jesus' death and resurrection? My son who is 4 loves going to Adoration and going though the Stations of the Cross.


* Laura from e-mail: my pentecostal sister  and I have a dispute I hope someone can settle. our sister is having great difficulty with quitting smoking. I suggested that we need to let her know that smoking is sinful because it damages the temple of the Holy Spirit( our body). My sister said absolutely not because that would be shaming her ,which is from the devil. She said that only the conviction of the Holy Spirit could help her and that she thinks our sister is under a curse that needs to be broken. But she said that us (or me) telling our sister of the sinfulness of smoking would only shame her into believing that she is unloved by God because of her inability to quit smoking. And that would cause her to turn away from God. What do you recommend?
=== Love gives us free will ===
* Christina from Orchard Park: Just started Bible Study - Little Rock Bible Study - it says that Duay Rheims Bible is inaccurate - Is DR inaccurate, and does Father know anything about that particular Bible Study?
* David, Buffalo, NY. I wanted to add a comment about the conversation about free will that it is because we are beings that have the ability to love and also that God's love for us gives is free will.
* Buddy, Athol, MA - WQOM, Boston: Do you think there will be reconciliation between Roman Catholic Church and SSPX
* Nora from Williamsville, NY: Hi Fr. Marty and Gina ~ would you please prayr for a friend going through a job search, needed sooner than expected? Thank you, and God Bless!
* Scott from Rochester: Can Father give him a synopsis of today's readings? If mortal sin on soul, is private confession necessary or is general penance service enough?
* Nalida (Nuh-lid-uh) from Boston: Often on EWTN during televised Mass and sometimes at Mass in my parish, some women cover their hair with a veil-like material. I'm wondering why? I'm a convert to Catholicism. I know some Protestants like Pentecostals feel a woman should cover their hair in church. Why do some do it in Catholic churches?
* Brett from Rochester, NY: Asking about intricacies of a Communion Service as opposed to a Mass - Can a lay person read the Gospel and give the Rite of Penance or does it have to be a deacon or priest?
* Susan from W. Roxbury, MA: saw a billboard for radio station 1060 AM - Is there a regular rosary time on the radio.  In regards to conversation about literal vs figurative interp. of Bible: She was educated by Daughters of Charity of St. Vincent dePaul and was always told not to attempt to interpret the Bible on own, but always to ask the Holy Spirit to help understand it.
* Jason from Orlando: When we go to Adoration, how much talking vs. listening should we do?
* Joe from Rochester: How does live, pray and stay faithful in a diocese which is filled with the spirit of rebellion and feministic theology
* Ellen from Buffalo: If you go see the Holy Father (audience), you have to have your head covered - called a mantilla or chapel veil - can google it. Good news is that Father does not have to wear one. Blog called the Crestcap - a Catholic Mom with pics of her daughters wearing mantillas - very good links on that blog.
* Alice from Batavia: Comment about mantillas - She remembers when she was in school - the Sister would hand everyone a tissue to put on her head.


== January 22 ==
=== Defending the faith in an irreligious world ===
* Sarah from Richland, WA: Please pray for my fiance, Juan, who is stationed in NY as a medic in the Army – he recently found out that he has a mass believed to be a tumor in his head. He has been seizing and experiencing excruciating migraines, along with so much more. He is in the hospital at present and it is still unknown if the mass is malignant, due to the dangers (death) of the required tests. He is also experiencing a spiritual battle within himself, searching for answers.
* Shawn from Facebook: "In a pre-scientific understanding of the world, people naturally believed things happened because of the action of God, Angels, Demons, and the like; but now we can explain everything through the laws of science. We can see throughout history that religion, morals, and culture have evolved. How can we defend the faith in a world that seems to have no need of religion?"
* Jason from Orlando: In a couple of hours, I will be leaving for Washington, DC, where I will be participating in the March for Life on Monday. Could you please pray for everyone participating in the March for Life, the West Coast Walk for Life, and other pro-life events going on all over the country this weekend, and for a greater awareness and respect for the sanctity of life?
* John from Attoeboro, Southern MA:he used to listen to 590 AM & some don't seem too bad, Oliver Cromwell was being praised as a great man a holy man of God, but he knows some of the history of this man and some of the murders that he has had his hand in. John is very glad that CATHOLIC IS ON THE AIR today.
* Christopher from Rochester: Fr. Marty, can you give an educational overview on "separation of church and state". Points that may be of interest:
::1) Where it is found in the constitution if at all?
::2) How our current political environment sometimes misinterprets it?
::3) The original intent of Separation of Church and state by our founding fathers?
::4) And finally, how did we go from our founding father's beliefs and interpretation to our current administration's interpretation?
* Bob from Boston, NY: What is the point of the charism to be to speak in tongues?
* Dennis from Buffalo: Did Martin Luther start the Lutheran religion? A friend of mine tried to say he didn't. I thought I read he was a Catholic monk he wasn't happy with the church and he listed his issues with the church and nailed it on a Catholic churches door ...on Oct 31 and I forget the year. And he proceed to form the Lutheran church, which is true if either?
* Dennis from Buffalo: I hear that Mohammad is suppose to be a prophet is he in the bible and was he before or after Jesus?
* Tommy from Buffalo - It is the Roundheads that Fr. Moleski is referring to. - He is correct.


== January 14 ==
=== May a couple marry who cannot consummate the vows? ===
* Ann, Massachusetts. I heard on the radio that a Catholic woman and man should not get married if they cannot consummate their vows because of a medical condition.  I cannot believe this could be right.
::: [http://www.ewtn.com/library/Doctrine/IMPOSTER.HTM EWTN library.]
::::: impotence is indeed an impediment to marriage


* Carlos from Melrose, MA: Father, as I try to develop a more consistent prayer life, I’m somewhat overwhelmed by all the choices – Vocal Prayers, Rosary, Liturgy of the Hours, Christian Meditation, prayers from the Saints, etc. – all of which are highly recommended ...in one way or another. On the other hand, I have only so much time as a husband, father, working professional, catechist, etc., and all of these prayers can take up a lot of time during the day if done correctly. Aside from the Mass, does the Church place more value over one type of prayer over another where I should focus on that type of prayer? How does one balance all their life commitments and prayer without feeling guilty that they may not be giving God enough time?
=== Slavery approved in the Bible? ===
* Scott from Rochester: Can people pre-select gospel readings for their funeral?
* Scott from Rochester:  Today's Gospel talks about how the paralytic's friends cut a hole in the roof and lowered him down to Jesus.  How were the roofs made back then?  Were they like today's?
::;Easily accessible?
:::"Stairs or a wooden ladder led up onto the roof, which was used as an outdoor room that was partly shaded by matting or a tent-like superstructure.
:::"The inside rooms tended to be small and dark, so '''the courtyard and the roof were important parts of the house''', used for tasks that needed good light - such as spinning and weaving, and food preparation. The flat roof area might also be used for sleeping, or for drying food or textiles (see the story of Rahab the prostitute in Joshua 2:6). In the earlier period of Jewish history, it may also have been used for bathing - Bathsheba was probably bathing herself on the flat roof of her house when she was seen by King David (see the story of this famous act of voyeurism in 2 Samuel 11:2-4)."[http://www.bible-architecture.info/Housing.htm]
::;Branches?  Woven branches and clay?
::*"Houses had an even roof made of '''branches'''. A ladder was put there to climb up onto the roof."[http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_was_housing_like_in_the_1st_century]
::*"The size of the rooms was limited by the fact that rooms could only be as wide as the beams that supported the roof. Beams, usually wooden, reached from one wall to the other, and were covered with a mixture of '''woven branches and clay''', which was smoothed with a stone roller."[http://www.womeninthebible.net/3.3.Clothing_housing.htm]
::*"Drystone basalt walls would have supported a roof of '''tree branches covered with straw and earth''' — a fairly flimsy construction easily breached to lower a paralysed man on a mat, as described in Mark 2:1-12."[http://www.seetheholyland.net/capernaum/]
::;Mud and palm branches?
::*"Desperate friends tore off the '''mud-and-palm-leaf roof''' to lower a paralytic to Jesus' healing and forgiving attention."[http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2003/septemberweb-only/9-22-42.0.html]
::*"The excavation concluded that the Church was built over a private home that dated from the early Roman period (63 B.C.--70 A.D.).  The home was a cluster of small rooms around a central courtyard.  Its walls were of local basalt field stones.  Those stones would not have held a solid roof, so its roof was probably like the one at Qatsrin (see below), '''wood branches or logs with mud'''--easy for people to rip up and lower someone to Jesus.  The place is not very different from other houses of the period."[http://www.christianleadershipcenter.org/bibarch18.htm]
::;Stone or clay tiles?
::*"A first century home in Palestine had a flat roof composed of '''large stone tiles''' which were easy to remove and easy to replace. The tiles were sometimes covered with dirt or sod for insulation purposes. So there was no need to rip up shingles and saw through plywood and beams in order to make a sizable opening in the roof! God is certainly not teaching us from this portion of His Word that it's OK to break the law and destroy property as long as it's for the purpose of getting a person to Christ! The roof was not destroyed or damaged--only temporarily opened up. Remember also that a first century home had an outside staircase up to the flat roof. This enabled the four men to carry their paralytic friend and his bed up to the rooftop without spilling him and without employing an elaborate ladder or block and tackle system! The "bed," of course, was not a heavy inner spring mattress and frame but a lightweight pallet or mattress-like pad. Thus the hole in the roof was not gigantic in size! All of these basic background considerations preserve us from visualizing impossible situations and making wild applications."[http://www.growingchristians.org/dfgc/roof.htm]
::*"''''Through the tiles'''': Luke has adapted the story found in Mark to his non-Palestinian audience by changing 'opened up the roof' (Mark 2:4 a reference to Palestinian '''straw and clay''' roofs) to through the tiles, a detail that reflects the Hellenistic Greco-Roman house with tiled roof."[http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible/luke/luke5.htm#foot7]
* Buddy from Athol (Ath-hall), Ma: Has a comment about the Beatification of JPII
* Jason from Orlando: Good afternoon, Father, Gina, and listeners. Can you please discuss the possibility of people other than the Blessed Virgin Mary having been assumed body and soul into Heaven, and who some of these persons might be?
* Jen from Buffalo: What is the significance of the statement made by the Vatican about Father Baker? What is it really saying/what does it really mean?
* Dennis from Facebook: Father, I hear a lot about spiritual advisors. What are they and where do you get one from?
* Brian from Buffalo: "And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it" (Matt 16:18) Father, what is the Greek or Hebrew word for 'church' in this verse and what was the understanding of 'church' from the apostles. I know as 21st century Christians we know what 'church' means but what did it mean to the Apostles at the moment this was said?
* Roy from Rochester: Is it possible that Jared Loughner could have been possessed by a demon that may have caused the Arizona shootings?


