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July 11

Anonymous. In "Catholicism for Dummies," Fr. John Trigilio and another priest said that watching movies in which the Lord's name is taken in vain counts as a sin against the Second Commandment. This seems a little harsh -- is this really a teaching of the Church? If so, it seems like there aren't very many movies Catholics are allowed to see... Best, -Anonymous
Al. Telham, NH. Question about Jacob and Esau regarding why Esau gave up his birthright.
Ben. Buffalo. Prayer request for his brother-in-law who lost his job. Pray that he will be able to find a job. (Mike - he may not be able to hold)
Bob. Boston, NY. Even though the 500 men and women saw Jesus after his resurrection, are they still people of faith?
John Rochester. Prayer request for a young man, Scott, who died in a car accident recently. For his family's healing and consolation. For all families who suffer an unexpected loss.
Jennifer. Niagara Falls, Ont. What's the difference between doctrine, dogma and discipline?

June 27

Mike. Maine/Boston. Hello Father, I'm a daily listener from Maine. This show helps me decompress from the daily grind during my long rides home from work in Boston, back to Maine. My question is : How does the speculation about the dinosaurs and the age of the earth, factor or transpose into our Catholic beliefs? Thank you for answering, and if you don't get to it, thank you for many wonderful commutes home. Respectfully, Mike
Cherie. Waltham, Massachusetts. Would like to speak to Father about rumors, articles, YouTube videos, etc. Alluding to the current Pope being the Anti-Christ.
Oliver. Massachusetts. I am 12 years old from Massachusetts. I was wondering why God gave Mary the gift of being born without original sin and not everyone else? I understand that Mary was carrying the Son of God but if God wants everyone to not sin, why did he not give us that choice too?Thanks!
Michael. Rochester, NY. Has two comments in regards to your earlier conversation: First. The Church has NEVER changed its stand on Creation, although the science community has. Second. He was always taught that Creator God is the 1st cause of everything.
Joe. Buffalo, New York. PRAYER REQUEST. On his way home this evening he received a Flyer from a group of people. It is a picture and information about a 14 year old girl who is missing. She was last seen yesterday near Seneca and Mineral Springs around 3:00pm. He is asking for prayer for her and her family.
Anonymous. PRAYER REQUEST. Please pray for a healing and a good place to live for Joey. Also, that his mother may turn to God instead of away from Him in this exceptionally trying situation. Thank you.
Bob. Boston. Would like to tell Fr. that the principal author of Big Bang Theory is a Catholic Priest. LaMastra.

June 20

Catlin - My question is about fasting and prayer. I recently was given direction by God following a prayer to complete a 21 day Daniel fast for the intercession of someone close to me. I normally pray for an hour in the morning and the rosary at lunch, and nighttime prayers before bed. During my fast, which I just completed, I did not increase my prayer time for the most part, with the exception of a few prayers here or there and a divine chapter of mercy. Does that make my spiritual fast invalid and do I need to redo it?

Daniel Fast

Prayer request from Zach: For Mike Brady and his daughter, Evelina,age 32, who is in ICU with unexplained high blood pressure. She has had it for a year without knowing it and the heart was thickening and couldn't pump hard enough. She is on blood/kidney dialysis tonight. She is also undergoing tests and everyone is a bit scared.
Jim. Dear Father - Please pray for our two new priests as of tomorrow in the diocese of Rochester. The new priests will be Fathers Sergio Chavez and Peter VanLieshout. Ad multos annos. Thank you
Bob. Buffalo. What is the Catholic Church's position on the legalization of marijuana?
David. Buffalo. I have a comment regarding the in-vitro fertilization of humans and why it is wrong.
Terry. Lexington. Mass. When Jesus ate with the apostles after the Resurrection in His glorified body, did He do that for their sakes or did He have real hunger?

Mike: Rev. 21:4 He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more deathâ€™[a] or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.â€

Joan. Abbington Mass. I would like to say hi to Father and to pray that our Catholic programming will be back in our area-there was not enough funding
Bob Boston NY When Jesus said I thirst and was given the vinegar was that the "fourth cup"?
Prayer request for Chris that his move is successful and for his brother Pete for strength.

June 13

Anonymous. I would like to ask for prayers for a young family member who is struggling with drug addiction. He relapsed recently after being clean for many months. I ask the Lord to be with him and give him hope. I pray for his family to have strength through this very difficult journey and have wisdom in their relationship with him.
Betty from Texas via landmail: "Thank you for your sweet prayers for Rodolfo. He is trying to learn how to walk again and is making progress with his speech. Please continue to pray for him and for my precious daughter who has such compassion for all her students. She has adopted a foster child and has a lot of responsibility on her little shoulders. Thank you, too, for praying for me following my FOURTH foot surgery. I have made some progress. Please know, too, that I pray for you every day and appreciate everything that the Station of the Cross has done for me. Thank you for making us Protestants feel as if we are welcome to listen and to participate!"
Maureen from Facebook: May I ask for prayers for myself please? I was fired 4 months ago and am looking for a new full time job. And yesterday my minivan hit a pot hole ( go figure in Massachusetts!!) and the car stalled out and is no good. It cannot be fixed. I pray to God, and to Jesus, and to the Blessed Mother, and to the Holy Spirit daily and wanted to see if I can ask for your prayers as well.
Christopher. Houston, TX. Prayer Request: 1.) for the repose of the soul of Father Kenneth Walker + 2.) for the healing of Father Joseph Terra
Anonymous. 1) Question about what type of weddings a Catholic can participate in or witness, and 2) Question about an unexpected death.
Jim. Corning, NY. Wants to continue conversation about the Prosperity Gospel.
Sam. Buffalo. What is the church's opinion on hypnotism, especially when used for health purposes like smoking cessation or weight loss?
Ron. Newfane, NY. What is the interpretation of the "qualifications" of a Deacon or Bishop as described in 1 Timothy?
Margaret. Massachusetts. What is the church's teaching on Purgatory? Is this where we are judged for our sins in life?
Marie. Bedford, Massachusetts. Prayer Request: For her 17 year old son who had some problems, but then was able to go to confession for his sins.