== January 7 ==
* Anonymous. According to scriptures, slavery is not considered immoral, however there are specific instructions on how to beat slaves correctly. Why did neither God or Jesus teach that owning another human being is immoral? Nowhere is this stated in the bible!  Mark Twain wrote: "In all the ages the Roman Church has owned slaves, bought and sold slaves, authorized and encouraged her children to trade in them. Long after some Christian peoples had freed their slaves the Church still held on to hers. If any could know, to absolute certainty, that all this was right, and according to God’s will and desire, surely it was she, since she was God’s specially appointed representative in the earth and sole authorized and infallible expounder of his BibleThere were the texts; there was no mistaking their meaning; she was right, she was doing in this thing what the bible had mapped out for her to do. So unassailable was her position that in all the centuries she had no word to say against human slavery."
* Christopher W. from e-mail:
::1.) Why do bishops sometimes wear a red cassock under their vestments when they celebrate Mass?
:::* [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cassock "Cassock"].
:::* "[The cassock is a] floor-length garment worn by clergy. The Roman style has 33 buttons (representing Christ’s 33 years on Earth). It is black for priests, purple for bishops, red for cardinals, white for the pope. The purple cassock for bishops has red cuffs on the sleeves. It is known as the “choir cassock” and may be worn under the alb and on its own for special ceremonies when the bishop is not celebrating mass. Cardinals and bishops also have a 'house cassock' that is black with red or purple piping. The house cassock is worn for non-liturgical occasions."[http://www.hbgdiocese.org/Admin/Uploads/Bishop/Documents/WhatABishopWears.pdf]
::2.) Is it okay for a priest to tell someone who is struggling with their Catholic faith to take a "break" from practicing their faith?
* Mark C. in Boston from e-mail: Does the Church have any official teaching on piercings, and if so are there any Old Testament antecedents for it?
* Michael from Batavia: His daughter just informed him that she was gay and he would like advice on how to respond.
* John from Olean: Has a question regarding St. Anselm in his treatment on the problem of evil, and how would he view natural disasters in light of that?
* Kathleen from Youngstown: Kathleen is a social worker and finds herself counseling people on the possibly of divorce as a good thing for people who are in negative/abusive marriagesIs that OK?
* Gabriel from East Amherst: What are father's thoughts about eulogies at Catholic funerals?
* Jason from  Orlando: Is Confession part of First Friday devotion?
* Desiree from Hemet [Rhymes with Emmet], CA: In the chaplet of St. Michael, she wants to know if the reference to principalities has any relation to the reference in Ephesians.
* Dave from Fairport, NY: A Church in the area took Christ off the Crucifix and they're hanging him from the ceiling.  He wants to know if this is legitimate.


== January 6 ==
=== Consecration to Mary? ===
[[Tuesdays]] and [[Thursdays]]: "Passionate Polish Pastoral Apologetics."
* Gina: Discussion of the Twelve Days of Christmas; the difference between the Western feast of [[Epiphany]] and the Eastern feast of Theophany ([[Baptism of the Lord]]).
* Sal from Medford. He  just discovered the station. He's going on a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cursillo Cursillo] retreat and wants to know what father's opinion is about that?
** ''Cursillos de Cristiandad'': "A short course in Christianity." Begun by Spanish laymen in 1944; first English Cursillo was given in 1961.
* Jason from Orlando on the Internet: he read someplace that in the old days they used to celebrate the nativity, the three kings, and the baptism of Our Lord all in one day. What does father say about that?
* Gary from WQOM, New Bedford, MA.: When a priest is being ordained he receives the gift of the Spirit, so what does a deacon receive?
* Amy from Buffalo: The sign between the initials for the three Kings is not plusses ++ but the sign of Cross.
* Pauline from Tonawanda: Father was talking about the 12 days of christmas as if it is a secular song but actually its history is rooted about a time in the king henry the 8th reign when he outlawed Catholicism.  The jesuit priests came up with the words as a sort of code to other believers.
* Lorraine from Westford, MA, WQOM. The bible is inspired by the Holy Spirit, but is it strictly written by males only?
* Eddie from Rochester, 1460AM: Fr. was talking about Matthew's gospel, that there is no trace of the Aramaic original.  At a Conference about Origins of the Gospel, they said there was a piece written in Aramaic in the British Museum in London.


== The Treasury of Extra Questions ==
* Shawn from Facebook: How can Catholics consecrate themselves to Mary?  She is not God.  Isn't it a sin against the First Commandment to vow yourselves to her service?


''We have had many questions that either come too late in the show or that need research to answer.  We often say, "Tune in next week and we'll deal with that in more depth"--but we haven't always kept our promise.  The purpose of this page is to make a list of those questions for future reference.  If we run low on callers or current questions, we can always dip into this reservoir to keep the conversation going.''
=== Conflicting Scripture Passages ===
=== A Select Few ===


==== Verbum Domini ====
* John from Facebook: In a recent Sunday reading from 1 Kings, God said to Solomon, "I give you a heart so wise and discerning that there has never been anyone like you until now, nor after you will there be anyone to equal you" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/1kings/3:12 (1 Kings 3:12).] But in Matthew, it says, "There is something greater than Solomon here" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/matthew/12:42 (Matthew 12:42).] How do you reconcile the two passages?
* "We have been discussing the [[How_Catholics_Should_Read_the_Bible#Verbum_Domini| Apostolic Exhortation by Bendedict XVI]], on and off, since it was published in November of 2010We have a moment now while we're waiting for phone calls, e-mails, and Facebook posts from our listenersWould you like to say something more about the Pope's exhortation?"
:: Similar kind of conundrum: What did Jesus mean when He said that "Amen, I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/matthew/11:11 (Mt 11:11)?] Wasn't Mary greater than John the Baptist through her Immaculate Conception?
:: And, of course, "all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God" [http://www.usccb.org/bible/romans/3:23 (Rom 3:23)]Doesn't that mean that Mary and Jesus were both sinners?
:: "No sign will be given this generation except the sign of Jonah, for just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth" (Mt 12:40).


==== "Where is that in the Bible?" ====
==== Followup question from John ====
* Dennis Z. from Facebook: A coworker of mine recently joined a non-denominational church. She asks lots of questions about the Catholic faith. Her group seems to be the kind that always asks, "Where does it it say that in the bible?" How can I answer that question?
John from Facebook:  


==== When is it right to lie? ====
* If the church teaches us not to read passages literally, why does it not apply this to the teachings on the supper of The Lord or giving Peter the keys to the kingdom? How does the Church discern what should be taken literally and what isn't? My non Catholic friends say the Church chooses to take literally those passages that support her doctrinal position. '''''After all the churches authority comes from reading the passage on the keys given to Peter literally doesn't it?'''''
* Kevin in Buffalo: "I know the question of lying has sometimes come up on the radio show.  May we may lie to [http://edwardfeser.blogspot.com/2010/11/murderer-at-door.html a murderer at the door?]  Was it OK for [http://liveaction.org/ Lila Rose and Live Action] to lie to members of Planned Parenthood?


=== "Twelve Baskets, full ..." ===
=== Can Mary bless us? ===
* Shawn from Facebook: I heard a priest say the rosary. He said, "May Mary bless you with her holy child." How can Mary bless us with anything? She has no power outside of Christ.


==== Historical-critical Exegesis ====
=== Boys will be boys? ===
Dave from Amherst: "What is [[Historical-critical methods|'historical-critical method']]? What difference does it make to how we read the Scriptures?  Can Catholics adopt these methods of interpreting the Scriptures?"
* Anonymous from Facebook: Your 12-year old catches about 10 dragonflies, takes their wings off, and puts them in a cup “because he wants to see them fight.” Is that just boys being boys? Or do you tell him that it’s wrong to hurt animals for fun? He has Reactive Attachment Disorder which causes me additional concern.


==== Theology is necessary for the Church ====
=== Tips for Lay Evangelization? ===
From Kevin in e-mail: "Many Protestants have a "Bible only" mentality and distrust Catholic theology as a 'human tradition' that gets in the way of the reading and interpreting the Scriptures. Is it right to oppose the Bible to theology?"
; From the "Ask a Priest" page on [http://thestationofthecross.com TheStationOfTheCross.com:]


:[http://www.firstthings.com/article/2010/12/the-ruins-of-discontinuity An article on the lack of unity in Catholic theology,] written by a former Lutheran theologian. "The unity and coherence of theology can be maintained only if we explicitly conceive of it as an ecclesial intellectual practice of the Church, arising from the Church’s nature and mission. ... And so Catholic theology cannot establish itself as a de facto counter-magisterium, remaining in splendid isolation from the Church. Nor should it seek to win a lasting standing in the secular academy that offers it a career path like that of any other academic profession. Nor, finally, will Catholic theology flourish if it is transmuted into 'religious studies' to market its remnants in a post-Christian society. Whatever one thinks about the best way to give coherent and even sophisticated shape to Catholic theology, we must acknowledge that the Church herself gives us our theological task: to assist the bishops in communicating, explaining, defending, and understanding the faith that comes from the apostles."
: Michael: The Pope has called lay people to evangelize. I very heatedly expressed my objections to a fictional TV show which portrayed a catholic priest in a very negative way. A high school senior responded to my criticisms by expressing a desire for God, but he also expressed some reservations about God and showed a real lack of knowledge of the faith. How about having a show where people call in to discuss their ideas for lay evangelization and talk about their successes or failures in bearing witness to the tremendous hidden treasures of our faith?


==== Children of lesbians in Catholic school? ====
=== How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God? ===
* Peter from Buffalo: How do you feel about the [http://ncronline.org/news/faith-parish/archdiocese-reacts-school-enrollment-denied-child-lesbians Catholic school that allowed the child of two lesbians to enroll in it?]
:* How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God? Maybe two make an explicit claim — Jeremiah and Revelation.


==== Catechetics in the Modern World ====
::: Jeremiah: "Take a scroll and write on it all the words I have spoken to you about Israel, Judah, and all the nations, from the day I first spoke to you, from the days of Josiah, until today" (36:2).
* Awesome Lawson from Town of Tonawanda: "As someone who works directly with College students, what advice could you give someone who is going to teach religion classes to high school students?  What areas of catechesis/evangelization do you see most lacking in college students that should be addressed in high school?"


==== Priestly Celibacy ====
::; [http://www.catholic.com/tracts/proving-inspiration "Proving Inspiration."]
* Dawn from e-mail: "Our family went to a Mass on Sunday in which the priest gave his personal opinion from the pulpit regarding celibacy. He said that the Church needs to change. Was it right for him to say that from the pulpit?  Is this something that faithful Catholics may discuss as an option in the Church?"


==== Liberation Theology ====
::: What about the Bible’s own claim to inspiration? There are not many places where such a claim is made even elliptically, and most books in the Old and New Testaments make no such claim at all. In fact, no New Testament writer explicitly claims that he himself is writing at the direct behest of God, with the exception of John, the author of Revelation.  
* N.W. from e-mail: "What is the Church's teaching on [[Liberation Theology]]?  I am very anxious because the mentality of so many 'community organizers' seems to be anti-Christian."


Could you please comment on the [http://www.gamaliel.org/ Gamaliel Foundation,] Liberation Theology, [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saul_Alinsky Saul Alinsky,] and Alinsky's [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rules_for_Radicals "Rules for Radicals"] (which are dedicated to Lucifer!).
=== Taped evidence — nursing home ===
* Luisa from "Ask a Priest" ''[today]'': My mother was in the nursing home up until she passed away. We placed a camera in her room because they kept dropping her. Although the policy of the nursing home prohibits recording sound in the patients' bedrooms, by accident, some of our videos recorded the nurses abusing my mother verbally. May I use these recordings in good faith to bring an action against the nursing home?


[http://www.voice-buffalo.org/ Voice Buffalo] is a local, faith based community affiliate of the [http://www.gamaliel.org/ Gamaliel Foundation.] It seems at times that the Gamaliel Foundation and Voice Buffalo are in direct conflict with Church teaching. Please note that a Catholic Priest and a Catholic Charities Executive are in Voice Buffalo leadership positions.
=== Why can't women preach in Church? ===
* From a pastor who listens to the show: When you answered Betsy's question on August 4th about how women can preach the gospel even though they are not allowed to read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy, you dodged the question of why women and laymen cannot read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy. I may not be the smartest kid on the block, but I can tell when someone is ducking a tough question! :o) ''[Note well: this priest is a very good and orthodox priest, and he is a friend of mine. This is a kind and well-meaning question, not a screed in favor of abandoning the Church's tradition!  I think it is a good question.]''


; From Saul Alinsky's [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rules_for_Radicals ("Rules for Radicals").]
=== NFP for a pre-menopausal couple? ===
:"Lest we forget, [we should give] at least an over-the-shoulder acknowledgment to the very first radical: from all our legends, mythology, and history... the first radical known to man who rebelled against the establishment and did it so effectively that he at least won his own kingdom--Lucifer."


[http://www.eppc.org/publications/pubid.3521/pub_detail.asp Obama's radical roots] in ACORN and Gamaliel.
* Anonymous from [http://www.thestationofthecross.com/ "Ask a Priest"] on the Station of the Cross website — ''spend a little time explaining how to find and use this page on the website.  My impression is that it is right on the front page, down at the bottom.  That's how I see it, anyway, using a browser; I couldn't find it on the iCatholicRadio app.  "Submit your questions for a priest to answer live on Calling All Catholics, airing weekdays from 5-6 pm ET."''
:: I am concerned whether my husband and I are committing a mortal sin in our intimate relations. Because I am pre-menopausal, the signs of our fertile time are very uncertain, so I can't tell with much confidence when we are in a fertile time in our relationship. We used to use Natural Family Planning, but now we are not completing the marital act in a natural fashion.  My health is poor, and we do not want to become pregnant at this time in our marriage.  Are we committing a sin by not completing the marriage act normally?
:::: '''''BE POSITIVE.'''''  The Church upholds the natural act of love in marriage as the norm for judging what is right and wrong in our relationships. Whenever a couple chooses the joy of union, their expression of love should be such that they do nothing to make it impossible for them to become pregnant through their union. This norm rules out barrier methods, the use of artificial hormones that fool the woman's body into thinking that she is already pregnant, and any other actions that would keep the union of the couple from being fruitful.  If you and your husband feel sure that you cannot afford to become pregnant at this time in your life, you must abstain from union for a while until your health improves or you reach the point at which you can have greater confidence than you do now in identifying the fertile times in your cycle; you might want to ask for help from a certified Natural Family counselor to get help in understanding the signs at this time in your life.  Abstinence is hard, but not impossible.  It, too, is an act of love for each other and for our Creator.  Abstinence chosen out of love for one another for shorter or longer times has its own rewards, though they are, of course, more subtle and on a different level from the joy of expressing your love for each other directly through marital union. We have been praying for you and your husband, Anonymous, since we received your e-mail.  We hope that you will find great joy in being faithful and true to each other as well as abiding by God's plan for your marriage.
::::: [http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/christopher_wests_ideas_on_sexuality_ignore_tremendous_dangers_alice_von_hildebrand_says/ "Christoper West's Ideas on Sexuality Ignore Tremendous Dangers — Alice von Hildebrand."]


==== Preaching Jesus vs. Tolerating Other Faiths ====
=== Why is the Old Testament so vague about Trinity and the Eucharist? ===
* Sara from the Fund Drive:
# Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Trinity?
# Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Eucharist?


John Z. from Facebook: "If the Church is supposed "go ... and make disciples of all nations" (Mt 28:19), isn't the ultimate goal to teach the world about Jesus? Doesn't that mean that we must ''not'' tolerate other religions and faiths?  It seems as though relativism has crept into the Church and is undermining our missionary activity."
=== Is spiritual dryness a sin? ===


* [[Nostra aetate]]
* Shawn from Facebook: Is having spiritual dryness a sin?


==== Disparity of cult (mixed marriages); Pauline privilege ====
=== How should Catholics vote? ===
Anonymous from east of Buffalo: "I have a friend who is a recent convert. She and her husband were married in a Protestant churchShe wanted her husband to validate their marriage in the Catholic church, but he refused. How does the church view this marriage? Is their marriage adulterous?  She is on the verge of divorce. Her justification for leaving is that their marriage was never valid in the eyes of the Church anyways."
* Shawn from Facebook: Election season is upon us. The Catholic voter guide basically says "don't vote for abortion," and rightly soBut, I have never supported GOP politics either, although they are the closest thing we have to a pro-life party. So how should I vote then?
:: [[USCCB Voting Guide for Catholics]].


* [[Annulment]]
=== Struggling with Marian prayers ===
* [http://www.catholic.com/thisrock/quickquestions/keyword/canon%20law/page9 ''Sanatio in radice.'']
* [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pauline_privilege Pauline privilege.]


==== Dealing with a Teenage Daughter's Doubts ====
Shawn from Facebook: I struggle with certain Marian prayers that ask her to save us, etc; I don't get that... Because she can't do anything without God's power. She is merely a creature, though the highest of all creation. I have trouble with the rosary too. Why not just pray the "Our Father"?  
Sarajane from Facebook: "I am struggling with my children and their questions about our faith. My thirteen-year-old daughter is stage where she doubts everything I say and is even questioning God's existence. She says, 'Why should I believe what's in the bible when only men wrote it?' I am diving into my faith to learn learn learn so as to become stronger for my own sake and for my children. Do you have any advice to help me?


==== No Room for Resentments ====
=== Chesterton Academy in England? ===
[[File:Guardians at Gate 12.JPG|thumb|<div align="center">John Carlin, 1998. <br>Used by permission.</div>]]
;John from Cheektowaga
: John sent me a picture he painted of two of his dogs acting as guardians at the 12th gate of Heaven.  That got me thinking about who the real obstacles are to our entry into Heaven: [[Forgiveness_prayer|everyone whom we refuse to forgive.]]  The same issue came up in last Sunday's readings about the Lost Sheep, the Lost Coin, and the Lost Sons.


==== Consolation and Desolation ====
* Maria Bachelier from e-mail: Is there any Chesterton academy in England, where I live?
* Zvoncica Z. from Facebook: "I wonder what to do in those moments of darkness when prayers don't help and everything goes wrong no matter how hard you tryI feel separated from God as if He didn't care. I need Him and pray to Him, but He doesn't reply. I'm so desperate ..."
::: Not yet. There is one in Italy. Dale Ahlquist is in Europe right nowMore may be under development.
** Notes on [[Consolation and Desolation]].
:::: Emily de Rotstein, Executive Director
:::: Chesterton Academy  —  [http://www.chestertonacademy.org/ www.chestertonacademy.org]
:::: info@chestertonacademy.org


==== Conditions of a Valid Marriage ====
=== Why does the Catechism calls us "gods"? ===
* Mary from Rochester: If a couple have lived together, practicing contracepting, and then get married with no intention of ceasing the contraception, do they have a valid marriage?
* See [[Canon law]], especially [[Canon_law#1061|canon 1061]] and [[Canon_law#Exclusion_of_the_goods_of_marriage|canon 1101]].


==== Exegesis ====
* John from Facebook: I have been reading the Catechism each night. I have a question regarding paragraph 460 which says, "The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods." This passage uses the lower case letter g. In the Old Testament, this is how the pagan gods are referred to. What does lower case "gods" mean here?
* What do you think of the claim that [http://hprweb.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=244&Itemid=63 dogma is more certain than Scripture study?]
:::: [[Divinization]].
** [[Exegesis]]


==== Catholicism and Science ====
=== Righteous anger vs. sinful anger ===
===== Natural Theology =====
* John from Facebook:
From Christopher J. on Facebook: "What does the Church think about the theory of the 'Big Bang'? How does that fit into the Church's doctrine of creation?"
# Could you explain righteous anger and sinful anger? Are there scriptural references to these two kinds of anger? Could you give some ideas how to counteract the sin of anger? —  [[Christian Anger Management]].
# Also would you please pray for my niece, Marybeth, who suffers from a head injury she received in an accident some time ago.


* [http://www.facebook.com/l/8d4dcV0PqsaHTmXJmFU6qLnNnlg;www.nytimes.com/reuters/2011/01/06/world/europe/news-us-pope-bigbang.html?_r=1&ref=global-home "Pope Says God Behind Theories Like Big Bang":] "Contemplating (the universe), we are invited to read something profound into it: the wisdom of the creator, the inexhaustible creativity of God," he said in a sermon to some 10,000 people in St Peter's Basilica on the Feast of [[Epiphany]].
=== Multiple sins in an invalid marriage ===
* Anonymous from Facebook: Suppose a person got married only in order to obtain a visa and did not intend the marriage to last. Is that person sinning if they do not get an annulment? Is that person committing fornication when they have relations with their innocent spouse?


===== Evolution =====
=== Uncharitable thoughts and feelings ===
====== Monogenism ======
* Anonymous from Facebook: I am a volunteer at my parish.  I arranged to switch volunteer nights with another parishioner.  I covered their night, but they did not cover mine.  I was called and asked to come fill in for them.  I felt annoyed at the prospect, but did eventually offer to fill the empty spotI feel that I was selfish and uncharitable.  Did I commit a sin by being annoyed or by waiting a while before I said yes?
Kevin from Buffalo: "Some scientists think that the Church's teaching that all human beings are descended from one man and one woman is demonstrably false; they say that there is too much genetic variation in the human population today for all of us to have descended from a single human pairCan the Church change its teaching on Adam and Eve?


; [http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703846604575447493644515142.html "Catholics and the Evolving Cosmos"]
=== Do same-sex marriages invalidate all marriages in the state or the denomination? ===
: "Subsequent research into genomics, however, has settled this question against Pius. It's not that scientists cannot trace human ancestry back far enough to an Adam and Eve; it's that in principle, the level of genetic variation present in the species today rules out a founding population with fewer than several thousand individuals."
* Peter John from e-mail:
# If Christian denominations and many states are recognizing same-sex marriages, does that not mean that all of the marriages in those denominations or states are necessarily invalid in the eyes of the Church?  If so, wouldn't that simplify the annulment process for those who contracted marriage before a justice of the peace in those states or in those denominations?
# I am upset that I see people who are cohabiting receive the sacraments while those who are in post-divorce marriages cannot.  This especially troublesome when the divorced and remarried have no children from earlier marriages, have built a good family in their current marriages, and live devout lives otherwise.


====== Medical Ethics ======
=== Should we hold hands during the Our Father? ===
* Jack T. from e-mail: "What is the Church's teaching about ''in vitro fertilization,'' genetic engineering, cloning, and other kinds of fertility treatments?"
* Kevin from e-mail: [http://www.ewtn.com/expert/answers/holding_hands_at_mass.htm "Holding Hands at Mass."]


==== Church and state on Earth and in Heaven ====
=== Why not do mandalas in our parish? ===
John Z. from Facebook:  
* NOT ON THE LINE. Liz from Rochester. Please speak about what Mandala is and why it shouldn’t be practiced at our parish.
:::: [http://www.mandalaproject.org/Index.html The Mandala Project.]


"If the Church could convert the whole world to Jesus, would there still be a difference between Church and state? It seems that throughout the church's history there has been trouble when the church and state were united.
=== Blessed are those who murder babies? ===
* Kevin from e-mail: The last verse of Psalm 137 is really horrible.  It says, "Blessed is the man who seizes the children of Babylon and dashes their brains out against a rock."  Isn't God the father of Babylonian children, too?  How could murdering innocent children bring blessings to those who murder them?