June 10

pray for Marie's brother-in-law who is suffering from very serious depression.
Did we do the FB post yesterday where Caitlin's husband left her and she is requesting prayers?
Jason. Can you please pray for some very special intentions? Thanks and God bless!
Shawn from Facebook: I have a friend who is going to leave the Catholic Church because he feels closer to God in a non-denominational setting. He still professes Jesus Christ as His Lord, and does not speak ill of the Church, but he just doesn't think it is the One True Church. Instead, he feels that ALL believers form the One true Church. How should I think about this? What should I think about his salvation?
Rebecca. St.Petersburgh, Florida. i-phone. My sister is dying and I have questions regarding her being confirmed Catholic. I would also like you to pray for her.
Kevin. Cheektowaga, NY. I have a question regarding discernment.
Anonymous. I would like prayers please for my husband, Robert, and also for my friend, Carol, for speedy recoveries from their illnesses.
Carlos. Please pray for fathers. That they learn how to understand how to bring their wife and children closer to God. Thank you. Amen.
Beatrice. San Mateo, CA. "San-Ma-Tay-Oh" . i-phone. I would like some clarification on the Catholic Church's teaching on salvation.
Shelly. Boston, MA. Has questions about venial sins and also purgatory.

June 9

Michel via the free icatholicradio app that works on Apple and Android devices: I was born and raised as a Catholic believer. Now I am faced with the dilemma of abandoning a religion that I have believed in all my life. What is the difference between being a Catholic and being a Baptist? What does the term born again mean?
Ellen. This is a prayer request for my friend Joan . Thank God for the blessing of her new home and may He heal her physically and spiritually.
Anonymous from Facebook: Please pray for my annulment. It was a sham marriage but my ex is putting pressure on me not to go ahead with the annulment. Thanks.
Helen. Milton, Massachusetts. I am praying for a daughter of my friend who is terminally ill. I am asking for a miracle for her. Thank you.
John. Please pray for my father in law who was recently diagnosed with leukemia. I keep feeling that I should be praying to the Blessed Mother Teresa for her prayers. Please pray to Mother Teresa for him that she will intercede before Jesus.
Joan. Abbington, Massachusetts. Would like to say hello to Fr. and ask for prayer for herself and others.
Anonymous. I am asking for prayer for a serious criminal matter for a family member who is facing prison time. I ask the Holy Spirit to help this person during this time and lessen the severity of his sentence. I would also ask for prayer for a cure for a severe back pain (with much pain) for myself. Thank you.
Laura. Fr. Marty, I have a son who has ADHD and yesterday before 11 o'clock mass (about 10:45) I gave him his medicine in applesauce because he can't swallow a pill and he went to communion, however, after Mass as we got in our car I noticed it was only 11:48, so I don't think it was a full hour before my son taking his medicine in applesauce and receiving communion. Does this constitute grave matter?
Caitlin. Father Moleski, please pray for my family's strength against the attacks of the devil and for my marriage restoration. My husband has left our family and is living in sin. Please pray for St. Jude to intercede on our behalf. Thank you and God Bless.
Delores, Hamburg, NY. I ask prayers for our veterans and our country.
Barbara, New York. I ask prayer for my 6 year old grandson, named Orion (oh oh Ryan), who is battling Burkitts-lymphoma cancer. He recently overcame an infection that lasted months but is finally over that. However, he continues to battle this cancer.

June 6

Feast of St. Norbert: "He also adopted an asceticism so fierce that it killed his first three disciples. This may account for the failure of his attempts to reform the canons of Xanten,[5] who denounced him as an innovator at the Council of Fritzlar in 1118."
"Momnipotent"
Shawn from Facebook: Why do people, mainly baptist and Protestants in general, always assume Jesus will heal them or help them financially? They call it "health and wealth." To me, things can't always be perfect here. Only Heaven is perfect and free of suffering. We learn and grow from suffering. We have to pick up our cross and carry it. Am I missing something here?
Christopher. Houston Tx. Prayer Request.

For the repose of the soul of Father Rivers A. Patout III +
for those celebrating birthdays and anniversaries during the month of June.
for the physically health of my mother Deborah.
for all priests, bishops, deacons, religious, & seminarians.

Anonymous. During the Chaplet of Divine Mercy, one of the prayers we pray is to the Father (e.g. Eternal Father, I offer You...). I thought the Chaplet is supposed to be directed toward Jesus. So my question is when praying it, are we praying it to the Father or Jesus? Thanks.
Richard. in response to a question regarding the salvation of non-Catholics, the statement of the Catechism # 847 was repeated. how do we reconcile 847 in the Catechism with the very clear and explict teaching of Scripture in John 14:1-6 where Jesus tells us that He is the Way and that no one comes to the Father but by Him? additionally, the statement of #847 implies that there are those who fully live up to the light grated to them. If it were possible, they would clearly not need a Savior for they would have earned heaven. However, Romans chapter 3 (verses 9-18 and 22-24) make it very clear that sin is the universal condition of mankind.

it is precisely the jeopardy of the sinner that should motivate all believers to earnestly seek the salvation of the lost both in prayer and in deed. When Jesus in the Garden asked the Father to "let this cup pass from Me" and the Father's answer was no, we should understand that the Passion becomes grotesque if it was not absolutely and universally necessary.

Mary. My priest often says that one should never criticisize a priest. ( and in relation to him, this is no problem as he is one of the most honorable men I have ever had the pleasure to know) But, if this is true what should someone do when they have concerns over the behaviour of a priest? I have a close friend who recently came back to the church after 30 years away. Not long ago she went to confession during the stated times at a parish in Lancaster, she says she was last in line and when she went to enter the confessional the priest refused to hear her confession - and was so forceful about walking out he pushed her backwards with such force that she hit a pew behind her and carried a large,ugly bruise for weeks. More disturbing was that she felt that the experience was telling her that God does not want her. I can't console her.

This is not normal for a priest...and she is concerned that this is not a one off and that if this priest does this to an older person who is frail, or a young child who is new to confession that serious harm could be done (As if someone thinking God does not want them, isn't harm enough) What should she do if this ever happens again, is praying for this priest enough or should she have done something else? And do you have any advice to me to help her realize that this was not God saying he does not want her back in the Church.

Nona . Mass. I know God gives us free will but why doesn't He help us more to believe in Him
Ed. Rochester. NY. Some people believe the chair of St Peter is vacant. Why is that?
Robert. Buffalo. NY. I would like to comment about people outside the Catholic Church not believing in Salvation. I am a convert to Catholicism.
George. Bellingham Ma. I am having trouble with the Marian Consecration. I feel like I want to go directly to Jesus.
Maria. Prayer Request. My fourth child, a boy, is due on 9 July. Please pray for a good birth and a holy life for him.

May 30

Barbara from Boston called at the last minute last week. The show ends at 5:54. It may take three to five minutes to get on the air. Catholics love being last in line and sitting at the back of the Church, but this doesn't work out well for CAC! Call early and often!

Barbara's question: Why does the way the Mass is said differ from one place to another?

Chris. Houston, Tx. Please pray for

for the repose of the souls of Father Todd Reitmeyer + & Father Charles Schoenbaechler CR +
for priests celebrating the anniversaries of their ordination to the priesthood this year.
for seminarians preparing for their ordination to the transitional diaconate and the holy priesthood this year.
for the unemployed, lonely, unwanted, addicted and depressed that they will find hope & faith in the Risen Christ.

Anonymous. My child is engaged to a Jewish person, and they are planning their wedding. They live out of state and have attended Pre-Cana. They were planning a wedding in a Catholic church but the fianceâ€™s family strongly asked not to be in the presence of a large crucifix. I have been using the Catholic bishopsâ€™ article as guidance but I am not sure if I understand where they should be married and how best we can support their faith.
John. Webster, NY. He has a comment for a frequent caller, Fran, who called with anxiety issues. He recommends that he try the 30 days prayer to St. Joseph. This devotional was given to him in a Confessional and it has really helped him.
Anonymous. Buffalo. What is the name of the prayer to The Holy Spirit that Father Moleski just said?
Ben. Buffalo. Please explain why Ascension Thursday is celebrated on Thursday for some areas and not others. Also, he has a comment on that movie Heaven Is For Real.
Anonymous. Amherst, NY. We know a few people that identify themselves as homosexual. While we have raised our children in the faith to believe that God loves everyone, but not their sins and that their homosexual tendencies are not sinful except when acted upon, I think they are getting confused because my one teenager has now stated that there is nothing wrong with "gay" relationships. My reply was that we are all called to be chaste until we are married. Her reply was that that is why people that think they are gay should be allowed to be married. This brought us to the discussion of natural law and what the requirements are for a valid marriage. Her response was that she likes these particular individuals we know and she wants them to be happy. I think she is confused and believes that if we don't accept their behavior, that we are not being nice to them. Do you have a resource I can have her read that addresses this subject? And was I wrong to expose them to these individuals if the result is this kind of moral confusion?
Paul. Amherst. He would like to comment on the wonderful experience his son is having at Canisius College.

May 23

Lilia: Why are there so many women named "Mary" in the Bible?
Shawn, from Facebook: "With thousands of different religions, how do we know Christianity is the correct one?"

Types of Religions.

Fletcher, please answer after 5:15, if possible: "In Leviticus, there are laws that allow parents to kill their children and other laws that allow possession of slaves, both Jewish and Gentile. When did Christians decide that those laws are no longer in effect? If they are not in effect any more, why do other laws from the Old Testament remain binding on Christians? How do we tell which parts of the Old Testament are still part of our life as Christians?"
Phone call with a man.
Missed call from Barbara from Boston.

May 16

Answered earlier in the week

From Maria from Facebook (Facebook name: "Virginis Mariae"): I am a civilly divorced and remarried Catholic. My first husband has asked me not to obtain an annulment. He is living chastely and praying for reconciliation. I doubt I will reconcile with him because I never loved him as a husband. I do not want to offend the Lord, so I am trying to live as a sister with my second husband. May I then go to confession and take communion in a parish where no one knows me and therefore I wouldn't be committing the sin of scandal? If not, what shall I do?
From Maria (Facebook name: "Virginis Mariae"): My son asked why it is said the Jesus was crucified in a "tree." Also, he asked why should we hate the evil one since we are to love sinners but not their sins. Please help, he is 6 years old and I don't know the answers myself.
Anonymous. i am concerned if my husband and i are comitting a mortal sin in our ntimate relations, because i am premenopausing and i dont know when i am ovulating, so we spill the seed, i am 52 years old with some health issues, i used to use the monthly method, but my body is changing so i am very concern wether its a sin or mortal sin please help us do whats right thank you and God bless you.
Carolyn. Boston, MA. Has a question for Father regarding St. Joseph.
Patty. Boston, MA. Has a question in reverse of the previous caller. A friend has gotten pregnant by artificail insemination and she would like to know how to handle it.
Margaret. Boston. MA. Information about the Sin Of Presumption.
Fran. Otisco, NY. Would like to speak to Father regarding his anxiety and also about something Father discussed on a previous show about St. Joseph.
Dan. Batavia, NY. Has a question in regards to the Friday day of Penance and if it is only in the Octave of Easter.

May 9

Christopher. Houston TX. Prayer requests:

for the repose of the souls of Janice Prebilski + & Deacon Reinaldo Egusquiza +
for seminarian Tom as he prepares for his ordination to the transitional diaconate this month.
for Deacon Kyle as he prepares for his ordination to the holy priesthood this month.
for all mothers (living & deceased).

A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world (Jn 16).
Sue. This and her siblings first Mother's Day without their mother. She passed in November. They would like to feel the Lord's peace and celebrate her life..........
Brian. Buffalo. Can you give some examples of how sin can cloud our intellect, and prevent us from loving fully.....
Heidi Schiffert Rotella Fr. Marty, could you please post the full text of the Prayer that you shared in the beginning. It's so touching for those of us that struggle with Mother's Day.
Maria. Please pray for my 7 year old son Gabriel who not always behaves well at school. He doesn't see his father very often and his stepfather is very strict when it comes to discipline, which is a good thing but my son struggles with it at times. Please pray that I, my husband and my four children become very holy and love God more than anything else, making Him the first thing in our lives. Thank you.
Chuck. North Andover (Boston). Question/Comment: He read on the FRONT PAGE of the Boston Herald Newspaper that Harvard University is hosting a "Black Mass". Have you heard about this and can you comment? Are they allowed to do this?
Scott. New Hamshire. Would like to talk to Father about his niece that is trying to push mythology on their children.
Dolores. Boston, New York. Would like to talk to Father about making sure people in Nursing homes and very ill people are able to receive the Holy Eucharist and Last Rites.....