"Will there be a separation of church and state in heaven? Will there be a church in heaven? Will there be a state in heaven?"
=== Why was John the Baptist not freed from captivity? ===
* John from Facebook: The gospel of Luke says that Jesus came to set the captives free. If so, then why didn't Jesus free John the Baptist from captivity?


==== Pitch for the Magnificat ====
=== When should we accept death for those whom we love? ===
* Matt from Colorado (e-mail): "I love the show on podcast and also the ''Magnificat''.  I got a subscription to it and go through the Mass readings and prayers within it daily.  I love it.  If I won the lottery, I would buy a subscription for everyone I know and donate more subscriptions to churches everywhere.  I can totally tell the difference in my spirituality and closeness to God.  I feel myself really craving getting to the Eucharist as often as I can.  I love the integration of the lives/stories of the Saints and Blesseds."


==== Am I my brother's keeper? ====
* Katy from e-mail: Every day at Mass I hear the priest ask us to pray for life, "from its natural beginning to its natural end." I remain confused as to why keeping an infant (or anyone) with a terminal illness on life support, in this case mechanical ventilation, is celebrated. I don't understand why anyone would want to watch a loved one suffering with a tracheostomy when that loved one could be in paradise with Jesus.  Is this brave to keep them alive, or is it selfish?
Sarong from the Philippines: "I have an atheist brother who follows Dawkins' teachings and all. While we were born Catholics and raised as so, eventually he lost his faith. I hear from iCatholic Radio on Catholic Answers that it is not actually my job to win him over but God's. While I accept that, I feel that I have to somehow do something about it. After all, I am my brother's keeper, right?"


==== Why does God allow martyrs to suffer? ====
::: [[Catholic Medical Ethics]]
* Anonymous from Amherst: I have a teenage son who asked "If God is a loving god, why would he allow his martyrs, people who died for him, to die in such barbaric ways, why would he not help them, protect them, save them, or intervene in any way at all, why does god let people die and suffer everyday, even if people can help others...most dont, why doesnt God intervene if he can, wouldnt people be more inspired to work towards something, if that thing worked towards them, if it actually showed itself instead of allowing others to take the fall for God, making clever excuses for him."


==== The Rite ====
Patricia from Fredonia: "I'm wondering if you saw or read '[[The Rite]],' and if so, what you thought of it."


* [[Interpreting fiction]].
=== U.S. Bishops dedicated to Marxism since 1979? ===


==== Dead Sea Scrolls ====
* Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
Dennis Z. from Buffalo: Were there any important new discoveries in the [[Dead Sea Scrolls]]? What if we were to find "new inspired" books that date back to the times of Jesus or the Apostles that had a lot of what is already in the Bible, but also would had new events or inspired teachings? Do you think there would ever be "new" books added to the bible or will the bible always be what it is now?
:::- I have an article from 1979 which says that U.S. bishops were dedicated to preaching Marxism instead of Christianity.  Is that claim true?


== On Second Thought ==
=== Positive outcomes from Vatican II ===
''I often think of better answers to questions after the show is over.  This is called "l'esprit de l'escalier," (French: "the spirit of the staircase") because lawyers so often think of the best arguments to have made while walking down the staircase leading away from the courthouse.''


=== Catholicism and Judaism ===
* Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
* Sam from Buffalo: "Hi FatherEarlier this week I heard someone talking briefly about Messianic Judaism and Hebrew Christianity. I was wondering if you could tell me anything more about them, and where they 'fit in.' Thanks so much!"
:::- Can you name three positive outcomes of Vatican II?
** [http://www.secondexodus.com/index.htm Second Exodus website]
:::::- Recognition that we owe religious assent to the ordinary teachings of the MagisteriumThe Scriptures are the fruit of Tradition and are part of Tradition; they do not replace it.
** [[The Christian Deliteralization of the Old Testament]]
:::::- ''Catechism of the Catholic Church.''
** [http://www.hebrewcatholic.org/ Association of Hebrew Catholics]
:::::- Discussion of marriage as a noble vocation, including praise of the nobility of the act of marital union, reaffirmation of the Church's traditional teaching on avoiding contraceptives, and a strong condemnation of abortion as an abominable crime.


=== What about the prophecies about the Antichrist? ===
=== Canon law and Catholic identity ===
* John from Cheektowaga: "I wished I had stayed on the phone the other day to do a follow-up (I did not want to hog all the air-time). I wasn’t looking for a speculation of WHEN the end time will be – I know our Lord Jesus said that not even the angels or saints know, but only the Father knows the day and the hour."
** MXM: The advantage of staying on the phone is that you get to rephrase your question as we go along.  If we think you're hogging the air, we'll thank you for your call and hang up on you.  :-O
* I was just looking for comment on how really interwoven all of history is (past, present & future); all events detailed in prophesy. I thought that the little book “History of Antichrist” was extremely well presented. It listed each important prophet as indicated in Sacred Scripture, what various interpretations can their words possibly mean, which church fathers, saints, doctorens, traditions, commentators through to the med 1800’s (when the book was written), etc., to include conjectures as to meanings of their statements, and, how it relates to the antichrist. The book is not bad news, but it does say, when the antichrist does come it is going to be a terrible 3 ½ years before Jesus comes and put a stop to his deceit. Many will be swayed – think of the Jews who are still looking for the coming of the Messiah (all part of God’s grand mysterious plan).
** MXM: The Church is completely agnostic about the sequence of events at the end of the world. 
: The book of Revelation and other apocalyptic passages were written to comfort people who were suffering for the sake of Jesus.  The message is, "Hang on.  Your sufferings will be rewarded.  You will reign with Jesus in glory."  That message was valid in the first century and in every age since wherever disciples suffer for Jesus.
: In other words, the material is about the present, NOT the future.
* The world will be tricked unless one's faith is strong.
** MXM: We don't need "strong" faith.  Putting faith in the strength of our faith is a huge mistake.  No act of faith is greater than the size of a mustard seed when compared to the glory of the one in whom we place our trust.
==== Johnny Cash and the End of the World ====
Kevin in Buffalo: What do you think of the Johnny Cash song, [http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/johnnycash/themancomesaround.html "The Man Comes Around"]?


=== The meaning of fiction ===
* Melanie from Twitter:  Is it a violation of canon law to question someone's Catholic identity?
Matt from Colorado asked about (e-mail about ''[[The Shack]]'').  Second thoughts: [[interpreting fiction]].
::: Can. 216: "Since they participate in the mission of the Church, all the Christian faithful have the right to promote or sustain apostolic action even by their own undertakings, according to their own state and condition. Nevertheless, no undertaking is to claim the name Catholic without the consent of competent ecclesiastical authority."
 
=== Calling God "Allah" ===
 
* Winna from Twitter: Do you know the Arabic word 'Allah'? Do you think it is inappropriate for Christians to use the Arabic word for God?
 
=== Thanks for help with Desolation ===
 
* Anonymous from Facebook: "Thank you for answering my questions about desolation in such a great detail in a show you did in the summer time. I feel very comforted after hearing from you on the show and I'm actually feeling relieved with the clarity especially after learning about desolation. I can't thank you enough for this. I feel that I'm suddenly pulled back in when I was almost falling off a steep cliff — thank you so much for the rescue!"
 
=== New forms of Catholicism? ===
Mark: What the "New Catholic Churches"?
::: [[Schismatic Catholics]].
 
=== Experimental Medical Treatments ===
* Dan from Facebook: Does the Church have any definitive position on the use of experimental medical treatments? A friend has stage 4 melanoma, and an experimental drug is his best (and apparently only) chance for survival. The problem is that it hasn't been approved by the FDA  —  the family wants it for "compassionate use" in the meantime. I just have to decide whether to sign the petition they are circulating.
 
=== Anathema sit! ===
 
* Debbie from Amherst: The Council of Trent says that anyone who objects to the doctrine of the Church is "[[anathema]]." What does that mean for our Protestant brothers and sisters who have left the Church?
 
=== Deification ===
 
* Andrew from e-mail: It appears that in Eastern Catholic Theology one can become closer to God after death through deification.  The Eastern Catholics claim that their saints move closer to God even in heaven. In Western theology this does not appear possible.  One gains merit/treasures in heaven while alive, and assuming one gets to heaven, that's it — no more!  You are as close to God as possible.  Not all saints are the same in glory.  There is no more change possible.  These Eastern and Western views are logically incompatible; both cannot be true.
::: [[Deification]]
 
=== Is God "static"? ===
Andrew from e-mail: In the 'eternal realm' there is no time.  How can we be dynamic yet God is static? He does not change with time only we do.  Is there a 'time' we live in in the eternal realm (the theory of 'days' in purgatory is popular but the concept was 'not up for debate' in the East because they did not see it as theologically worth pursing).  Are these concepts merely beyond human understanding and simple part of the 'mystery' that so permeates our sense of eternity?
 
=== Burning Man ===
* Kathleen from Facebook: I recently came across some information about "The Burning Man Experience" in the Black Rock Desert in Nevada. It was quite disturbing and reminded me of pagan rituals. Can you shed more light on this?
 
=== Questions about questions ===
 
* Two different friends asked me recently, "What is the hardest question you have received?  Your favorite question?  Your least favorite question?"
 
=== How could Adam and Eve sin? ===
* Thomas from e-mail: If Adam and Eve did not have Original Sin, they did not have concupiscence, by which we mean the tendency of our disordered appetites to lead us to sin.  Why weren't they immune to temptation?
 
=== What do goats symbolize in the Bible? ===
* John from Facebook: I saw a Masonic website that linked goats to Babylonian mystery religions.  The author suggested that the goat was a symbol of the Temple and Temple builders.  Is this how the symbolism of goats works in the Scriptures?  Would this add an extra dimension to the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25?  Does the Church have a specific teaching on the meaning of goats in the Bible?
 
=== How to "Offer it up?" ===
* Sherry.  Arlington, Virginia. iCatholic.  I have a question about suffering and "offering it up". I am not a cradle Catholic, so I did not get the benefit of learning about this while growing up.  What I've done is simply a mental prayer like this:  "Dear God, I offer you this pain (or discomfort, or whatever suffering I am going through at the moment)".  Is this adequate?  Sometimes I add " to join in Christ's suffering on the cross in order to help redeem the world (or for some other purpose like to help a sick friend or family member)".  Is this an acceptable way to offer up suffering?  Thank you.  We love your radio show!
 
=== Theology of Global Warming? ===
* Marilyn.  Buffalo, New York.  I have another philosophical question.  From the standpoint of Genesis, is global warming man-made or part of God's plan? Why would God make us in His image and then give us the power to destroy his creation?  Would God really allow us to be such a problem?
 
=== Traces of the Trinity in the Old Testament ===
 
* Mike Denz from WLOF: A while back, you talked with a listener about Old Testament passages that foreshadhow the revelation of the Trinity in the New Testament.  Isn't there are a foreshadowing of John's Trinitarian theology of the Word made flesh in Genesis 1?  Genesis 1 portrays God as creating by speaking words of command such as "Let there be light — and there was light;" then John's gospel says that God created through the Word.
::: Speaker, breath, word — Father, Spirit, Son (the missions of the Trinity, not the eternal relationships between the Divine Persons).  The Spirit is not mentioned explicitly until 1:32; John testifies that he saw the Spirit descend upon Jesus and that Jesus would "baptize with the Holy Spirit."
::: Ruah in Genesis 1:1.
 