April 25

Jane. Buffalo. Eastern Catholics call this week "Bright Week." Because of the joy of Easter and contrary to their normal discipline, they are not obliged to abstain from meat today. Are there any Fridays of the year that Roman Catholics do not have to offer some kind of penance in memory of Good Friday?
Caroline from Facebook: Was Mary Magdalene the woman caught in adultery? Was she the woman who washed Jesus' feet with her tears and dried his feet with her hair? Was she the sister of Martha and Lazarus? What were the seven demons that Jesus drove out of her?
Scott. Rochester, NY. Sunday's Gospel is about doubting Thomas, but it is also Divine Mercy Sunday. Why isn't there anything in the Gospel about The Divine Mercy?
Ken. Salem, NH. In the recent movie, Heaven is for Real, the boy says he say his miscarried sister there. In the 70s, they taught that unbaptized babies go to limbo. Is this still the Catholic teaching?
Anonymous. Please explain how the Church will celebrate Divine Mercy Sunday. What process does the priest follow etc?
Bob. Cheektowaga, NY. What do we know about St. Joseph's parents, such as their names, etc.
Dan. LeRoy, NY. He has been saying to Divine Mercy Chaplet. Does it need to be said at exactly 3pm? Where can he get ahold of Fr. Corapi's CD's? Lastly, please pray for his son and daughter.
What do we know about Joseph's parents?
Anonymous. Hamburg. She has been praying to Our Lady that on the day of Pope John XXIII and Pope John Paul II's canonizations, that many miracles will be performed.

April 22

Sequence for Pentecost
Shawn from Facebook: Is right to say that every binding teaching about Mary truly reflects onto Christ first? And it's because of Christ, not on anything if her own accord? I have been reading about how St. Thomas had problems with Mary being Immaculate conceived, I must say Father, I too have problems grasping this and being fully onboard with it. Is it ok to say, "I do not deny what the Church teaches, but I do not understand it."
Anonymous. Regarding Divine Mercy Sunday, is the priest requested to acknowledge this feast day during the mass, and if so, what is he required to do? I was at a mass on Divine Mercy Sunday last year and the feast was not mentioned at all.
Bob. Cheektowaga, NY. What is the name of St. Joseph's mother? I know his father's name was Jacob, and am wondering about his mother.
Terri. Boston, MA. Please pray for my friend, Judy, who is considering returning to the faith and needs the courage to go to reconciliation this weekend.
Ken. Salem, New Hampshire. I would like to know if making the sign of the cross on the head, lips, and heart is mainly for the priest or is it for the people to do as well. I thought I had heard it was mainly for the priest to do.
61. Joe. Chili, NY. At Easter Mass they ran out of consecrated hosts, and I'm wondering how this situation should be handled. Many people did not receive the Eucharist that day.
James. Littleton, MA. I would like some suggestions on how to bridge the gap in introducing spiritual topics with people that don't seem focused on their spirituality.
Sylvia. Boston, MA. How were things like the Agony in the Garden written about and known if the apostles were asleep?

April 15

Anonymous. I was wondering how to avoid being jealous or envious of others. Every time it creeps up I ask God to help me try and avoid these feelings but they always seem to win and I feel like I'm not being a faithful follower.
Chris. Houston. Please pray for the repose of the soul of Sister Eva Regina Martin, for the physical health of my mother Deborah, and for the elect & RCIA candidates who are preparing to enter the Church at the Easter Vigil.
Megan. Sterling Heights, Michigan. Please pray for John and his wife to return to the Church.
Isabelle. El Paso, Texas. i-phone. Can you explain bible verse Luke 14:49.
Anonymous. I wanted to share the St. Phillip Neri confession story where he told the person to individually throw the feathers from a chicken throughout the town, and then to come back to him. When the person came back he instructed the person to go back out and gather all the feathers. When the person said that would be impossible, St. Phillip Neri said that is exactly what happens when we speak ill against others...we cannot gather back our offenses. I thought this was a great explanation about sin and its effects.
William. Waltham, MA. I have a child in a catholic school and the teacher is recommending booking with foul language. Please advise how I can handle this situation.
Joan. Abington, MA. Today is the anniversary of the Boston bombings. Please offer a pray for us.
Janett. Buffalo. My cousin is Pentecostal, and she always tells me that the Bible says not to adore images as Catholics do. How can l answer her?
Mary. My mom Sheila thinks Jesus was married to Mary Magdelen. Her friends tell her that He was. She is listening now. Can you please explain to her how He wasn't?
John. Webster, NY. Please explain what is included in a passover meal. I've watched a couple youtube videos and I'm trying to relate it to Jesus and the Last Supper.
Tim. Templeton, MA. I'm comparing the 2 bible verses 1Cor15 (the degrees of glory in heaven) and John 14:2 (my Father has many mansions in heaven) and would like more clarification regarding the truths stated here.