* Brian from Facebook: I have two questions.
:: '''Part I: In the case of a pastoral administrator charged with a parish assignment, where does the buck stop? With the pastoral administrator or a priest (sacramental minister) also assigned to the same parish?'''
:::: There is a separation of powers.
 
:::: A Parish Administrator (PA) is responsible for anything you can do with money, including collecting it.  The PA may also  define the parish schedule, organize non-sacramental ministries, and obtain services from priests or deacons as needed when the assigned Sacramental  Minister (SM) is unavailable.  I imagine that the PA would run the catechetical programs and would be the person who hires and fires other parish workers.  The PA would also keep all of the books — financial, sacramental records, school records, etc.
 
:::: The sacramental minister is responsible for seeing that the sacraments are offered correctly.
 
:::: Grey areas probably not defined by law but settled on a case-by-case basis: furnishings, music, "smells and bells."
 
:: '''Part II<nowiki>:</nowiki> What is your opinion of people calling a priest a "sacramental minister"?'''
 
:::: It's accurate, if not very poetic.  There are some men who, for one reason or another, should not act as pastors.  They can supply the sacraments for a parish, but do not have the gifts or virtues required for administration.  I think this causes great grief to the priests.
 
:::: One priest in our diocese was a "sacramental minister" after being a priest for at least 25 years, and was apparently despondent at being ordered to leave his parish so that another priest could become pastor, relieving a deacon and his wife of the job of P.A.  Not being promoted to pastor hurt the priest terribly, but the act of suicide suggests to me that it was not a bad decision not to promote him — he was not a well man (may he rest in peace).
 
:::: Better title?  "Parish priest" or "Parish father."
 
=== Destiny of the souls of those who die in abortion ===
 
* Matthew Paul via Facebook: Is there a definitive Church teaching on what happens to the souls of aborted children?  Are they martyrs through a "baptism of blood"?
:: [[Abortion#Afterlife_for_aborted_children|Afterlife for aborted children?]]
 
=== Did Jesuits tried to kill John Paul II? ===
 
* Alex from e-mail: A very devout Polish Catholic friend of mine believes that John Paul II was about to dissolve the Society of Jesus, also known as "the Jesuits," but was prevented from doing so by being shot by Ali Agca, who was acting on behalf of the Jesuits.  The only reference I could find about this was from Malachi Martin's book, ''The Jesuits.''
 
::: 1981: Arrupe's stroke; appointment of Vinny O'Keefe to be Acting General; replacement of O'Keefe by Paulo Dezza.
::: 1983: assassination attempt on 13 May; election of Fr. Kolvenbach on 13 September.
 
=== Gay lobby on Catholic campuses ===
* Kevin from Buffalo:
:; Setup for the question
 
:: [http://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/04/education/edlife/how-georgetown-became-a-gay-friendly-campus.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0 A recent New York Times article] talked about how Georgetown has become a "gay-friendly institution." Mr. Lloyd, the pride group president, says he is often tempted to join the more tolerant Episcopal Church. But for many young Catholics, particularly of Irish or Italian descent, Catholicism is interchangeable with identity. “You stay Catholic because you have a love of the institution and you want to change it,” he said.
 
:: With a prophetic air, campus crusaders for this new “21st century” “Catholic” identity make ''ex cathedra'' pronouncements like “Society is changing, and God is in that change.”
 
:; The question:
 
:: What do you think about this approach to being Catholic?
 
=== Taking nephews to Communion ===
* Laura from Facebook: My 11- and 12-year old sons periodically invite their cousins to sleep over on a Saturday night. On Sunday we all attend Mass together.  I know my nephews do not attend Mass regularly, and I doubt that they ever go to Confession.  Should I confront them about this?  What responsibilities do I have as their Aunt?
 
=== Jesuits in Upstate New York? ===
 
* Parishioner of Peter Calabrese asked via e-mail: Have you ever heard in the “family lore” of Jesuits working in the Lewiston area very early on?
 
=== Sex reassignment surgery ===
* Kathy, Rochester, New York.  At work, my Department Head announced at a staff meeting that an employee was going to be changing from a male to a female.  What is the church's teaching on that?
 
=== Confirmation Necessary for Marriage? ===
 
* Dolores.  Hamburg, New York.  If a Catholic is Baptized and received the first Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist, but NOT Confirmed, can they be married in the Church?
 
=== "Queen of Creation" ===
* From a parishioner: I like to call Mary "Queen of Creation" when I am praying to her.  Is that appropriate?
 
=== Selling or renting property to same-sex couples ===
* From a parishioner: Would I be [[Cooperation with evil|cooperating in evil]] if I sold or rented a house to a same-sex couple?
 
=== What would Jesus think of today's Church? ===
* Bob from e-mail: If Christ returned to Earth tomorrow as a typically normal 21st Century Catholic, what do you think He would think of the Church that He created and the leadership it has?  Would he approve of it and back it, unquestionably?  Or, would he rail against it, or various aspects of it, as he did the moneychangers and merchants whose tables He dispersed from the synagogue when he was here 2000+ years ago?
 
=== Promoting Women's Vocations to Religious Life ===
* Patti from e-mail: [http://imaginesisters.org/ Imagine Sisters] wants to make Jesus loved by introducing the world to religious sisters in love with Christ through media and personal encounters. We want to encourage and inspire a culture of vocations to women’s religious life by fostering a deep desire for holiness through the witness of religious sisters.
 
=== Who are the vultures? ===
 
* From Awesome Lawson: I was told by a priest that the verse, "Wherever the corpse is, there the vultures will gather" (Mt 24:28) refers to Eucharistic adoration.  Is that true?
 
=== Footwashing ===
 
* Letitia: Footwashing is for everybody — everybody should do it to everybody.  She sent slippers, a towel, and foot cream to her nieces and nephews, and asked them to wash their mother's feet.  Jesus said, "Do ''as'' I do.  Such love and humility.  Jesus took the place of the last and the least.  Usually done by the Gentile slave, by wives for their husbands, by children for their parents, and by disciples for their teachers.
 
=== St. Malachy and the End of the World ===
 
* [[St. Malachy and the End of the World]]
* I have figured out how to prove that Pope Francis is [[St. Malachy and the End of the World|"Peter the Roman."]]  That means the end of the world is near (again!). :-O
:: [http://catholicozarks.blogspot.com/2013/05/pope-francis-peter-roman-antichrist.html "Pope Francis = Peter The Roman = Antichrist ?"]
:: "In the extreme persecution of the Holy Roman Church, there will sit Peter the Roman, who will nourish the sheep in many tribulations; when they are finished, the city of seven hills will be destroyed, and the dreadful judge will judge his people. The end."
 
=== Seven Pilgrim Churches ===
 
* [http://zephyrinus-zephyrinus.blogspot.com/2013/03/the-seven-pilgrim-churches-of-rome.html ''Wikipedia,'' "The Seven Pilgrim Churches Of Rome."]
 
=== Catholic Children's Bible ===
* For parents: [http://www.smp.org/series/81/The-Catholic-Childrens-Bible ''The Catholic Children's Bible''] by St. Mary's Press.
 
=== Fr. Walter Ciszek, SJ ===
* Suellen Ann from Facebook: I just saw a beautiful documentary on EWTN about [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walter_Ciszek Fr. Walter Ciszek,] a Jesuit who was held captive in Siberia for 15 years. Could you talk a little bit about his life and works?
::: [[Walter Ciszek, SJ]]
 
=== Catholic understanding of marriage ===
* Nicole from e-mail: I spoke w/a 20-something co-worker regarding male/female complementarity one day when she mentioned that people who don't accept "same-sex marriage" are bigots.  She listened to me kindly but  did not accept the idea that opposite genders go together because of procreation. Her immediate answer was, "well, the couple can use IVF." I find that many younger people have a utilitarian point of view - the end justifies the means.  How can I present the Church's teaching on marriage and the natural law in the most effective fashion?
 
=== Evidence of Ordination of Women? ===
 
* Andrew from e-mail: Sylvia Poggioli did a piece on NPR recently entitled [http://www.npr.org/2013/04/01/175910981/with-new-pope-catholic-women-hope-to-regain-church-leadership-roles "With New Pope, Catholic Women Hope To Regain Church Leadership Roles."] What are we to make of the argument that ancient mosaics and epigrams talk about women priests (presbytera) and bishops (episcopa)?
 
=== Year of Faith Website ===
* David M. from Rochester: Here is the Vatican’s website for the year of faith: [http://www.annusfidei.va/content/novaevangelizatio/en.html www.annusfidei.va.]
 
=== Common Bible includes "Apocrypha" ===
 
* John W. from e-mail: I was very surprised this afternoon when you quoted [http://usccb.org/bible/tobit/4:6 Tobit 4:8] on giving. You said, "The Protestants don’t have Tobit in their Bible." Here in Canada, or at least Toronto, we DO! We also have Judith, Wisdom, Baruch, 1&2 Maccabees, and the other Deuterocanonical Books in the pew Bibles of at least our local Anglican and Presbyterian churches, and probably in the local United Church too. The pew Bibles are the “New Revised Standard Version (with Apocrypha).” These are logical developments based on Vatican II, which began fifty years ago, and the first Anglican-Roman Catholic Common Declaration and the establishment of the Anglican-Roman Catholic International Commission forty-six years ago. Most Protestant churches are also using the Revised Common Lectionary. Is this just a Canadian thing?
::- [[Canon_of_the_Old_Testament#.22Apocryphal.22_Books_included_in_the_Common_Bible | Apocrypha in Common Bible.]]
 
=== Psychology and Catholicism ===
* John from Facebook: At the school I work, they are doing workshops on motivation and learning. They presented a workshop on [http://www.wglasser.com/ William Glasser's "choice theory,"] which seems to me to advocate faith but no God. When the Church provides counsel through Catholic Charities or even through a priest, how does it merge [[psychology and faith]]?
 
=== Godly Gynecology; Pregnancy Support Services ===
* Melissa from Kenmore, New York: "A friend of a friend of mine was told for decades that she had a thyroid problem that would prevent her from becoming pregnant.  The doctors were wrong.  When she began to gain weight because of a pregnancy, her doctor just adjusted her medication, thinking that her weight gain was due to thyroid problems, not a pregnancy.  This was a devastating situation for her, as she ended up having an abortion.  Many women who opt for abortion are not FOR abortion in and of itself. Many just do not have the support of the father or their family, and do not know who would help them cope with an unplanned child at the time of birth. Could you list some [[Pregnancy Support Services|resources women in such a situation can turn to?]]"
 
=== Pacifism required? ===
 
* Anonymous: Why do some candidates who are pro life still support violence via wars, detainment, and the like? Why can't being pro life mean being more vigilant in ending wars through diplomatic talks rather than continuing what seems an endless fight in another country? Our military wants to come home. Does war ever make any sense?"
::- [[Just War Theory]].
 
=== Feeling guilty after Confession ===
 
* Anonymous: "I have a hard time forgiving myself, even after I confess a sin in confession. Is that also a sin?"
::: [[Feeling guilty after Confession]].
 
=== Interceding for Sinners ===
 
* Anonymous: "What is the consequence if someone who is not Catholic receives the Eucharist in ignorance. Besides educating them, is there a penance one can do for them?"
::: [[What should I do when I see others sin?]]
::: [[Forgiveness Prayer]].
 