April 11

Feast of St. Stanislaus of Krakow, bishop and martyr (1030-1079).
Feast of St. Gemma Galgani.
Prayer Request: Joseph D. Joseph &Carolyn: Financial health. Healthy relationship. Reconcile. Get married. Happiness. get along. All quarrels, misfortunes, plagues, impoverishment and attacks to be quench and subside. Blessings in daily lives, works, minds, health, happiness. Those in my prayer lists: Protections, resources, happiness, safety, quench storms, remove thorns, bless in our daily lives, families, relationships, resources, works, foods, water, and shelters. Grant us final perseverance. Health: of Mind, Body, resources, careers, finances, families, relationships, future, shelter, foods, water, air, emotions, heart, soul, studies, careers, businesses. Those in most need of Gods Mercy: Yahweh our God and Mother of Perpetual Help. We commit this world and everything into your hands forever. With all souls, sinners, our families, bloodline, hopes, works, relationships and future. Have mercy on us always through the blood, wounds, face , heart & works of Jesus our Lord. Bless our ways, Grant us protection ,safety and final perseverance always. Unite all our works and prayers with those of the Confraternity of Capuchin, Rosary Confraternity of Dominican& Fatima always. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Luz M. I saw Jesus standing at the foot side of my bed a few months ago. He said to me: " Look for me in the light." For months Iâ€™ve been struggling to understand what this means. I went to my local parish and brought this up to the priest there. He simply stated why would Jesus appear to ME and not him whoâ€™s a priest? Should i file a complaint against him? Is this proper of him to say? Iâ€™m not a nun or a priest, but Jesus came and appear to all those who were sinners, nonbelievers and criminals, etc.. Do you think his response was appropriate? I'm going through something difficult and feel Jesus appeared to me as a way of letting me know heâ€™s with me.
Laura. Buffalo. Opinion about Father Kelly video on Facebook viral video singing "Alleluia" at the end of Wedding Mass.
Scott. Rochester. ("Brother Knight"). Said the prayer "Blessed are You Lord of all creation" and someone overheard him. He wants to know if he committed a Venial or Mortal sin (or any sin at all) by saying a prayer reserved for Priests. He has also pointed the finger at God about his blindness and wants to know if that is a sin and if so, what kind? Prayer Request for an opportunity to get a job promotion.
Diane. Williamsville. Yesterday the question was asked in regards to the Divine Mercy Chaplet about the words "Eternal Father, I offer you the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of your dearly beloved Son, Jesus Christ" and how we as human beings can do that. I missed the answer and as I am devoted to this prayer, I have often wondered myself. Would you be so kind to answer this for me?
George. Bellingham. Massachusetts. Lost the call, but wanted to ask Father to go through the "Our Father" prayer line by line and explain what it means.
Ellen. Buffalo. Prayer request for her cousin Amy Betross on her Birthday (today) that God will bless her and in Thanksgiving for her life and the work she does for Him. Also, for Norm Paolini whose birthday is the 19th and in thanksgiving for His life and the work he also does for God.
Kim. Rochester. Has a question about the Jews and the Gentiles.
Anonymous. Prayer request for two very serious illnesses and a surgery. MaryJane and David. Please pray for their healing and that surgery goes well.
Dan. Leroy New York. Prayer request for his children and want to know if you are aware of a Web Browser other than FireFox he should use in light of the firing of the CEO for giving $1,000.00 to anti-gay organization.
Betty. Temple Texas. Prayer request.
Mike: For Dan in Leroy, FireFox CEO was not fired, he resigned under pressure.

April 4

Laura from Facebook: A friend of mine left the Catholic Church because of a couple of marriages. She was married in the Catholic Church, then got divorced and married someone else, and then got divorced again. She said she didn't believe in annulments because of her children--she doesn't like the fact that an annulment says the marriage never existed. I told her that the annulment process will help identify what was lacking that prevented the sacrament of marriage from taking place. If she is no longer living in a marriage, would she still need to get an annulment in order to return to the sacraments?
Betty. Fr. Marty,Will you please pray for one of my daughter's students? His name is Rodolfo, and he suffered a brain aneurysm Wed. evening. The prognosis is not good. Also one of her former students, Brandon, was murdered across the street from the school this week. It is PERHAPS drug-related. And, of course, pray for those killed and injured at Ft. Hood (just 20 min. from us), and for the soul of the young man who did this. Thank you for praying for them and their families.
Christopher, Houston, TX. Prayer Requests:

for the repose of the souls of Marian G. Willoughby + and Enrique D. Trevino +
for the physically health of my mother Deborah.
for the elect & RCIA candidates who are preparing to enter the Church at the Easter Vigil.
for all priests, bishops, deacons, religious, & seminarians.
for those celebrating birthdays & anniversaries during the month of April.

Joan. Buffalo. Has a prayer request for Father regarding a friend of hers that has gone missing.
Al. Telham New Hampshire. Would like to speak with Father about the definition of NEPHALIM found in the Book of Genesis.
Brian. Massachusetts. What does the Church teach that happens after we die? I believe that we go up to Heaven and our soul is judged. So after Jesus comes back, does our body meet our soul ? Please clarify as I am having a difficult time understanding this.
John. My son Peter has been having a hard time finding a job. Please pray for him to get the job he interviewed for today.

I saw Noah last Sunday. It went much further away from the Biblical account than I expected it to!

March 31

Lani: My husband's employment contract has just ended. We've been praying hard that he gets another job. There are times when I feel at peace, but there are times when I feel that God is not listening. How do I respond to my kids when they ask me why God is not answering our prayers? Also, how do I strengthen my hope and faith?
Bruce from Santa Barbara, California, listening on iCatholicRadio: "I have seven children. Two of them are in college and are starting to say things like "There is more than one way to get to Heaven." They seem to be straying from the faith. Do you have any particular prayers for spiritual warfare that I can say for my children?
Maryann. Dover, New Hamp. I am looking for a "Miracle for Marcie", my granddaughter who may loose her leg from an injury a couple years ago.
Carolos. El Paso, TX. I have a question as to how Mary was conceived without original sin? Was this revealed by personal revelation?
John. I bring Holy Communion to my Aunt at her nursing home. There is another woman who does the same. She said that she gives Communion to Non-Catholics, who are very devout and cannot practice their faith due to their circumstances. A priest overheard this and said he knows the people and it was acceptable. It was stated that these people claim to recognize the Communion as the body of Christ. Is this correct and can I do the same?
PAT. Boston, Mass. Prayer for depression--DeGrandis' forgiveness prayer.
Delores, Boston, NY. I have 4 prayer requests and one question. Prayers for Joanne (surgery); Janet-a young mother with cancer; Lee ?; Michael-shingles. I would like to know if Vincent Ferrar is a Saint. I think he is but not sure.
Jesus (Hasoos). Boston, MA. I have delivered Holy communion to nursing home and sometimes a person will spit it out. What do I do?

March 28

Noah opens today.
Bridgette. Buffalo. Just wanted to let Father know that her Lenten preparation is listening to Father.
Jim. Franklin, Pa. In Philippians, it says to work out our salvation in fear and trembling, yet The Holy Father says we are to be joyful. How do we do that?
Karen heard Mark Shea pray for people who are mentally ill at 3:30 today on the air. He seemed to suggest that it was because they were not brought up in the faith. Is that true?
Joe. Buffalo. How does free will and God's Will correlate to one another? And how do statements such as "if it's meant to be, it's meant to be" and "it's destiny" and "everything happens for a reason" relate to the idea of our having free will?
Rick. Grand Island. What was the revelation Thomas Acquinas has to say all we know is a grain of sand?
Tim. Central Massachusettes. He has a few older brothers that are Mormons, what's the one or two biggest reasons why leaving the Catholic faith and becoming Mormon might keep them from going to Heaven?
Ken. Salem, NH. In Sunday's Gospel, why did Jesus use mud to make the blind man see?

March 21

Rhonda. Rochester, NY How literally should we Catholics read the Old Testament?
Pat. Boston. MA What does it mean when people kiss their hands after they bless themselves?
Michael. Tonawanda NY. I heard you get a plenanary (sp) when you go into a Basilica-Can you explain this?
Bernandette. Buffalo. Is it ok to pray for the soul of my ex-husband who left our family for a life of drugs?
Alice. Boston MA. I am Hispanic but would like to know when you cross yourself before the Gospel, what do you pray in English?
Kathleen. Boston. MA. I am considering joining a 3rd order. Can you tell me anything about the Carmelites or Dominicans or Benedictines?
Barbara. kenmore. Was not abstaining from meat on Fridays a mortal sin and how do Protestants justify divorce and remarriage?
Maria. Nadek. MA. I would like to comment on the kissing of hands when people bless themselves
Marie. Rochester. NY. I would like to ask about my husband who is still living because I have a similar situation as the previous caller whose husband lived a bad life.
Al. Hew Hampshire. Regarding the gospel this week of the rich man and Lazarus I would like to ask if the rich man is in Purgatory or Hell?
Mike. Rochester. NY. How can I respond to a young high school boy who is questioning his faith?
Dorothy. Rochester NY. I have some observations on when people kiss their fingers when they make the sign of the cross
Al. New Hampshire, Regarding the gospel this week of the rich man and Lazarus, is the rich man in Purgatory or Hell?
Marie. Rochester. NY, I would like to ask about my living husband who is living a bad life similar to a previous caller.

March 7

Special edition of Faith 'n' Reason Friday with Dale Ahlquist.
Anonymous from Facebook: "My mom is interested in sending me to the Chesterton Academy. I love everything I've seen about it except one thing. Daily Mass. I go twice a week now and find Mass boring. Mom said that the school won't change their policy of daily Mass, but maybe I can change my perspective of Mass. I'm wondering if you can make some suggestions on how to do that. I want to like the idea of daily Mass so I'll like Chesterton 100%. Thank you for any help you can give me!"

February 28

Today is the one-year of Pope Benedict's retirement from the papacy. It's been a wild ride! He gave us Francis.
Faith 'n' Reason Friday
The Station of Cross is dedicated to "Converting Hearts to Christ." "If there is any encouragement in Christ, any solace in love, any participation in the Spirit, any compassion and mercy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, with the same love, united in heart, thinking one thing" (Phil 2:1-2).
The Month of February has been dedicated to the Holy Family (HFC).
Next Wednesday is Ash Wednesday.
RIP Harold Ramis, co-author of Groundhog Day and co-star of Ghostbusters.
Any topic OK.
All callers welcome.
Serenity Prayer
Anonymous: I have heard some good things about the new movie, "Son of God," which is opening in theaters today. My mother is going to the theater this afternoon for the 4 PM showing. Is this a good movie for Catholics to watch?
NOT ON THE LINE. Anonymous. Could you please discuss some good food options or recipes for Fridays in Lent? By the time Lent ends I get sick of mac & cheese, fish dishes, tuna casseroles, grilled cheese sandwiches, etc. Iâ€™d like to abstain from meat every Friday of the year but Iâ€™d like some other ideas to help me in this.

"Meatless Recipes for Lent and Throughout the Year."

Macrobiotic.

Vegetarian (allows eggs, cheese, butter).

Vegan (no eggs or dairy products).

Anonymous: I feel angry all the time. My confessor suggested that I should examine my conscience daily about the things that make me angry. What should I do with these feelings?
Cindy from Rochester, NY. I have an young son, 11 years old. We have been experiencing a lot of sadness (death and illness) in the family and he asks why these bad things are happening to good people? Can you help explain this?

Suffering.

Theresa. How can my 10th-grade daughter respond to her New Testament teacher regarding her comments as God as Father and Mother? She would like to call her out on this but needs help in what to say.
Maria. An acquaintance said with confidence that Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI was pro-nazism. I've never heard such a claim before. Any truth is that? How can I respond in defense to our Pope Emeritus? Thank you.
Mary. Buffalo. Is there RCIA or anything else for my god children who don't attend CCD so that they can receive the sacraments?
Anonymous. Rochester, NY. What is the damage that women priests cause to true Catholics who believe they are attending a legitimate Mass?
Catherine. East Aurora. NY. Prayer request: for a favorable outcome on a test for myself.

Friday, 21 February

Jerry from e-mail: I am a Ukrainian Catholic and am watching the unfolding events in Ukraine with great sadness and trepidation. Please pray for our suffering brothers and sisters in Ukraine, for an immediate stop to the violence and bloodshed, for a quick restoration of peace and order, and that Almighty God may help the Ukrainian nation elect a truly democratic government which will heed the will of the people. Please also pray for the repose of the souls of all who have died in this civil unrest and for the consolation of their families and friends.
Scott (Knights of Columbus) Rochester, New York. In St. Paul Chapter 4 ...led to captivity. What does that mean? and In James Chapter 4 Where do wars come from.... What is the meaning of that? Please pray for me if I should go on for 3 degree of the Knights.
Bob from Cheektowaga, NY. I heard Fr. Rick on the show last week and he said you had to be a Catholic in good standing to receive all the sacraments. I don't understand this answer as I wonder if Jesus and His Apostles required that the persons they encountered be without sin?
Rick. Auburn, New York Wants to know if there is any information of a sapphire book that provided the dimensions of Noah's arc. He saw a documentary on A & E regarding this information.
Margaret .Cyler, New York. Fr prayed for her and she wanted to thank him. Knee surgery was a success and she is now in physical therapy.
Dean. Boston. Massachusetts. Can we ever consider a vision or a medium as gift or is it more demonic?
Alice. Boston. Massachusetts. Where do I stand now that i had my tubes tied and cant\'t reverse.
Nicole. Natick. Massachusetts. Comment and encouragement for Bob.