=== Spiritual Warfare ===
 
* John Z. from Facebook re: [[spiritual warfare]].
:::* Can people be used by demons to try and fight and create turmoil and strife?
:::* Are there angels and demons duking it out fighting for our souls?
:::* Also, I saw on a blog where a guy said to look in the Old Testament as to how many people Satan killed vs God. He claims that Satan only killed ten and God killed thousands. So, in his view, the whole Christian idea of God is false, and Satan got a raw deal.
 
=== Genocide in the Old Testament? ===
* Kevin from e-mail: Why did God order the Israelites to massacre whole villages when they conquered them? Today we would call that "genocide" or "ethnic cleansing." The Church teaches that it is intrinscially evil to target whole populations in warfare.  How could God command His people to do evil?
 
=== Successors of the other apostles? ===
* Rich from e-mail: Most Catholics know that the Pope is the successor to Peter. Has the "lineage" from the other apostles been preserved just as carefully? Would the holders of some of those Sees be the Latin [[Patriarchs]]? There are not twelve of this class, so who are the direct successors of all of the original apostles and Paul? (I include him because of his unique status).
 
=== Patriarchs and Cardinals ===
* Rich from e-mail: I think that a fairly recent canonical change required that all [[patriarchs]] be made cardinals, although they've always actually outranked cardinals in the hierarchy.  Is that correct?

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Sitz im leben

A season of growth.

   


December 19

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  • 148 days for Gina and Joseph.
Prologue
  • Faith 'n' Reason Friday.
  • Any topic OK.
  • All callers welcome.
Last few days of Advent — St. John the Baptist, pray for us!
Luke 1
76
You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High;
for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way,
to give his people knowledge of salvation
by the forgiveness of their sins.
  • From John on Facebook (he may post this question on Facebook during the show): Some of my friends argue that there is no need for a priesthood. In the Bible, the term is used only of the Old Testament priests who served in the Temple. In the New Testament, the terms "episcopos" and "presbyter" are used, not "priest." How can I answer this challenge to the Catholic understanding of priesthood?

Treasury of Unanswered Questions

May the priest skip the "Deliver us from evil" prayer?

  • Boston, Mass. At mass at our church, after the Our Father, the priest goes directly to "For the kingdom, the power, etc" and omits the prayer in between that says, "Deliver us, Lord, from every evil.." This seems to be an important and beautiful part of the prayer. Is it allowed to be omitted?

Destroying unused genetic material from IVF procedures?

  • George. Bellingham, Mass. I was reading the catechism re: life issues. Regarding In Vitro Fertilization, if the sperm and egg are not viable, is it as morally unacceptable to destroy them as it would be if the sperm and egg are viable?

What is Jesus doing now?

  • Joe. Buffalo. What is Jesus doing in heaven now?

Are we not required to love our parents?

Homework from last Friday
  • Rebecca from St. Petersburg asked about Dennis Prager's view that children only need to honor their parents, not love them.
Prager: "The bible understands that there will always be people who, for whatever reason, do not love a parent. Therefore, it does not demand what may be psychologically or emotionally impossible, but it does demand that we honor our parents."
Jesus: "What is impossible for you is possible for God. Love your enemies; pray for those who persecute you. Forgive seventy times seventy times!"
Yes, the parent-child relationsip is unique.
Yes, the family is the basic unit of society.
Yes, honor of parental is the glue that holds the family and therefore society together.
Yes, it is wrong for parents to seek to be "loved" as if they were the buddies of their babies. Parents must assert authority and children must yield to their parents' authority. When push comes to shove, it is right for parents to say, "Because I say so." This is often God's answer to our "why" questions, too. There are some things we cannot see for ourselves until we have grown more. Until that time, "because I say so" is the best answer.

Who is the greatest person "born of woman"?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Jesus says in Matthew 11 that John the Baptist was the greatest person ever born of a woman. I thought CHRIST himself or Mary would be the greatest?

How do I regularlize my marriage?

  • Anonymous from e-mail: I have been married for 15 years to my current husband and would like to have the marriage recognized by the Church so that I can receive the sacraments. I was first married in the Catholic Church. I was divorced from that man, and he has since died. I married another man in a civil service, then divorced him. I married my third and current husband in a civil service. He has been married in civil services and has been divorced twice. He is not Catholic and is not baptized. He has a hard time understanding why he has to participate in my annulment process. How should I explain it to him?

Did Jesus want us to mutilate our bodies?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Anonymous from Facebook: Christ tells us not to lust after someone, because it is adultery. He also commands us to pluck out our eye and cut off our hands if they cause us to sin. Why is it that I never hear Catholic or Protestants discuss this passage?

How to be chaste in marital relations?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: In what way is it appropriate to desire union with my spouse?
Gregory Popcak, A Catholic Guide to Infallible Loving.
Chastity in Marriage.

Bl. Carlos Manuel Rodriguez Santiago

Vatican News Service biography of Blessed Carlos Manuel.
— "Vivimos para esa noche" — "We live for that night" == the night of the Easter Vigil, in which we recall Jesus passing from death to life on Easter Sunday.
— "Charlie’s Beatification Process was indeed a swift one! Initiated in 1992, the positio on heroic virtues, lead to his status as Venerable as of July 7, 1997. The miracle for his beatification (cure of non-Hodgkins malignant lymphoma back in 1981) was approved on December 20,1999 by HH John Paul II. Thus, a record-making eight-year span, a first for lay actors!"

Straight from Earth to Heaven?

  • Shawn from Facebook: In the second letter to the Corinthians, it says: "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" (2 Cor 5:8). Does that mean that there is no purgatory? Do we just die and go straight to Heaven?
"For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil" (2 Cor 5:10).

Can the Church change the canon?

  • John from Facebook: Since it was the Catholic Church that decided the canon of the Bible, could the Catholic Church ever change the contents of the Bible by adding or removing books in the future?
Antilegomena: These antilegomena or "disputed writings" were widely read in the Early Church and included the Epistle of James, the Epistle of Jude, 2 Peter, 2 and 3 John, the Apocalypse of John, the Gospel of the Hebrews, the Apocalypse of Peter (unique in being the only book never accepted as canonical which was commentated upon by a Church Father), the Acts of Paul, the Shepherd of Hermas, the Epistle of Barnabas and the Didache.

How to start spiritual direction?

  • Anonymous. Massachusetts. I have felt for a long time that I need some type of spiritual direction and grounding. However, I'm not sure how to seek it out. Can you suggest a simple way to get started beyond my parish priest? Does it depend on how spiritually "developed" one is? Thank you.

Our Lady of the Americas?

  • Bob. Boston, NY. Could you tell me the story of the appearances of "Our Lady of the Americas" that occured around 1956?
Marian_Theology#Apparitions_that_have_not_been_approved Apparitions that have not been approved.

Good book for 4-year old who loves to pray?

  • Jessica. Can anyone recommend a kid friendly book, or guide to teaching young kids about Jesus' death and resurrection? My son who is 4 loves going to Adoration and going though the Stations of the Cross.

Love gives us free will

  • David, Buffalo, NY. I wanted to add a comment about the conversation about free will that it is because we are beings that have the ability to love and also that God's love for us gives is free will.

Defending the faith in an irreligious world

  • Shawn from Facebook: "In a pre-scientific understanding of the world, people naturally believed things happened because of the action of God, Angels, Demons, and the like; but now we can explain everything through the laws of science. We can see throughout history that religion, morals, and culture have evolved. How can we defend the faith in a world that seems to have no need of religion?"

May a couple marry who cannot consummate the vows?

  • Ann, Massachusetts. I heard on the radio that a Catholic woman and man should not get married if they cannot consummate their vows because of a medical condition. I cannot believe this could be right.
EWTN library.
impotence is indeed an impediment to marriage

Slavery approved in the Bible?

  • Anonymous. According to scriptures, slavery is not considered immoral, however there are specific instructions on how to beat slaves correctly. Why did neither God or Jesus teach that owning another human being is immoral? Nowhere is this stated in the bible! Mark Twain wrote: "In all the ages the Roman Church has owned slaves, bought and sold slaves, authorized and encouraged her children to trade in them. Long after some Christian peoples had freed their slaves the Church still held on to hers. If any could know, to absolute certainty, that all this was right, and according to God’s will and desire, surely it was she, since she was God’s specially appointed representative in the earth and sole authorized and infallible expounder of his Bible. There were the texts; there was no mistaking their meaning; she was right, she was doing in this thing what the bible had mapped out for her to do. So unassailable was her position that in all the centuries she had no word to say against human slavery."

Consecration to Mary?

  • Shawn from Facebook: How can Catholics consecrate themselves to Mary? She is not God. Isn't it a sin against the First Commandment to vow yourselves to her service?

Conflicting Scripture Passages

  • John from Facebook: In a recent Sunday reading from 1 Kings, God said to Solomon, "I give you a heart so wise and discerning that there has never been anyone like you until now, nor after you will there be anyone to equal you" (1 Kings 3:12). But in Matthew, it says, "There is something greater than Solomon here" (Matthew 12:42). How do you reconcile the two passages?
Similar kind of conundrum: What did Jesus mean when He said that "Amen, I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he" (Mt 11:11)? Wasn't Mary greater than John the Baptist through her Immaculate Conception?
And, of course, "all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23). Doesn't that mean that Mary and Jesus were both sinners?
"No sign will be given this generation except the sign of Jonah, for just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth" (Mt 12:40).

Followup question from John

John from Facebook:

  • If the church teaches us not to read passages literally, why does it not apply this to the teachings on the supper of The Lord or giving Peter the keys to the kingdom? How does the Church discern what should be taken literally and what isn't? My non Catholic friends say the Church chooses to take literally those passages that support her doctrinal position. After all the churches authority comes from reading the passage on the keys given to Peter literally doesn't it?

Can Mary bless us?

  • Shawn from Facebook: I heard a priest say the rosary. He said, "May Mary bless you with her holy child." How can Mary bless us with anything? She has no power outside of Christ.

Boys will be boys?

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Your 12-year old catches about 10 dragonflies, takes their wings off, and puts them in a cup “because he wants to see them fight.” Is that just boys being boys? Or do you tell him that it’s wrong to hurt animals for fun? He has Reactive Attachment Disorder which causes me additional concern.

Tips for Lay Evangelization?

From the "Ask a Priest" page on TheStationOfTheCross.com:
Michael: The Pope has called lay people to evangelize. I very heatedly expressed my objections to a fictional TV show which portrayed a catholic priest in a very negative way. A high school senior responded to my criticisms by expressing a desire for God, but he also expressed some reservations about God and showed a real lack of knowledge of the faith. How about having a show where people call in to discuss their ideas for lay evangelization and talk about their successes or failures in bearing witness to the tremendous hidden treasures of our faith?

How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God?

  • How many books of the Bible claim to be inspired by God? Maybe two make an explicit claim — Jeremiah and Revelation.
Jeremiah: "Take a scroll and write on it all the words I have spoken to you about Israel, Judah, and all the nations, from the day I first spoke to you, from the days of Josiah, until today" (36:2).
"Proving Inspiration."
What about the Bible’s own claim to inspiration? There are not many places where such a claim is made even elliptically, and most books in the Old and New Testaments make no such claim at all. In fact, no New Testament writer explicitly claims that he himself is writing at the direct behest of God, with the exception of John, the author of Revelation.