February 17

My Mom's 88th birthday.
John from Facebook: I have heard that some secular skeptics argue that we can't even be sure that Jesus existed because the gospel accounts were written so long after Christianity began. I heard a minister say that the people of that time valued the oral word more than the written word. Is that true?
Scott. Rochester, NY. I would like to ask for prayer for my eyesight (I have none) and for my friends who are not supportive of my desire. I would also like to ask why in the sacrifice of the Holy Mass, does Father pour a couple droplets of water into the wine? Where does this come from?
Kathy. Rochester, NY. I would like to tell Fr. I have been praying to Our Lady -Undoer of Knots as I have just received a book from a friend about this. Can you join with me Fr. in praying that my anorexia and depression, which I have suffered for 43 years be healed?
Mark. Upstate NY. My sister is married to a Muslim and his children are not baptized. Is there anything I can do about this?
Joe. S. Buffalo. I have a question regarding prayer and graces obtained from them.
Cindy. Oil City, Pennsylvania. She is a new listener and loves the show and radio station. She wants to give a Thank you to Fr. and the Station of the Cross.
Chris. Boston, Mass. I want to thank Fr. and Calling all Catholics for prayer a couple months for an accident victim who is doing better. Its a real miracle for his healing. Thank you.
John. Canandaigua, NY. I have prostrate cancer which has spread to my bones. Will you please pray for healing?
Bob. Lowell, Mass. What is the proper posture for the laity when the Host and Chalice is elevated?
Robert. Auburn, NY. Can Fr. talk about transcendental meditiation. I am trying to explain to family members the Catholic position?
Angie. Rochester, NY. I am having vascular surgery next Tuesday. Can you pray for me?

Friday, 14 February

Memorial of Saints Cyril, Monk, and Methodius, Bishop.

- Greek brothers from Byzantium, later Constantinople, now Istanbul.

- 9th century apostles to the Slavs (who gave us the word, "slaves").

- Cyril was skilled in Arabic and Hebrew; spent time among the Muslims.

- Sent by the Roman Emperor of Constantinople to Moravia (now in the eastern part of the Czech Republic).

- Developed the Glagolitic alphabet for the Slavonic and Slavic languages; a later version is called "Cyrillic" in honor of St. Cyril. Variants of the Cyrillic alphabet are used in many modern Slavic countries: Bulgaria (where it was developed), Bosnia and Herzegovina, Bealarus, Macedonia, Montenegro, Russia, Ukraine, among others.

- Created a new Slavic liturgy, much to the consternation of bishops in the west.

- Cyril died in Rome on February 14, 869, after their first mission journey. Methodius was made a bishop of Great Moravia and Pannonia and died 15 years later.

- The work of Cyril and Methodius paved the way for the spread of Christianity throughout Eastern Europe.

St. Valentine's Day: "The martyr Valentinus who died on the 14th of February 269 on the Via Flaminia close to the Milvian bridge in Rome" still remains in the list of officially recognized saints for local veneration."

- Patron of Love, lovers, Young People, Happy Marriages.

- Honored in Rome since 496 AD as one of those "whose names are justly reverenced among men, but whose acts are known only to God."

- Legend has it that he was caught marrying Christian couples during the persecution under Emperor Claudius. Another story says that while awaiting his execution, Valentinus restored the sight of his jailer's blind daughter, then, on the eve of his death, penned a farewell note to her, signing it, "From your Valentine."

- The association of Valentine with romantic love didn't take place until 1381, when Chaucer wrote a poem in honor of King Richard II of England and Anne of Bohemia which included the line, "For this was on St. Valentine's Day, when every bird cometh ...to choose his mate."

Uncle Lawrny's 84th birthday (RIP).
"Converting Hearts to Christ."
The Month of February is dedicated to the Holy Family (HFC).
Betty. Texas. Please pray for the following:

1. Joyce, whose chemo was suspended so that doctors could treat an abscess in the stomach

2. Myself and my 4th surgery (in a year and a half) on right foot next Thursday. This time I must sit for 8 weeks. Please pray that the bones will fuse this time. I need healing and lots of patience. Thanks!

Kimberly. Weeks ago, one of the readings was about sin. We should not pray for people who are in a certain kind of sin. It mentioned only fasting can remove the sin? I am a little confused. Can you please clarify?
Anonymous. Massachusetts. This is a difficult question for me. Initially, I was very sexual with my husband. Throughout our marriage, I believe I have been saved from the sin of lust. But, now he thinks we are boring and I am concerned about losing him, since he values physical touch and I have been very distant. I am trying to find some middle ground. Can you advise?
Sherry. Arlington, Virginia. iCatholic. I have a question about suffering and "offering it up". I am not a cradle Catholic, so I did not get the benefit of learning about this while growing up. What I've done is simply a mental prayer like this: "Dear God, I offer you this pain (or discomfort, or whatever suffering I am going through at the moment)". Is this adequate? Sometimes I add " to join in Christ's suffering on the cross in order to help redeem the world (or for some other purpose like to help a sick friend or family member)". Is this an acceptable way to offer up suffering? Thank you. We love your radio show!
Agnes. Boston, Massachusetts. Can a priest baptize someone who is bedridden or hospitalized but is in coherent/ Unaware?
Joe. Chili, New York. Our priest, at Peace, leaves the alter and shakes hands with members of the congregation. He is not on the alter then, when the "Lamb of God" begins. Shouldn't he be on the alter? or not leave the alter at all?
Grace. Pennfield, New York. I called a few weeks ago about my daughter's baby going to be born.. She was born Sun. Had her heart surgery today. Please pray in Thanksgiving for everyone's prayers.
Anonymous. Buffalo, New York. About the previous question about forgiveness. I go to Adoration and find it very helpful. You can just sit. Or Pray. But I read in a book in the chapel to say "Have Mercy on me God and bless this person I am upset with. It is causing distress." I found that saying this over and over is soothing. Also, remind ourselves to count our blessings.
Somewhere on the thruway in New York. Please remind drivers to be patient with other drivers. Sometimes the person you are angry at may be having a bad day, or thinking about one of these important issues we are listening to.
Scott. Rochester, New York. In Exodus, the reading says "Eat it like those who are in flight." I thought Passover was to be a celebratory thing. Why would they be asked to hasten?
Theresa. Southern California. Thank you for the clarification about the transition from Valentines Day about beheading in history to love. Prayer Request: please pray for healing for my Aunt who is struggling with Alzheimers.