Taped evidence — nursing home

  • Luisa from "Ask a Priest" [today]: My mother was in the nursing home up until she passed away. We placed a camera in her room because they kept dropping her. Although the policy of the nursing home prohibits recording sound in the patients' bedrooms, by accident, some of our videos recorded the nurses abusing my mother verbally. May I use these recordings in good faith to bring an action against the nursing home?

Why can't women preach in Church?

  • From a pastor who listens to the show: When you answered Betsy's question on August 4th about how women can preach the gospel even though they are not allowed to read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy, you dodged the question of why women and laymen cannot read the gospel and preach homilies in the liturgy. I may not be the smartest kid on the block, but I can tell when someone is ducking a tough question! :o) [Note well: this priest is a very good and orthodox priest, and he is a friend of mine. This is a kind and well-meaning question, not a screed in favor of abandoning the Church's tradition! I think it is a good question.]

NFP for a pre-menopausal couple?

  • Anonymous from "Ask a Priest" on the Station of the Cross website — spend a little time explaining how to find and use this page on the website. My impression is that it is right on the front page, down at the bottom. That's how I see it, anyway, using a browser; I couldn't find it on the iCatholicRadio app. "Submit your questions for a priest to answer live on Calling All Catholics, airing weekdays from 5-6 pm ET."
I am concerned whether my husband and I are committing a mortal sin in our intimate relations. Because I am pre-menopausal, the signs of our fertile time are very uncertain, so I can't tell with much confidence when we are in a fertile time in our relationship. We used to use Natural Family Planning, but now we are not completing the marital act in a natural fashion. My health is poor, and we do not want to become pregnant at this time in our marriage. Are we committing a sin by not completing the marriage act normally?
BE POSITIVE. The Church upholds the natural act of love in marriage as the norm for judging what is right and wrong in our relationships. Whenever a couple chooses the joy of union, their expression of love should be such that they do nothing to make it impossible for them to become pregnant through their union. This norm rules out barrier methods, the use of artificial hormones that fool the woman's body into thinking that she is already pregnant, and any other actions that would keep the union of the couple from being fruitful. If you and your husband feel sure that you cannot afford to become pregnant at this time in your life, you must abstain from union for a while until your health improves or you reach the point at which you can have greater confidence than you do now in identifying the fertile times in your cycle; you might want to ask for help from a certified Natural Family counselor to get help in understanding the signs at this time in your life. Abstinence is hard, but not impossible. It, too, is an act of love for each other and for our Creator. Abstinence chosen out of love for one another for shorter or longer times has its own rewards, though they are, of course, more subtle and on a different level from the joy of expressing your love for each other directly through marital union. We have been praying for you and your husband, Anonymous, since we received your e-mail. We hope that you will find great joy in being faithful and true to each other as well as abiding by God's plan for your marriage.
"Christoper West's Ideas on Sexuality Ignore Tremendous Dangers — Alice von Hildebrand."

Why is the Old Testament so vague about Trinity and the Eucharist?

  • Sara from the Fund Drive:
  1. Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Trinity?
  2. Why didn't God give more advance warning in the Old Testament of the doctrine of the Eucharist?

Is spiritual dryness a sin?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Is having spiritual dryness a sin?

How should Catholics vote?

  • Shawn from Facebook: Election season is upon us. The Catholic voter guide basically says "don't vote for abortion," and rightly so. But, I have never supported GOP politics either, although they are the closest thing we have to a pro-life party. So how should I vote then?
USCCB Voting Guide for Catholics.

Struggling with Marian prayers

Shawn from Facebook: I struggle with certain Marian prayers that ask her to save us, etc; I don't get that... Because she can't do anything without God's power. She is merely a creature, though the highest of all creation. I have trouble with the rosary too. Why not just pray the "Our Father"?

Chesterton Academy in England?

  • Maria Bachelier from e-mail: Is there any Chesterton academy in England, where I live?
Not yet. There is one in Italy. Dale Ahlquist is in Europe right now. More may be under development.
Emily de Rotstein, Executive Director
Chesterton Academy — www.chestertonacademy.org
info@chestertonacademy.org

Why does the Catechism calls us "gods"?

  • John from Facebook: I have been reading the Catechism each night. I have a question regarding paragraph 460 which says, "The only-begotten Son of God, wanting to make us sharers in his divinity, assumed our nature, so that he, made man, might make men gods." This passage uses the lower case letter g. In the Old Testament, this is how the pagan gods are referred to. What does lower case "gods" mean here?
Divinization.

Righteous anger vs. sinful anger

  • John from Facebook:
  1. Could you explain righteous anger and sinful anger? Are there scriptural references to these two kinds of anger? Could you give some ideas how to counteract the sin of anger? — Christian Anger Management.
  2. Also would you please pray for my niece, Marybeth, who suffers from a head injury she received in an accident some time ago.

Multiple sins in an invalid marriage

  • Anonymous from Facebook: Suppose a person got married only in order to obtain a visa and did not intend the marriage to last. Is that person sinning if they do not get an annulment? Is that person committing fornication when they have relations with their innocent spouse?

Uncharitable thoughts and feelings

  • Anonymous from Facebook: I am a volunteer at my parish. I arranged to switch volunteer nights with another parishioner. I covered their night, but they did not cover mine. I was called and asked to come fill in for them. I felt annoyed at the prospect, but did eventually offer to fill the empty spot. I feel that I was selfish and uncharitable. Did I commit a sin by being annoyed or by waiting a while before I said yes?

Do same-sex marriages invalidate all marriages in the state or the denomination?

  • Peter John from e-mail:
  1. If Christian denominations and many states are recognizing same-sex marriages, does that not mean that all of the marriages in those denominations or states are necessarily invalid in the eyes of the Church? If so, wouldn't that simplify the annulment process for those who contracted marriage before a justice of the peace in those states or in those denominations?
  2. I am upset that I see people who are cohabiting receive the sacraments while those who are in post-divorce marriages cannot. This especially troublesome when the divorced and remarried have no children from earlier marriages, have built a good family in their current marriages, and live devout lives otherwise.

Should we hold hands during the Our Father?

Why not do mandalas in our parish?

  • NOT ON THE LINE. Liz from Rochester. Please speak about what Mandala is and why it shouldn’t be practiced at our parish.
The Mandala Project.

Blessed are those who murder babies?

  • Kevin from e-mail: The last verse of Psalm 137 is really horrible. It says, "Blessed is the man who seizes the children of Babylon and dashes their brains out against a rock." Isn't God the father of Babylonian children, too? How could murdering innocent children bring blessings to those who murder them?

Why was John the Baptist not freed from captivity?

  • John from Facebook: The gospel of Luke says that Jesus came to set the captives free. If so, then why didn't Jesus free John the Baptist from captivity?

When should we accept death for those whom we love?

  • Katy from e-mail: Every day at Mass I hear the priest ask us to pray for life, "from its natural beginning to its natural end." I remain confused as to why keeping an infant (or anyone) with a terminal illness on life support, in this case mechanical ventilation, is celebrated. I don't understand why anyone would want to watch a loved one suffering with a tracheostomy when that loved one could be in paradise with Jesus. Is this brave to keep them alive, or is it selfish?
Catholic Medical Ethics


U.S. Bishops dedicated to Marxism since 1979?

  • Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
- I have an article from 1979 which says that U.S. bishops were dedicated to preaching Marxism instead of Christianity. Is that claim true?

Positive outcomes from Vatican II

  • Mary Kathryn from e-mail:
- Can you name three positive outcomes of Vatican II?
- Recognition that we owe religious assent to the ordinary teachings of the Magisterium. The Scriptures are the fruit of Tradition and are part of Tradition; they do not replace it.
- Catechism of the Catholic Church.
- Discussion of marriage as a noble vocation, including praise of the nobility of the act of marital union, reaffirmation of the Church's traditional teaching on avoiding contraceptives, and a strong condemnation of abortion as an abominable crime.

Canon law and Catholic identity

  • Melanie from Twitter: Is it a violation of canon law to question someone's Catholic identity?
Can. 216: "Since they participate in the mission of the Church, all the Christian faithful have the right to promote or sustain apostolic action even by their own undertakings, according to their own state and condition. Nevertheless, no undertaking is to claim the name Catholic without the consent of competent ecclesiastical authority."

Calling God "Allah"

  • Winna from Twitter: Do you know the Arabic word 'Allah'? Do you think it is inappropriate for Christians to use the Arabic word for God?

Thanks for help with Desolation

  • Anonymous from Facebook: "Thank you for answering my questions about desolation in such a great detail in a show you did in the summer time. I feel very comforted after hearing from you on the show and I'm actually feeling relieved with the clarity especially after learning about desolation. I can't thank you enough for this. I feel that I'm suddenly pulled back in when I was almost falling off a steep cliff — thank you so much for the rescue!"

New forms of Catholicism?

Mark: What the "New Catholic Churches"?

Schismatic Catholics.

Experimental Medical Treatments

  • Dan from Facebook: Does the Church have any definitive position on the use of experimental medical treatments? A friend has stage 4 melanoma, and an experimental drug is his best (and apparently only) chance for survival. The problem is that it hasn't been approved by the FDA — the family wants it for "compassionate use" in the meantime. I just have to decide whether to sign the petition they are circulating.

Anathema sit!

  • Debbie from Amherst: The Council of Trent says that anyone who objects to the doctrine of the Church is "anathema." What does that mean for our Protestant brothers and sisters who have left the Church?

Deification

  • Andrew from e-mail: It appears that in Eastern Catholic Theology one can become closer to God after death through deification. The Eastern Catholics claim that their saints move closer to God even in heaven. In Western theology this does not appear possible. One gains merit/treasures in heaven while alive, and assuming one gets to heaven, that's it — no more! You are as close to God as possible. Not all saints are the same in glory. There is no more change possible. These Eastern and Western views are logically incompatible; both cannot be true.
Deification

Is God "static"?

Andrew from e-mail: In the 'eternal realm' there is no time. How can we be dynamic yet God is static? He does not change with time only we do. Is there a 'time' we live in in the eternal realm (the theory of 'days' in purgatory is popular but the concept was 'not up for debate' in the East because they did not see it as theologically worth pursing). Are these concepts merely beyond human understanding and simple part of the 'mystery' that so permeates our sense of eternity?

Burning Man

  • Kathleen from Facebook: I recently came across some information about "The Burning Man Experience" in the Black Rock Desert in Nevada. It was quite disturbing and reminded me of pagan rituals. Can you shed more light on this?

Questions about questions

  • Two different friends asked me recently, "What is the hardest question you have received? Your favorite question? Your least favorite question?"

How could Adam and Eve sin?

  • Thomas from e-mail: If Adam and Eve did not have Original Sin, they did not have concupiscence, by which we mean the tendency of our disordered appetites to lead us to sin. Why weren't they immune to temptation?

What do goats symbolize in the Bible?

  • John from Facebook: I saw a Masonic website that linked goats to Babylonian mystery religions. The author suggested that the goat was a symbol of the Temple and Temple builders. Is this how the symbolism of goats works in the Scriptures? Would this add an extra dimension to the parable of the sheep and the goats in Matthew 25? Does the Church have a specific teaching on the meaning of goats in the Bible?

How to "Offer it up?"