February 7

Chris. Houston. Please pray 1.) for the repose of the souls of Msgr. Edward Miller + & JoAnn M. Jackson+ 2.) for the physically health of my mother Deborah. 3.) for all priests, bishops, deacons, religious, & seminarians. 4.) for those celebrating birthdays & anniversaries during the month of February.
Robert . Buffalo. Wants to speak to Father in regards to a Scripture passage that complains about John the Baptist. "Wisdom is vindicated" . He really can't remember too much.
Anonymous. Victor, NY. Please pray for my family that we are able to obtain funds in order to find a place to live, and to get contact from t a family member, for their safety and whereabouts. Also, please pray for a healing for a nerve problem I have in my legs.
KEN. West Seneca. Would like to know that if through the years the Church has had a policy change on the Sacrament of Confirmation. Is it a requirement now and has it always been?
Dolores. Boston, NY. Would like to tell Father about her friend in the hospital who had cancer for 32 years and also would like prayers.
Anonymous from Facebook: What should we do when people at church are uncharitable and self-centered?

The short answer from a friend is, "Take what you want to see in Church with you. If you seek love, love, and you will find love."

My other favorite reflection from Frank Sheed is, "Expect nothing from the Church except the sacraments." If all we get from going to our parish is Jesus Himself, that is quite a lot.

From Gina's Mom: A "flash mob" showed up at Our Lady of Perpetual Help to boost attendance for that Sunday. The Buffalo Mass Mob picks a church and you come to Mass there.

- http://buffalomassmob.wordpress.com/

Theresa from e-mail: I've heard that it is inappropriate to watch the Harry Potter movies because of the magical elements. Do you agree? If it is OK to watch the movies, what is the appropriate age to let children see them?

Harry Potter

John from Skype conversation: Will there be races in Heaven? Blacks, whites, Hispanics, Asians, etc.?
Theresa from California listening on iCatholicRadio: How do I answer someone who told me the cancer that I got in 2000 was a result of something I was keeping a secret?

January 31

Billy. Buffalo, NY. Father Marty , I heard you speak once about life being theater of free will. I'm sure I'm not quoting exactly, but I remember it being fascinating, could u explain again, or tell me when it was and I'll podcast. Thank u
Rick. Grand Island, NY I would like to ask Father about the footnotes of Psalm 51 from this mornings reading.
John. Father, Please pray for my family. I have three teenage boys who have turned away from God. My wife is depressed and has also turned away from God and wants a divorce. We used to have God in our thoughts. Please pray for the Holy Spirit to touch the hearts of my family.
Fran. Natisco, NY I have had anxiety problems for awhile and was wondering if you thought it would go away. I pray to the Blessed Mother but do you think I should be praying to someone else or doing something different. Also, would you pray for me?
Bonnie. Springville, NY PRAYER REQ-Jerry-eyesight, arm, legs, heart, My dad-Keith, diabetes and heart, Estella-her cancer, Geri-her cancer, brothe Bob-health, safe trip, andrew-direction,Diane-nueralgia myself-anemia,eyesight and legs,
Phil. Rochester, NY Why don't Matthews and Lukes gospels on the Presentation, Feb 2 coincide?
Theresa. Southern California. I love you guys, you make a great team! How do a answer someone that told me the cancer I got in 2000 was a result of some secret I was harbouring.

27 January

Anonymous from e-mail: Please pray for the healing of my family. Many are facing illness, hardship, and hurt. Please ask God to help them.
Lawrence. I am from the country of Liberia and a born Catholic and would like more information why people say that we worship Mary, the mother of Christ?
Anonymous. Ohio. I am a new listener and thank you for the new Catholic radio station in our area. WMIH. 89.5FM out of Geneva Ohio (serving Northeast Ohio and PA).
Jennifer, New York. I was raised Christian Scientist and my family was very distrustful of Catholics. I am listening to the radio station and enjoying it very much. I have a good friend, Rita, who is a devout Catholic and is praying for me. Thank you for the radio station and I am becoming more trusting of the Catholic faith.
Agnes. N. Andover, Massachusetts. I would like to give my opinion on the Blessed Mother. That is, how I pray through her to Our Lord.
Delores, Hamburg, NY. I have a question: How do I get the original program about the Jesuit education program? Is it in a book? I also would like prayers for the repose of soul of Sister Mary of the Incarnation and Sister Tibertia.

Movies and the New Evangelization

Ken, not on the line. Called on Friday to ask what impact these Hollywood movies would have on the new evangelization:

Pious; intended to evangelize, I think.: - Gimme Shelter (pro-life movie, 2014). Very definitely not Give Me Shelter (pro-animal documentary, 2013).; - Son of God (History Channel, 2014).; - Left Behind (remake, Nicolas Cage, 2014).; - Heaven Is For Real (little boy, near death experience, 2014).; - God's Not Dead (2014).
Relatively secular. "God" is just another character in an action-hero movie.: - Noah (Russell Crowe, 2014); - Exodus (a.k.a. Moses; starring Christian Bale, 2014). The name of the movie is "Exodus," not "Moses."; - Day of War (Ken called it "King David"; 2014).; - Gods of Egypt (2016).

Commentators

"John Darrouzet is a successful Hollywood screenwriter, an accomplished lawyer, a student of decision-making, and a deeply committed Roman Catholic layman."

"Simply put, I want to show how to help others find faith by watching movies."

24 January

{For Mass: remember Stephen E. Banker's 80th birthday; RIP, 26 May 2010.}
"Pope's Message for World Communications Day."
Theresa: Please pray for my cousin, who has back problems that surgery has not been able to cure. When I told her to look at the suffering of Jesus as a pattern for her to follow, she said, "He only suffered for 24 hours." Is that true? I feel He suffered all of His life.

Suffering

Ken, not on the line. Called on Friday to ask what impact these Hollywood movies would have on the new evangelization:

Pious; intended to evangelize, I think.: - Gimme Shelter (pro-life movie, 2014). Very definitely not Give Me Shelter (pro-animal documentary, 2013).; - Son of God (History Channel, 2014).; - Left Behind (remake, Nicolas Cage, 2014).; - Heaven Is For Real (little boy, near death experience, 2014).; - God's Not Dead (2014).
Relatively secular. "God" is just another character in an action-hero movie.: - Noah (Russell Crowe, 2014); - Exodus (a.k.a. Moses; starring Christian Bale, 2014). The name of the movie is "Exodus," not "Moses."; - Day of War (Ken called it "King David"; 2014).; - Gods of Egypt (2016).