  • Sherry. Arlington, Virginia. iCatholic. I have a question about suffering and "offering it up". I am not a cradle Catholic, so I did not get the benefit of learning about this while growing up. What I've done is simply a mental prayer like this: "Dear God, I offer you this pain (or discomfort, or whatever suffering I am going through at the moment)". Is this adequate? Sometimes I add " to join in Christ's suffering on the cross in order to help redeem the world (or for some other purpose like to help a sick friend or family member)". Is this an acceptable way to offer up suffering? Thank you. We love your radio show!

Theology of Global Warming?

  • Marilyn. Buffalo, New York. I have another philosophical question. From the standpoint of Genesis, is global warming man-made or part of God's plan? Why would God make us in His image and then give us the power to destroy his creation? Would God really allow us to be such a problem?

Traces of the Trinity in the Old Testament

  • Mike Denz from WLOF: A while back, you talked with a listener about Old Testament passages that foreshadhow the revelation of the Trinity in the New Testament. Isn't there are a foreshadowing of John's Trinitarian theology of the Word made flesh in Genesis 1? Genesis 1 portrays God as creating by speaking words of command such as "Let there be light — and there was light;" then John's gospel says that God created through the Word.
Speaker, breath, word — Father, Spirit, Son (the missions of the Trinity, not the eternal relationships between the Divine Persons). The Spirit is not mentioned explicitly until 1:32; John testifies that he saw the Spirit descend upon Jesus and that Jesus would "baptize with the Holy Spirit."
Ruah in Genesis 1:1.
  • Brian from Facebook: I have two questions.
Part I: In the case of a pastoral administrator charged with a parish assignment, where does the buck stop? With the pastoral administrator or a priest (sacramental minister) also assigned to the same parish?
There is a separation of powers.
A Parish Administrator (PA) is responsible for anything you can do with money, including collecting it. The PA may also define the parish schedule, organize non-sacramental ministries, and obtain services from priests or deacons as needed when the assigned Sacramental Minister (SM) is unavailable. I imagine that the PA would run the catechetical programs and would be the person who hires and fires other parish workers. The PA would also keep all of the books — financial, sacramental records, school records, etc.
The sacramental minister is responsible for seeing that the sacraments are offered correctly.
Grey areas probably not defined by law but settled on a case-by-case basis: furnishings, music, "smells and bells."
Part II: What is your opinion of people calling a priest a "sacramental minister"?
It's accurate, if not very poetic. There are some men who, for one reason or another, should not act as pastors. They can supply the sacraments for a parish, but do not have the gifts or virtues required for administration. I think this causes great grief to the priests.
One priest in our diocese was a "sacramental minister" after being a priest for at least 25 years, and was apparently despondent at being ordered to leave his parish so that another priest could become pastor, relieving a deacon and his wife of the job of P.A. Not being promoted to pastor hurt the priest terribly, but the act of suicide suggests to me that it was not a bad decision not to promote him — he was not a well man (may he rest in peace).
Better title? "Parish priest" or "Parish father."

Destiny of the souls of those who die in abortion

  • Matthew Paul via Facebook: Is there a definitive Church teaching on what happens to the souls of aborted children? Are they martyrs through a "baptism of blood"?
Afterlife for aborted children?

Did Jesuits tried to kill John Paul II?

  • Alex from e-mail: A very devout Polish Catholic friend of mine believes that John Paul II was about to dissolve the Society of Jesus, also known as "the Jesuits," but was prevented from doing so by being shot by Ali Agca, who was acting on behalf of the Jesuits. The only reference I could find about this was from Malachi Martin's book, The Jesuits.
1981: Arrupe's stroke; appointment of Vinny O'Keefe to be Acting General; replacement of O'Keefe by Paulo Dezza.
1983: assassination attempt on 13 May; election of Fr. Kolvenbach on 13 September.

Gay lobby on Catholic campuses

  • Kevin from Buffalo:
Setup for the question
A recent New York Times article talked about how Georgetown has become a "gay-friendly institution." Mr. Lloyd, the pride group president, says he is often tempted to join the more tolerant Episcopal Church. But for many young Catholics, particularly of Irish or Italian descent, Catholicism is interchangeable with identity. “You stay Catholic because you have a love of the institution and you want to change it,” he said.
With a prophetic air, campus crusaders for this new “21st century” “Catholic” identity make ex cathedra pronouncements like “Society is changing, and God is in that change.”
The question
What do you think about this approach to being Catholic?

Taking nephews to Communion

  • Laura from Facebook: My 11- and 12-year old sons periodically invite their cousins to sleep over on a Saturday night. On Sunday we all attend Mass together. I know my nephews do not attend Mass regularly, and I doubt that they ever go to Confession. Should I confront them about this? What responsibilities do I have as their Aunt?

Jesuits in Upstate New York?

  • Parishioner of Peter Calabrese asked via e-mail: Have you ever heard in the “family lore” of Jesuits working in the Lewiston area very early on?

Sex reassignment surgery

  • Kathy, Rochester, New York. At work, my Department Head announced at a staff meeting that an employee was going to be changing from a male to a female. What is the church's teaching on that?

Confirmation Necessary for Marriage?

  • Dolores. Hamburg, New York. If a Catholic is Baptized and received the first Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist, but NOT Confirmed, can they be married in the Church?

"Queen of Creation"

  • From a parishioner: I like to call Mary "Queen of Creation" when I am praying to her. Is that appropriate?

Selling or renting property to same-sex couples

  • From a parishioner: Would I be cooperating in evil if I sold or rented a house to a same-sex couple?

What would Jesus think of today's Church?

  • Bob from e-mail: If Christ returned to Earth tomorrow as a typically normal 21st Century Catholic, what do you think He would think of the Church that He created and the leadership it has? Would he approve of it and back it, unquestionably? Or, would he rail against it, or various aspects of it, as he did the moneychangers and merchants whose tables He dispersed from the synagogue when he was here 2000+ years ago?

Promoting Women's Vocations to Religious Life

  • Patti from e-mail: Imagine Sisters wants to make Jesus loved by introducing the world to religious sisters in love with Christ through media and personal encounters. We want to encourage and inspire a culture of vocations to women’s religious life by fostering a deep desire for holiness through the witness of religious sisters.

Who are the vultures?

  • From Awesome Lawson: I was told by a priest that the verse, "Wherever the corpse is, there the vultures will gather" (Mt 24:28) refers to Eucharistic adoration. Is that true?

Footwashing

  • Letitia: Footwashing is for everybody — everybody should do it to everybody. She sent slippers, a towel, and foot cream to her nieces and nephews, and asked them to wash their mother's feet. Jesus said, "Do as I do. Such love and humility. Jesus took the place of the last and the least. Usually done by the Gentile slave, by wives for their husbands, by children for their parents, and by disciples for their teachers.

St. Malachy and the End of the World

"Pope Francis = Peter The Roman = Antichrist ?"
"In the extreme persecution of the Holy Roman Church, there will sit Peter the Roman, who will nourish the sheep in many tribulations; when they are finished, the city of seven hills will be destroyed, and the dreadful judge will judge his people. The end."

Seven Pilgrim Churches

Catholic Children's Bible

Fr. Walter Ciszek, SJ

  • Suellen Ann from Facebook: I just saw a beautiful documentary on EWTN about Fr. Walter Ciszek, a Jesuit who was held captive in Siberia for 15 years. Could you talk a little bit about his life and works?
Walter Ciszek, SJ

Catholic understanding of marriage

  • Nicole from e-mail: I spoke w/a 20-something co-worker regarding male/female complementarity one day when she mentioned that people who don't accept "same-sex marriage" are bigots. She listened to me kindly but did not accept the idea that opposite genders go together because of procreation. Her immediate answer was, "well, the couple can use IVF." I find that many younger people have a utilitarian point of view - the end justifies the means. How can I present the Church's teaching on marriage and the natural law in the most effective fashion?

Evidence of Ordination of Women?

Year of Faith Website

  • David M. from Rochester: Here is the Vatican’s website for the year of faith: www.annusfidei.va.

Common Bible includes "Apocrypha"

  • John W. from e-mail: I was very surprised this afternoon when you quoted Tobit 4:8 on giving. You said, "The Protestants don’t have Tobit in their Bible." Here in Canada, or at least Toronto, we DO! We also have Judith, Wisdom, Baruch, 1&2 Maccabees, and the other Deuterocanonical Books in the pew Bibles of at least our local Anglican and Presbyterian churches, and probably in the local United Church too. The pew Bibles are the “New Revised Standard Version (with Apocrypha).” These are logical developments based on Vatican II, which began fifty years ago, and the first Anglican-Roman Catholic Common Declaration and the establishment of the Anglican-Roman Catholic International Commission forty-six years ago. Most Protestant churches are also using the Revised Common Lectionary. Is this just a Canadian thing?
- Apocrypha in Common Bible.

Psychology and Catholicism

  • John from Facebook: At the school I work, they are doing workshops on motivation and learning. They presented a workshop on William Glasser's "choice theory," which seems to me to advocate faith but no God. When the Church provides counsel through Catholic Charities or even through a priest, how does it merge psychology and faith?

Godly Gynecology; Pregnancy Support Services

  • Melissa from Kenmore, New York: "A friend of a friend of mine was told for decades that she had a thyroid problem that would prevent her from becoming pregnant. The doctors were wrong. When she began to gain weight because of a pregnancy, her doctor just adjusted her medication, thinking that her weight gain was due to thyroid problems, not a pregnancy. This was a devastating situation for her, as she ended up having an abortion. Many women who opt for abortion are not FOR abortion in and of itself. Many just do not have the support of the father or their family, and do not know who would help them cope with an unplanned child at the time of birth. Could you list some resources women in such a situation can turn to?"

Pacifism required?

  • Anonymous: Why do some candidates who are pro life still support violence via wars, detainment, and the like? Why can't being pro life mean being more vigilant in ending wars through diplomatic talks rather than continuing what seems an endless fight in another country? Our military wants to come home. Does war ever make any sense?"
- Just War Theory.

Feeling guilty after Confession

  • Anonymous: "I have a hard time forgiving myself, even after I confess a sin in confession. Is that also a sin?"
Feeling guilty after Confession.

Interceding for Sinners

  • Anonymous: "What is the consequence if someone who is not Catholic receives the Eucharist in ignorance. Besides educating them, is there a penance one can do for them?"
What should I do when I see others sin?
Forgiveness Prayer.

Spiritual Warfare

  • Can people be used by demons to try and fight and create turmoil and strife?
  • Are there angels and demons duking it out fighting for our souls?
  • Also, I saw on a blog where a guy said to look in the Old Testament as to how many people Satan killed vs God. He claims that Satan only killed ten and God killed thousands. So, in his view, the whole Christian idea of God is false, and Satan got a raw deal.

Genocide in the Old Testament?

  • Kevin from e-mail: Why did God order the Israelites to massacre whole villages when they conquered them? Today we would call that "genocide" or "ethnic cleansing." The Church teaches that it is intrinscially evil to target whole populations in warfare. How could God command His people to do evil?

Successors of the other apostles?

  • Rich from e-mail: Most Catholics know that the Pope is the successor to Peter. Has the "lineage" from the other apostles been preserved just as carefully? Would the holders of some of those Sees be the Latin Patriarchs? There are not twelve of this class, so who are the direct successors of all of the original apostles and Paul? (I include him because of his unique status).

Patriarchs and Cardinals

  • Rich from e-mail: I think that a fairly recent canonical change required that all patriarchs be made cardinals, although they've always actually outranked cardinals in the hierarchy. Is that correct?